{"id":167748,"date":"2024-07-10T07:46:31","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:46:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167748"},"modified":"2024-07-10T07:46:33","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:46:33","slug":"como-nao-se-apegar-cedo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-nao-se-apegar-cedo\/","title":{"rendered":"O treinador de encontros revela como evitar sentir algo demasiado cedo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Getting caught up in feelings early during the dating stage can be a real roller coaster, and I\u2019ve experienced that crazy ride more times than I\u2019d like to admit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I used to be the person who would one day casually go out with a guy, and the next thing you know, I\u2019m daydreaming like crazy. We didn\u2019t even set up a second date and I\u2019m already planning our future together!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu estava t\u00e3o desesperada por amor que Pensei que todos os homens com quem namorei eram <\/strong>o \u00fanico<\/em><\/strong>sem me aperceber que isso me iria custar muitos desgostos. Foi ent\u00e3o que me deparei com Shahrzad Parandeh, uma treinadora de encontros no TikTok que mudou a minha vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ela enumerou tudo o que eu fiz de errado, mas felizmente tamb\u00e9m apresentou solu\u00e7\u00f5es! Ela come\u00e7ou a sua v\u00eddeo<\/a> dizendo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIf you\u2019re a woman who gets attached early on during the dating phase, I\u2019ve got you, girl! I want you to listen to this, I want you to save this and come back to it because it\u2019s going to change your dating game and it\u2019s going to really help you approach dating in a much healthier way.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Shahrzad explica como ela cometeu os mesmos erros anteriormente e o tiro saiu sempre pela culatra<\/strong> but now everything\u2019s different. She shared the things that helped her and that every woman can apply to her life. So try this out next time!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Realize you don\u2019t even know this guy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Embora possa parecer estranho \u00e0 primeira vista, faz sentido! \u00c9 frequente fantasiarmos com uma pessoa inventada na nossa mente<\/strong> while not knowing anything about them. Who knows if he\u2019s even half of those things you want him to be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Em vez de gastar o seu tempo a convencer-se de que ele \u00e9 a pessoa certa para si, tentem conhec\u00ea-lo melhor antes de fazerem planos para o vosso futuro. <\/strong>This man might be a convicted criminal while you\u2019re here thinking he\u2019s your perfect match.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Shahrzad explains you\u2019re focusing on the wrong things:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cYou wanna know whether or not he has what it takes to be with you. Is he gonna be a person that\u2019s reliable, is he trustworthy, is he consistent, is he gonna treat you right?… And if right off the bat, he\u2019s not showing you the qualities that you want, instead of focusing on what do I do to make him come to me, take a step back and say I don\u2019t even know who he is. Let me see if he has the qualities, the real qualities that I want.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

You gotta admit she\u2019s right. How can you think you\u2019re in love when you haven\u2019t even found out much about him? Don\u2019t think you know him fully just from one date and late-night texting.<\/strong> Demore o tempo que for preciso para o conhecer e depois decida se gosta dele, n\u00e3o da vers\u00e3o imagin\u00e1ria que tem na cabe\u00e7a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e3o lhe enviar mensagens de texto<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Todos sabemos que isto pode ser dif\u00edcil, especialmente quando se gosta muito deles. No entanto, you can\u2019t find out everything about someone immediately.<\/strong> Tamb\u00e9m seria aborrecido rever toda a nossa vida rapidamente atrav\u00e9s de textos e n\u00e3o deixar nada para mais tarde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Referiu a import\u00e2ncia de sermos verdadeiros connosco pr\u00f3prios:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cWhen you\u2019re texting all day and all night, you start to get this false sense of intimacy. You start to have real feelings for someone that\u2019s just texting you. They\u2019re not really dating you when they\u2019re just texting you!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Eu sei que \u00e9 t\u00e3o bom quando nos damos bem com algu\u00e9m e temos muitos assuntos para falar, mas ela tem raz\u00e3o. It\u2019s just a nice conversation, nothing more! <\/strong>So why would you invest your feelings as if you\u2019re in a committed relationship when you\u2019re far away from that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O treinador de encontros tamb\u00e9m explicou it causes unnecessary drama and anxious feelings the moment they\u2019re busy and can\u2019t text you.<\/strong> If you get nervous while waiting for his response and then drop everything the second he answers, that\u2019s the biggest sign you need to step back!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Concentre a sua energia em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Shahrzad terminou o seu v\u00eddeo mencionando o conselho que d\u00e1 a todos os seus clientes. \u00c9 preciso think about all the energy you\u2019re wasting on him and redirect it towards yourself.<\/strong> Como ela disse:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cAll that attention, all of that beautiful love that you\u2019re freely giving away to someone that you hardly know, you deserve it, so call it back to you. Bring all of that attention back to you. You deserve all of that energy!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Imagine you\u2019re spending all this time and energy on someone who\u2019s not even worth it and you\u2019ll forget he existed one month from now. It\u2019s much better to focus on yourself and relax.<\/strong> Don\u2019t fantasize about him, let him show you if he\u2019s what you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os seus conselhos sobre encontros ajudaram muitas pessoas!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A lot of women in her comments said she read them like an open book and they found this video very helpful. Some even admitted it wasn\u2019t easy to come clean about this problem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThis was hard for me to hear\u2026 it\u2019s was only 3 wks and he already ghosted me. It\u2019s been really really draining.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Outra rapariga lamenta n\u00e3o ter ouvido este conselho a tempo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI wish I would have seen this before he friend-zoned me then ghosted me after 5 weeks. He was a gentleman but now I wonder if he was talking to someone else.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re not the only ones who have been enlightened. I have to admit este treinador de encontros tamb\u00e9m me ajudou.<\/strong> After implementing everything she talked about, I\u2019ve experienced a huge change!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o fico ansioso e sinto-me mais relaxado e confiante. I try to be open to everything and don\u2019t make any conclusions ahead of time.<\/strong> So definitely try it out and you\u2019ll be thankful to Shahrzad for sharing her wisdom!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Getting caught up in feelings early during the dating stage can be a real roller coaster, and I\u2019ve experienced that crazy ride more times than I\u2019d like to admit.  I used to be the person who would one day casually go out with a guy, and the next thing you know, I\u2019m daydreaming like crazy….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167752,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167748","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Dating-Coach-Reveals-How-To-Avoid-Catching-Feelings-Too-Early-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167748","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167748"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167748\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167753,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167748\/revisions\/167753"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167752"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167748"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167748"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167748"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}