After watching one video I learned that\u2019s exactly what he wanted \u2013 to make me think I\u2019m the problem. TikTok user @the_bat_wolf<\/a> publicou um v\u00eddeo<\/a> falar sobre frases comuns que os narcisistas usam contra si.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ele intitulava-se um \u201cself-aware narcissist\u201d<\/em> saying both he and toxic people he\u2019s been with used these exact words to manipulate others. And after listening to everything he said, I must say all of them sounded really familiar! He described my ex in a 1-minute video, it\u2019s crazy!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here\u2019s what he said those 9 phrases are:<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is one classic example of a sentence they use when they know they did something wrong and want to avoid taking accountability. It\u2019s just uma tentativa esfarrapada de o fazer sentir-se culpado <\/strong>por criar tens\u00e3o, mesmo quando se quer apenas falar calmamente sobre um assunto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Whenever they say this, be sure they just want to convince you that you\u2019re exaggerating when na realidade, tem uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o perfeitamente adequada<\/strong> a algo que aconteceu. Sinceramente, esta era uma raz\u00e3o pela qual eu pensava que por vezes exagerava quando estava a ser demasiado simp\u00e1tico. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Whenever they don\u2019t get what they want from you, they\u2019ll use this tactic to change that. Narcissists know they can ganhar a sua piedade e incutir-lhe medo, dizendo que est\u00e3o chateados e indo embora.<\/strong> Ter medo de acabar sozinho faz de si uma v\u00edtima perfeita para eles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Esta \u00e9 mais uma tentativa de obter a nossa simpatia atrav\u00e9s da auto-deprecia\u00e7\u00e3o. O seu objetivo \u00e9 fazer-nos sentir culpados <\/strong>for saying something, even if it wasn\u2019t hurtful so they can be excused from what they did. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If narcissists realize you know the truth and they have nowhere to escape they won\u2019t simply give up. Instead, they\u2019ll use this phrase when they don\u2019t have anything more to add to defend themselves<\/strong>. So by saying this, they don\u2019t give you an opportunity to address and discuss what you want. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019re either overreacting or you\u2019re too sensitive, there\u2019s no in-between! Either way, Os narcisistas nunca validar\u00e3o os seus sentimentos. <\/strong>They\u2019ll just gaslight you until they convince you what you\u2019re feeling is completely wrong. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Similar to saying you\u2019re overreacting or too sensitive, they use this when they want you to think you\u2019re the problem. This way, they can get out of almost anything because minimizam as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es, fazendo-as parecer menos problem\u00e1ticas.<\/strong> My ex would always say I\u2019m crazy for being upset over something that\u2019s not so serious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nunca acredite numa pessoa narcisista quando ela lhe diz isto. Eles s\u00f3 usam esta frase para que duvides dos teus sentimentos<\/strong> and think they\u2019re a real victim. The only victim here is you! Don\u2019t let them fool you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I remember my ex would always mention all the nice things he did for me whenever I confronted him about something he didn\u2019t like. And then he would use this famous phrase and say I\u2019m ungrateful. Of course, narcissistic people only do that to criar um sentimento de culpa e desviar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o do seu comportamento problem\u00e1tico. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Algumas das pessoas nos coment\u00e1rios escreveram outras frases que deveriam ser acrescentadas a esta lista.<\/p>\n\n\n1. \u201cWhy are you starting fights with me?\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
2. \u201cWhy are you always overreacting?\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
3. \u201cThis conversation is over. I\u2019m leaving!\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
4. \u201cI guess I\u2019m just a piece of sh*t.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
5. \u201cBelieve whatever you want.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
6. \u201cWhy are you so sensitive?\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
7. \u201cWhy do you make everything a big deal?\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
8. \u201cYou\u2019re crazy!\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
9. \u201cYou don\u2019t appreciate me!\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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