{"id":167976,"date":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167976"},"modified":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","slug":"dia-na-vida-de-um-casal-infeliz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dia-na-vida-de-um-casal-infeliz\/","title":{"rendered":"Se o teu dia com o teu parceiro se parece com isto, a tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 em terreno rochoso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever woken up next to your partner but felt like you were miles away? You\u2019ve been together for quite some time but something\u2019s missing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Isto \u00e9 um cen\u00e1rio que todos temem<\/strong>mas, infelizmente, muitas pessoas reconhecem-no e compreendem-no um pouco bem demais. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es que outrora estavam cheias de desejo e de amor forte podem, por vezes, transformar-se em algo completamente diferente. Tamb\u00e9m j\u00e1 me senti como se estivesse viver com um estranho sob o mesmo teto <\/strong>e n\u00e3o um homem com quem passei anos e com quem partilhei tudo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Psicoterapeuta e especialista em rela\u00e7\u00f5es, Deborah Krevalin<\/strong> (@debkrevalincounseling<\/a>) lan\u00e7ou luz sobre este tema na sua TikTok<\/a> e descreveu como s\u00e3o normalmente estas rela\u00e7\u00f5es. Se isto lhe soa familiar, talvez seja altura de ter uma conversa s\u00e9ria sobre o futuro com o seu parceiro.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA day in the life of an unhappy couple\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re truly in love and satisfied with your partner, each day looks like the first time you felt butterflies in your stomach. You can\u2019t wait to open your eyes in the morning and see them, or to hear about their day when they get back from work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apreciamos verdadeiramente a sua companhia e nunca nos cansamos deles. Cada dia \u00e9 uma nova e excitante aventura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, quando as pessoas s\u00e3o infelizes juntas, as coisas s\u00e3o um pouco diferentes. Perdem a chama que tinham antes e deixam quase completamente de se preocupar um com o outro.<\/strong> Deborah descreveu como \u00e9 normalmente um dia para estes casais:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

\u201cThey wake up and maybe they say \u2018good morning\u2019, at best. They do their own things, they get ready for the day, and possibly the partner who leaves first says, \u2018See you later, I\u2019m leaving\u2019, maybe \u2018have a good day.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

\n
\"mulher
Fonte: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Some people wouldn\u2019t assume this is problematic but Os problemas escondem-se muitas vezes em pequenas coisas, como o simples facto de n\u00e3o nos cumprimentarmos ou reconhecermos uns aos outros.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O meu ex costumava mostrar-me sempre afeto de manh\u00e3, beijava-me e acariciava-me todos os dias antes de ir para o trabalho. Passado algum tempo, ele come\u00e7ou a agir exatamente como ela descreveu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Passar de amantes a estranhos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t just end with forgetting you\u2019re not living alone, but also a falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e de tempo de qualidade em conjunto. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O psicoterapeuta acrescentou ainda<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

\u201cThere\u2019s no contact during the day, there\u2019s no \u2018What are we doing for dinner?\u2019, nothing like that. You don\u2019t know when the partner is coming home, you guys just sort of arrive when you arrive.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

\n
\"mulher
Fonte: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

When relationships come to this stage it\u2019s clear something\u2019s not right. Couples tend to get more distant each day and if they don\u2019t put an end to it, ou terminam a rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou tornam-se completamente estranhos, apenas coexistindo no mesmo espa\u00e7o. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Leaving isn\u2019t always the best option, although it might be the easiest for some. If you\u2019re ready to fight for your love, there\u2019s nothing an honest conversation and a bit of work on your relationship can\u2019t solve. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deborah also mentioned that another hallmark of unhappy couples is that they don\u2019t even spend time together even if they live under the same roof. She said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

\u201cThen usually during the night you\u2019re reading or watching TV, probably not in the same room, and then you go to bed and rinse and repeat. \u201c<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

\n
\"mulher
Fonte: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Infelizmente, esta \u00e9 uma triste realidade para muitos casais atualmente. <\/strong>While some recognize this toxic pattern and want to fix it, others simply accept their destiny and stay with their partners because they already become comfortable and don\u2019t want to cause drama. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, that can\u2019t lead to anything good and it\u2019s just a matter of time when things will escalate <\/strong>since you can only live in that environment for some time before losing your sanity. One woman said this was her reality once and it didn\u2019t end well:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

\u201cBeen there, he didn\u2019t wanna go for a walk, a hike, out to eat, play pool, go watch a sunset. ANYTHING. I was bored, sad, and miserable.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s interesting is that not all people agree this is a miserable life. Some say they live like that and don\u2019t find anything wrong with it<\/strong>Enquanto outros preferem estar sozinhos a ter esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n

\n
\"coment\u00e1rios
Fonte: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

I don\u2019t think this is a healthy way to live with someone, but I guess cada um tem as suas prefer\u00eancias.<\/strong> Maybe some people aren\u2019t keen on affection or need more time alone because they\u2019re introverted, so this lifestyle suits them. Who knows!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Either way, openly discussing your relationship and how would you like things to go is always a good idea. In this way, we can avoid having uncomfortable moments and making the other side feel like they\u2019re neglected. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every problem can be solved so don\u2019t give up right away! A vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode florescer como antes <\/strong>if you\u2019re willing to make it work!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever woken up next to your partner but felt like you were miles away? You\u2019ve been together for quite some time but something\u2019s missing.  This is a scenario everyone dreads, but unfortunately, a lot of people recognize it and understand it a bit too well.  Relationships that were once filled with desire and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167981,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167976","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/If-Your-Day-With-A-Partner-Looks-Like-This-Your-Relationship-Is-On-Rocky-Ground-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167976","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167976"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167976\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167982,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167976\/revisions\/167982"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167981"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167976"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167976"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167976"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}