{"id":167763,"date":"2024-07-10T08:30:48","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T08:30:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167763"},"modified":"2024-07-10T08:30:50","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T08:30:50","slug":"segredo-para-um-casamento-longo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/segredo-para-um-casamento-longo\/","title":{"rendered":"Um casal casado h\u00e1 69 anos partilha a sua sabedoria para um casamento longo e feliz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vivemos numa \u00e9poca em que os casamentos longos e felizes s\u00e3o cada vez mais raros. <em>\u201cHappily ever after\u201d<\/em> parece algo que s\u00f3 existe nos contos de fadas, mas alguns casais est\u00e3o a provar que estamos errados.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Imagine passar quase sete d\u00e9cadas com a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/strong> \u2013 going through thick and thin, surviving storms, and enjoying the rainbow after rainy days. While this might sound like a dream for us, it\u2019s a reality for one couple.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conquistaram os cora\u00e7\u00f5es de<strong> 2,5 milh\u00f5es de euros <\/strong>pessoas no TikTok que viram um v\u00eddeo deles e se apaixonaram imediatamente pela sua energia e humor!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">O segredo para um \u00f3timo casamento \u00e9 bastante simples<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>You have to see Yair Brachiyahu\u2019s most recent <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@yairbrachiyahu\/video\/7340437871343439134\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">v\u00eddeo viral<\/a> da entrevista que fez com um casal de idosos. <strong>O seu casamento de quase 7 d\u00e9cadas \u00e9 a prova de que o verdadeiro amor ainda existe!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-about-marriage.jpg\" alt=\"um velho a falar de casamento\" class=\"wp-image-167770\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-about-marriage.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-about-marriage-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-about-marriage-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-about-marriage-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-about-marriage-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-about-marriage-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-about-marriage-728x728.jpg 728w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-about-marriage-960x960.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-about-marriage-1080x1080.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Cr\u00e9dito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@yairbrachiyahu\/video\/7340437871343439134\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Quando Yair lhes pediu conselhos para um casamento longo e saud\u00e1vel, o homem disse em tom de brincadeira:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cJust say yes all the time.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Although he joked, I think there\u2019s some truth in his words, don\u2019t you think? His wife added<strong> it\u2019s important to say no to fighting <\/strong>and you\u2019ll have a great marriage.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, arguments are completely normal and not having any is what can cause problems in a marriage, but fighting is something completely different. It\u2019s important to learn how to discuss sensitive topics and how to approach conversations about different opinions with respect.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Muitas vezes procuramos explica\u00e7\u00f5es mais complexas que desvendem o segredo de um bom casamento, mas este casal prova que <strong>o segredo esconde-se de facto nestas pequenas coisas.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quando um entrevistador lhes perguntou o que gostavam um do outro, eles responderam rapidamente. Ela disse que adora quando ele a ouve, ao que ele se riu e disse que adora tudo nela, como a forma como ela age e o que faz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As pessoas adoraram a sua energia positiva e as suas piadas e algu\u00e9m comentou:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cTheir sense of humor is obviously one of the reasons they have kept the marriage intact.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Tamb\u00e9m acho que as vibra\u00e7\u00f5es positivas e o facto de n\u00e3o levarem as coisas demasiado a s\u00e9rio s\u00e3o uma grande parte do seu sucesso.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">O facto de poderem dobrar-se manteve o seu casamento vivo durante 69 anos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>O casal tamb\u00e9m partilhou como come\u00e7ou a sua hist\u00f3ria de amor. Quando Yair perguntou como \u00e9 que se conheceram, ela respondeu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cThrough friends. And he felt for me immediately! He went home and called me up on the phone. It was fun. We were young. It was nice!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-woman-talking-about-marriage.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher idosa a falar de casamento\" class=\"wp-image-167773\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-woman-talking-about-marriage.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-woman-talking-about-marriage-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-woman-talking-about-marriage-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-woman-talking-about-marriage-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-woman-talking-about-marriage-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-woman-talking-about-marriage-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-woman-talking-about-marriage-728x728.jpg 728w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-woman-talking-about-marriage-960x960.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-woman-talking-about-marriage-1080x1080.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Cr\u00e9dito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@yairbrachiyahu\/video\/7340437871343439134\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s no surprise that she took all his attention the moment they met! He recalls what made him fall in love with her and said it was her looks, body, and personality saying that\u2019s all you really need in a person.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As Yair said, a lot of couples today get a divorce after a couple of years spent together and I think it\u2019s mostly because <strong>as pessoas n\u00e3o est\u00e3o dispostas a esfor\u00e7arem-se para que o seu casamento funcione.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes there\u2019s no other option and it\u2019s best everyone goes their separate ways, but often couples don\u2019t know how to resolve simple disagreements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por isso, quando o entrevistador lhes perguntou o que manteve o seu casamento vivo durante tanto tempo, ambos concordaram numa coisa. <strong>Ser capaz de se dobrar um pouco, ou muito, por vezes, \u00e9 uma receita para um casamento longo e saud\u00e1vel.<\/strong> Disse ela:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cYou know, you have to accept the good and the bad in the person.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>And it\u2019s true! You can\u2019t just give up easily on someone. Of course, accepting the bad shouldn\u2019t be the case when that\u2019s something that\u2019s abusive or harmful in any sense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Significa ser flex\u00edvel, capaz de se adaptar e de chegar a um compromisso.<\/strong> Finding common ground with your spouse it\u2019s all that matters to make both of you happy and satisfied.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O v\u00eddeo terminou com mais uma resposta engra\u00e7ada que fez toda a gente rir. Yair perguntou-lhes qual foi o melhor momento que passaram juntos e o homem respondeu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201c2 o\u2019clock in the morning!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-for-video.jpg\" alt=\"um idoso a falar para o v\u00eddeo\" class=\"wp-image-167772\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-for-video.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-for-video-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-for-video-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-for-video-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-for-video-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-for-video-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-for-video-728x728.jpg 728w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-for-video-960x960.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/an-old-man-talking-for-video-1080x1080.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Cr\u00e9dito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@yairbrachiyahu\/video\/7340437871343439134\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Many people in the comments loved his response and said that\u2019s the real magic behind a marriage like that. Some even said this was their favorite couple he interviewed by far!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aconselho-o a <strong>ver o seu perfil para mais sabedoria<\/strong> from other couples! If you\u2019re happily married, share your secret to the long marriage in the comments below!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We live in a time where long and happy marriages are becoming more and more rare. \u201cHappily ever after\u201d seems like something purely existing in fairytales but some couples are proving us wrong. Imagine spending almost seven decades with your soulmate \u2013 going through thick and thin, surviving storms, and enjoying the rainbow after rainy&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167771,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167763","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/A-Couple-Married-for-69-Years-Shares-Their-Wisdom-For-A-Long-and-Happy-Marriage-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167763","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167763"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167763\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167774,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167763\/revisions\/167774"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167771"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167763"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167763"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167763"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}