{"id":168034,"date":"2024-07-11T10:28:49","date_gmt":"2024-07-11T10:28:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=168034"},"modified":"2024-07-11T10:28:49","modified_gmt":"2024-07-11T10:28:49","slug":"sabedoria-intrigante-de-um-especialista-em-encontros","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sabedoria-intrigante-de-um-especialista-em-encontros\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta mulher vai deixar-te boquiaberto com os seus intrigantes conselhos sobre encontros"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pergunto-me sempre quanto tempo devo esperar para que as coisas fiquem <\/strong>f\u00edsico<\/em><\/strong> com o meu par.<\/strong> It\u2019s a tough call!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Terceiro encontro, d\u00e9cimo encontro, um m\u00eas?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 demasiado cedo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Devo esperar at\u00e9 nos conhecermos melhor? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se eu esperar muito tempo, ele vai-se embora?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Provavelmente tem as mesmas d\u00favidas. Eu sei que navegar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica pode ser uma emocionante montanha-russa,<\/strong> especialmente quando se trata de decidir o momento certo para levar as coisas para o pr\u00f3ximo n\u00edvel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas oi\u00e7am-me, um treinador de rela\u00e7\u00f5es, Louise Perry fez uma revela\u00e7\u00e3o bomb\u00e1stica<\/strong> that\u2019s turning heads!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Louise Perry \u00e9 uma autora, jornalista e apresentadora de podcasts brit\u00e2nica e ela iluminou recentemente<\/strong> \u201cThe Diary Of A CEO\u201d <\/em><\/strong>podcast<\/strong> com a sua nova vis\u00e3o sobre encontros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No YouTube <\/em>epis\u00f3dio<\/a>, she dove into her book\u2019s advice for waiting three months before hitting the sheets. But here\u2019s the kicker:\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her real advice is to wait until there\u2019s a ring<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Conversando com o apresentador Steve Bartlett, Louise didn\u2019t hold back about her thoughts<\/strong> sobre as mulheres que se tornam \u00edntimas antes de qualquer compromisso s\u00f3lido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Outrora um fervoroso defensor da cl\u00e1ssica regra dos tr\u00eas meses, Perry inverteu agora o gui\u00e3o, aconselhando os casais a hold off on getting intimate until there\u2019s a proposal and a ring.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Yes, you heard that right \u2013 no ring, no fling!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este A surpreendente reviravolta est\u00e1 a provocar uma grande agita\u00e7\u00e3o na cena dos encontros.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando Steven fez a grande pergunta sobre o momento certo, Louise declarou corajosamente: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI think, probably, actually waiting until engagement is a better call.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Ela reconhece it\u2019s tough to stick to this in a culture where waiting can seem \u201cweird\u201d<\/strong> a n\u00e3o ser por raz\u00f5es religiosas, e isso pode significar perder potenciais parceiros: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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“You basically cut out a big chunk of your possible matches by insisting on that.”<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Perry admitiu que sugeriu a espera de tr\u00eas meses no seu livro simplesmente porque parecia mais pr\u00e1tico e exequ\u00edvel, <\/strong>evitando reac\u00e7\u00f5es de cortar a respira\u00e7\u00e3o nas cr\u00edticas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A regra dos tr\u00eas meses de namoro funciona como um per\u00edodo experimental,<\/strong> giving couples a chance to truly get to know each other before taking things seriously. After all, first impressions can be deceiving, and\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esta abordagem permite-lhe estabelecer uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o mais profunda<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Os encontros tornaram-se muito complexos, com os homens e as mulheres a terem frequentemente objectivos e expectativas diferentes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cAnd of course there\u2019s this whole game about how like, man might want to have s.x with more people, woman want to tie a man down. Like it’s a really complicated game.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why it is necessary that we have some costumes de namoro e casamento,<\/strong> como em todas as outras culturas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O especialista em rela\u00e7\u00f5es traz um uma nova perspetiva sobre o namoro com base nos seus estudos de antropologia<\/strong> que exploram a forma como diversas sociedades de todo o mundo vivem em conjunto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A autora sublinha a import\u00e2ncia das regras sociais: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cLack of social rules sets everyone up to fail.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Ela pergunta-se porque \u00e9 que pensamos que podemos viver sem algumas regras e costumes nesta mat\u00e9ria e porque pensamos que podemos<\/strong> \u201chave just free-for-all\u201d. <\/em><\/strong>Diz que as pessoas n\u00e3o podem fazer o que lhes apetece, tem de haver alguma ordem: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cWhat anthropology tells us is that actually we need structure, we need conventions and we need constraints, and templates.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Louise tamb\u00e9m salienta o facto de os homens interpretarem frequentemente mal as pistas sociais, enquanto as mulheres t\u00eam dificuldade em estabelecer limites sem parecerem antip\u00e1ticas. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Following this advice and making it custom, will protect women. Because\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O truque \u00e9 um compromisso<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Ao esperar, as mulheres podem garantir que est\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m que esteja genuinamente empenhado,<\/strong> reduzir o risco de perturba\u00e7\u00f5es emocionais. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s aware this advice might be difficult to follow in today’s culture, where waiting is often seen as unconventional.<\/strong> But there are many benefits you\u2019ll discover along the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Em primeiro lugar, esta abordagem ajuda as mulheres a evitar as complica\u00e7\u00f5es emocionais<\/strong> que podem surgir porque elas s\u00e3o mais suscept\u00edveis de se sentirem emocionalmente ligadas atrav\u00e9s da intimidade do que os homens. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, she stressed that engaging in intimacy with someone you wouldn\u2019t want to have children with is a significant risk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nenhum m\u00e9todo contracetivo \u00e9 100% seguro e you don\u2019t want to end up being pregnant with someone you don\u2019t see yourself with.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Human reproduction is a very complex and delicate thing and there\u2019s a huge coordination problem related to it:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cYou\u2019ve got to find the right person, you\u2019ve got to find them at the right time, you\u2019ve got to like ensure commitment from them.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Assim esperar \u00e9 uma boa estrat\u00e9gia para garantir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e feliz.<\/strong> Because\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cA lot of young women go along with (being intimate) even if they don\u2019t want it.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Depois, acabam por se sentir infelizes, pois a intimidade torna as mulheres mais ligadas emocionalmente do que os homens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t let society decide when you should sleep with the man you\u2019re dating! Sure, this idea might sound a bit controversial, but pense em como ela o pode proteger de muitas maneiras. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu percebo, esperar \u00e9 dif\u00edcil, mas porqu\u00ea apressar a intimidade f\u00edsica com algu\u00e9m que pode n\u00e3o ser a pessoa certa para si? Concentre-se primeiro em encontrar um terreno comum e em construir uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o forte.<\/strong> Depois o quarto conversa<\/em> ser\u00e1 muito mais agrad\u00e1vel.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I always wonder how long I should wait before things get physical with my date. It\u2019s a tough call! Third date, tenth date, one month? Is it too soon? Should I wait until we get to know each other better?  If I wait for too long will he go away? You probably have the same…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":168065,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-168034","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/This-Woman-Will-Blow-Your-Mind-With-Intriguing-Dating-Advice-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168034","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168034"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168034\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":168069,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168034\/revisions\/168069"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/168065"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168034"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168034"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168034"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}