{"id":16767,"date":"2020-03-22T08:07:27","date_gmt":"2020-03-22T08:07:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16767"},"modified":"2022-05-22T22:53:40","modified_gmt":"2022-05-22T22:53:40","slug":"6-razoes-para-nunca-aceitar-um-traidor-de-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-razoes-para-nunca-aceitar-um-traidor-de-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"6 raz\u00f5es pelas quais nunca se deve aceitar um traidor de volta"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s so hard to find a faithful partner because it\u2019s easier to cheat and hope the other one doesn\u2019t find out than to talk to your significant other and tell them you are not happy or that you have a problem and you want to solve it.<\/p>\n

A maioria dos meus amigos j\u00e1 foi tra\u00edda pelo menos uma vez na vida, que eles saibam.<\/p>\n

And I always told them the same thing: \u201cYou can forgive him, but things are never going to be the same.\u201d<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s true. You will never be able to forget what he did to you.<\/p>\n

Every time he touches you and kisses you, you\u2019ll know that he touched and kissed her, too. You\u2019ll know that you weren\u2019t the only one.<\/p>\n

Living with that burden is not easy, and no matter how sorry he was, he couldn\u2019t be sorry enough.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nenhuma desculpa que possa justificar as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es. E o que algumas mulheres fazem depois desta trai\u00e7\u00e3o final \u00e9 aceitar o seu rabo de volta.<\/p>\n

They do it because they love him and despite the horrible thing he has done, they still didn\u2019t stop loving him.<\/p>\n

But, don\u2019t do that mistake because things are never going to be the same. Your love for him will change and it will fade.<\/p>\n

Eis as raz\u00f5es pelas quais nunca se deve aceitar um traidor de volta:<\/p>\n

1. He doesn\u2019t love you enough<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

I know this is hard to hear, but it\u2019s true. If he loved you the way you deserve, he wouldn\u2019t have cheated on you.<\/p>\n

It wouldn\u2019t even have crossed his mind because you would have been more than enough. This way, he offended you and showed you he doesn\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n

That is not love. Don\u2019t fall for the mind game of convincing you that it\u2019s your fault because you didn\u2019t give him enough attention or you didn\u2019t fulfil his needs.<\/p>\n

There is a cure for that and it\u2019s called \u2018communication\u2019. Too bad for him for not trying it sooner\u2014now it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

2. Ele voltar\u00e1 a faz\u00ea-lo<\/h2>\n

\"amantes<\/p>\n

Se ficar com ele, ele acreditar\u00e1 inconscientemente que o que fez n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o mau porque o perdoou.<\/p>\n

A sua mentalidade vai mudar e ele vai come\u00e7ar a fazer coisas que provavelmente te v\u00e3o magoar porque lhe mostraste que consegues ultrapassar coisas como esta.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will probably do it again. He will cheat on you and turn you into an emotional wreck because he knows he can. He knows you love him and you will get over things which you wouldn\u2019t normally.<\/p>\n

3. Ele envergonhou-te<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When he chose to cheat on you, he did it willingly and on purpose\u2014which means that he hurt you on purpose.<\/p>\n

His deed showed that he doesn\u2019t respect you and maybe even thinks that you are too dumb to find out he was cheating on you.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t care what other people think. He didn\u2019t care that others might have known of his infidelity and they laughed behind your back, or felt sorry for you, but no one ever had the guts to say it to your face.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t care for any of that. He embarrassed you and moved on with his life. Do you want to live like the woman who was played for a fool and took him back?<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 14 raz\u00f5es definitivas para nunca aceitar de volta um ex que te deixou<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

4. Nunca o esquecer\u00e1s<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Ele pode ser o teu maior amor, pode ser o teu mundo, mas tamb\u00e9m pode ser o tipo que te traiu.<\/p>\n

Ele ser\u00e1 o tipo que traiu a tua confian\u00e7a, que agiu nas tuas costas e que te fez passar por parvo. Isso \u00e9 algo que nunca esquecer\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You can try, you can pretend, but the moment he goes out and doesn\u2019t text you back, you will be wondering if he is with another woman again.<\/p>\n

Vais lembrar-te de tudo o que ele te fez. Tal como te lembras de quando ficaste t\u00e3o b\u00eabada que ca\u00edste no bar.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t your proudest moment, but you will remember it forever. You will remember him cheating on you forever and it will bother you every minute of every day.<\/p>\n

5. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

His act only shows he didn\u2019t give a shit about you. He was too selfish to take your feelings into consideration. It\u2019s not like he didn\u2019t have a choice.<\/p>\n

Tem sempre uma escolha e ele escolheu para carimbar no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> and break it. He chose to cheat on you\u2014he didn\u2019t think twice about it.<\/p>\n

How can you be sure he won\u2019t do it again? How can you be sure when he goes somewhere that he is not cheating on you again. You can\u2019t. You know what they say, \u201cOnce a cheater, always a cheater.\u201d<\/p>\n

6. Mereces mais<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If a guy betrays your trust and does something like this to you, let\u2019s face it\u2014he doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que perderia o seu tempo com algu\u00e9m assim? Por que raz\u00e3o perderia o seu tempo a tentar torn\u00e1-lo melhor, a tentar traz\u00ea-lo para o caminho certo?<\/p>\n

He will never change and he chose it to be like that. If he had cared, he wouldn\u2019t have cheated.<\/p>\n

Esse homem n\u00e3o vale o teu esfor\u00e7o nem as tuas l\u00e1grimas. H\u00e1 milh\u00f5es de outras pessoas que a manteriam segura nos seus bra\u00e7os, protegendo-a de tudo. Nunca lhes passaria pela cabe\u00e7a magoar-te da forma que ele fez.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t waste another minute of your life on a cheater because if he did it once, he will do it again. Period.<\/p>\n

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