{"id":167795,"date":"2024-07-10T10:14:14","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T10:14:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167795"},"modified":"2024-07-10T10:14:14","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T10:14:14","slug":"a-atracao-pode-desenvolver-se-ao-longo-do-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-atracao-pode-desenvolver-se-ao-longo-do-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"A atra\u00e7\u00e3o pode desenvolver-se com o tempo? Este homem acredita que deves dar uma oportunidade a esse homem"},"content":{"rendered":"

To tell you the truth, I didn\u2019t really like my fiance right after I met him. He was just not my type. Okay, he was really funny and easygoing, but n\u00e3o eram essas as qualidades que eu procurava.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Preferia homens que se envolvessem em conversas profundas sobre os problemas existenciais da vida moderna e outros temas mais s\u00e9rios. As suas piadas eram engra\u00e7adas, mas n\u00e3o havia qualquer fa\u00edsca. <\/strong>Eu pensei, \u201cOkay, one date, and that\u2019s it.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then, for some reason, I went on a second, and a third date\u2026 until I learned to appreciate his qualities and committed to a relationship. Apparently, I knew what I wanted but didn’t really know what I NEEDED.<\/strong> Felizmente, acabou por ser o melhor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Enquanto pensava em why we tend to like those who\u2019re not good for us,<\/strong> e porque \u00e9 que os nossos desejos n\u00e3o est\u00e3o alinhados com as nossas necessidades, deparei-me com um v\u00eddeo<\/a> where\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Um treinador de rela\u00e7\u00f5es afirma que a atra\u00e7\u00e3o pode desenvolver-se com o tempo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Come\u00e7a com uma afirma\u00e7\u00e3o: as mulheres est\u00e3o conscientes de que existe uma percentagem consider\u00e1vel de homens que est\u00e3o realmente \u00e0 procura de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso,<\/strong> but\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe problem is most of you ladies don\u2019t wanna date these guys. And let’s be honest, alright, most single women that hire me for coaching tell me something like this. I know two or three guys that are super sweet and always treat me kindly but\u2026 I don\u2019t really like them.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Then he explains that while rejecting the idea of dating those they don\u2019t like, as mulheres t\u00eam dificuldade em faz\u00ea-lo funcionar com os homens que desejam.<\/strong> Oftentimes, these men ignore them and play games. He\u2019s not saying women should lower their standards:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cMy point is that attraction can build over time with someone if you give them a chance. But if you see you only keep falling for dishonest men, then beautiful, we\u2019ve got some healing to do.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Ent\u00e3o, devemos dar-lhe uma oportunidade e ver if we can develop the attraction for men we don\u2019t like at first sight?<\/strong> Ser\u00e1 que isso \u00e9 poss\u00edvel?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is an interesting argument, I would say, and worth considering. However, let\u2019s see what the public opinion on TikTok says about this standpoint.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como acredita um utilizador:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt\u2019s either there or it\u2019s not\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Some commenters believed this couldn’t be possible, and the relationship coach tried to reassure them dizendo que uma fa\u00edsca pode <\/strong>transformar-se num inc\u00eandio<\/em><\/strong>.<\/strong> Someone suggested why he doesn’t try convincing men to date women they don\u2019t like. But there were also agreeable comments:<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"coment\u00e1rios
Cr\u00e9dito: @save_the_messenger<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Um utilizador chamado Panashe<\/em>, made a funny observation about how it\u2019s impossible to build attraction with a guy who doesn\u2019t have it for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alguns comentadores apimentaram a discuss\u00e3o, tentando tamb\u00e9m ser engra\u00e7ados:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cBut I am emotionally unavailable i have been like that since a kid. Is being emotionally unavailable a bad thing?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Falar de disponibilidade emocional, Laura <\/em>acredita aqueles que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o emocionalmente dispon\u00edveis s\u00e3o os melhores homens. <\/strong>Still, the relationship coach claims such men don’t really exist.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"debate
Cr\u00e9dito: @save_the_messenger<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Acho que ele acredita que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o indispon\u00edveis quando est\u00e3o com a pessoa certa. Todas n\u00f3s nos lembramos de pelo menos um homem que fingia n\u00e3o estar interessado em compromissos, mas depois conheceu uma pessoa e, surpreendentemente, tudo mudou para ele.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Um utilizador, Creda_B, <\/em>agreed and confirmed that it\u2019s possible to build an attraction over time. Another user, Angie, <\/em>teve uma m\u00e1 experi\u00eancia ao dar uma oportunidade a a \u201cnice guy\u201d who turned out to be a dishonest person <\/strong>que a interpretou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TheSunsetTrash<\/em> said she can\u2019t force herself to like the guys who she knows are into a commitment, she simply finds them unattractive. At the same time, os homens atraentes n\u00e3o se incomodam com a ideia de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o <\/strong>enquanto os que t\u00eam menos sucesso com as mulheres desejam-no.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"coment\u00e1rios
Cr\u00e9dito: @save_the_messenger<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Then, there\u2019s CLAUDIA J, <\/em>who believes that it\u2019s not possible:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cUm Noooooooo, I know within the first 5 seconds of meeting someone. No attraction doesn’t build up. If I’m not physically attracted it’s Noooo.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Other comments confirm the same experience: if they don\u2019t feel it right at the beginning, there\u2019s no chance chemistry will develop over time,<\/strong> \u201cit\u2019s either there or it\u2019s not\u201d<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some people admit they gave it a try, but it didn\u2019t work out, and there is the possibility that you build an attachment but not a real attraction.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"coment\u00e1rios
Cr\u00e9dito: @save_the_messenger<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Mas depois mothermayo <\/em>deu uma vis\u00e3o diferente, afirmando que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es podem ser melhores se \u201cstarted from the bottom and blossom into something beautiful.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

SAL’S <\/em>respondeu \u00e0 sua nota sobre a cura, perguntando o que \u00e9 que ele queria dizer com isso. A s\u00e9rio, de que tipo de cura estava ele a falar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depois, alguns coment\u00e1rios tornaram-no mais claro:<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"foto
Cr\u00e9dito: @save_the_messenger<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que acha? Acredita que um tipo simp\u00e1tico pode valer a pena tentar<\/strong> even if you don\u2019t really like him?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Based on my experience, I would say, go for it girl! My fiance couldn\u2019t be further from what I preferred, and now he\u2019s the most attractive man in my eyes.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every day, I think how thankful I am for having him in my life. I can\u2019t believe I even considered rejecting him when he invited me on a date.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

To tell you the truth, I didn\u2019t really like my fiance right after I met him. He was just not my type. Okay, he was really funny and easygoing, but those were not the qualities I was looking for. I preferred men who would engage in deep conversations about the existential problems of modern life…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167801,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167795","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Attraction-Can-Build-Over-Time-This-Man-Believes-You-Should-Give-That-Guy-A-Chance-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167795","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167795"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167795\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167808,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167795\/revisions\/167808"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167801"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167795"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167795"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167795"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}