{"id":168001,"date":"2024-07-11T07:41:24","date_gmt":"2024-07-11T07:41:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=168001"},"modified":"2024-07-11T07:41:27","modified_gmt":"2024-07-11T07:41:27","slug":"como-encontrar-o-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-encontrar-o-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"O segredo para encontrar o amor sem o procurar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 farto de ouvir as pessoas dizerem: \u201cOh, you\u2019ll find someone when you stop looking.\u201d<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sim, eu tamb\u00e9m era. Revirava os olhos sempre que algu\u00e9m me dizia isso. Sei que tinham boas inten\u00e7\u00f5es e queriam fazer-me sentir melhor, mas, sinceramente, detestava. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nunca percebi como deixar de procurar algu\u00e9m quando queria mesmo, mesmo, estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso. O que \u00e9 isso de fingir at\u00e9 conseguir? \u00c9 isso que \u00e9? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 assim t\u00e3o mau querer ter algu\u00e9m ao nosso lado? Como posso conhecer algu\u00e9m se apagar todas as minhas aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros, abandonar os eventos para pessoas solteiras e parar de tentar encontrar a minha alma g\u00e9mea?<\/strong> Nunca fez sentido para mim!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wouldn\u2019t I be seen as someone who\u2019s not interested in relationships and guys would get a totally different message from me? These are all the things that would spin around my mind until I finally realized what people meant by saying I\u2019ll find love when I stop searching for it. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, quero partilhar convosco coisas que me ajudaram a encontrar o amor sem sequer tentar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cDon\u2019t worry about finding the right person, focus on being the one\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

This quote describes the essence of what people actually want to say to you. It\u2019s not really about not looking for love, it\u2019s about not forcing something that isn\u2019t meant to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although we think we know what\u2019s best for us, I think that\u2019s not always the case. We might think we\u2019re ready to commit and give our everything to another person but in reality, we\u2019re far away from that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why I really believe the universe sometimes saves us from misery and trouble by not letting us have what we want at some moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Muitas vezes pensamos que precisamos de outra pessoa para nos sentirmos realizados, mas a verdade est\u00e1 muito longe disso. <\/strong>O que precisamos \u00e9 de nos concentrar e trabalhar em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. Ser autoconfiante e feliz foi uma grande parte do processo de encontrar a minha alma g\u00e9mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t need your \u201cother half\u201d, you\u2019re already whole<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

People rush to meet someone while they don\u2019t even know themselves fully.  This is dangerous as it could resurface later in your relationships and cause issues. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u00e9m disso, se precisas de outra pessoa para te fazer feliz, querida, tens um grande problema. Ningu\u00e9m quer estar com algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 desesperado.<\/strong> I don\u2019t know, it\u2019s just not attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, people don\u2019t want their partner to be clingy all the time and suffocate them just because they can\u2019t live without them. Do you understand now where I\u2019m going with this?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sim, basicamente precisa de aprender a passar tempo sozinho e a gostar de estar solteiro.<\/strong> Este \u00e9 o momento em que pode fazer absolutamente tudo o que quiser sem ter de pensar noutra pessoa. Todas as decis\u00f5es importantes, tudo se resume a si e ao que deseja. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So use that time wisely to live life however you want. When you see how happy you can be even when you\u2019re alone, you won\u2019t depend on anyone else for your happiness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is really important and will come in handy if you realize at some point you don\u2019t want to be in a relationship anymore. You\u2019ll know there\u2019s nothing bad about being alone and it\u2019s better than being miserable with someone else.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t want to be the person who stays with someone even if they\u2019re a horrible person just because you don\u2019t want to be single, right? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viver a sua pr\u00f3pria vida ao m\u00e1ximo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The key is not to completely give up on love and then expect it will find us, it\u2019s just to shift our focus from desperately searching for o \u00fanico<\/em> a algo de que gostamos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s crazy how many people I attracted once I looked satisfied with where I was in life and didn\u2019t force anything. That\u2019s what you need as well!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u00e9m de se concentrar no auto-aperfei\u00e7oamento, podes literalmente fazer o que te faz feliz. <\/strong>Viaje, arranje novos passatempos, saia e divirta-se com os seus amigos, comece o seu pr\u00f3prio neg\u00f3cio, o que quer que seja! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viver a vida desta forma e n\u00e3o estar constantemente preocupado em encontrar algu\u00e9m vai faz\u00ea-lo perceber que ter um parceiro \u00e9 apenas um b\u00f3nus, n\u00e3o uma necessidade. <\/strong>When people see what kind of life you have, they\u2019ll naturally want to be a part of it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Expor-se \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m a forma mais f\u00e1cil de conhecer algu\u00e9m inesperadamente e as pessoas que se conhecem dessa forma acabam muitas vezes por ser as melhores!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So stop overthinking already, damn it! By forcing things, you\u2019re just setting yourself up for failure. You\u2019ll see that once you shift your energy from finding true love, it\u2019ll come quicker than you expect and surprise you.<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Are you also sick of hearing people say: \u201cOh, you\u2019ll find someone when you stop looking.\u201d? Yeah, I was too. I would roll my eyes every time someone said that to me. I know they had good intentions and wanted to make me feel better, but honestly, I hated it.  I never understood how to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":168007,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-168001","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/The-Secret-To-Finding-Love-Without-Searching-For-It-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168001","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168001"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168001\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":168011,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168001\/revisions\/168011"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/168007"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168001"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168001"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168001"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}