{"id":16807,"date":"2018-03-22T13:36:18","date_gmt":"2018-03-22T13:36:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16807"},"modified":"2022-01-24T15:59:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T15:59:00","slug":"es-uma-licao-que-eu-gostaria-de-nunca-ter-aprendido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/es-uma-licao-que-eu-gostaria-de-nunca-ter-aprendido\/","title":{"rendered":"Tu \u00e9s uma li\u00e7\u00e3o que eu gostaria de nunca ter aprendido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Est\u00e1s a ouvir isto? \u00c9 o som do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a partir-se porque me tra\u00edste da pior maneira poss\u00edvel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deste-me a esperan\u00e7a de que me amar\u00e1s, <\/span>sem qualquer inten\u00e7\u00e3o de o fazer<\/span><\/a>. Como \u00e9 que me pudeste fazer isto? Como pudeste fazer uma coisa destas \u00e0 mulher que te amava mais do que a ela pr\u00f3pria? <\/span><\/p>\n

I admit it\u2014it was my biggest mistake but I can\u2019t turn back time. I can just learn a lesson from the shitty behavior you showed me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fizeste tudo o que estava ao teu alcance para me afastares quando mostrei interesse em ti. Afastaste a rapariga que realmente queria ser tua. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y<\/span>ou see, I didn\u2019t want the moon and the stars. I just wanted you to love me like I loved you. I just wanted you to try as hard as I was trying. I just wanted you to fight for me, but you couldn\u2019t even do that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tudo o que eu sempre quis foi o teu amor.<\/h2>\n

At\u00e9 aceitei todos os teus defeitos e a tua bagagem do passado. Tentei compreender-te sempre que tinhas problemas e estava l\u00e1 para te abra\u00e7ar e dizer-te que tudo ia correr bem. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if that helped you, but I gave my best to make you feel better. I gave it all for the man I loved but who couldn\u2019t love me back. And that was all I wanted all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pegar na tua m\u00e3o com orgulho e mostrar-te ao mundo em vez de te encontrar em segredo em quartos de hotel imundos. Mas eu aceitei tudo isso porque pensei que tu irias mudar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensei que o meu amor te iria mudar. Pensei que verias quanto amor e carinho havia em cada toque, em cada beijo, em cada abra\u00e7o. Mas, como sempre, n\u00e3o viste isso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca tive o tratamento que merecia e estava sempre a contentar-me com menos do que merecia porque te amava.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 queria que me tratasse com respeito.<\/h2>\n

So tell me, did I ask too much from you? Was it too much to ask the man I loved to treat me like I deserved to be treated? You know that I never asked anything that you couldn\u2019t give me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t ask for diamonds and stars. I just asked for your love and some respect\u2014respect that would make me stay. I just wanted to see you trying as hard as me. If you had tried a little bit harder, maybe we would have made it then.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas isso foi demais para ti!<\/h2>\n

You had some twisted idea of love in your head that didn\u2019t make any sense. You wanted me to give you the girlfriend benefits while you didn\u2019t give me boyfriend benefits at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was good only when I was sleeping with you, but when I wanted to meet the people that are important to you, you didn\u2019t have the guts to admit to them that we were dating. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if I deserved all the relationship benefits, you never gave any to me. You weren\u2019t ready to do anything for me, even if I did even the impossible for you. You didn\u2019t care about me at all. But you should have.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t want to accept me.<\/h2>\n

You always wanted to change me and to mold me into someone who was a \u2018<\/span>namorada perfeita<\/span><\/a>\u2019 according to your taste. With you, I experienced an almost love\u2014the type when you don\u2019t know if you are with someone or not<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You were keeping me close because that was convenient for you, but on the other hand, you didn\u2019t want to commit fully because you were scared. And trust me, there was nothing to be scared about. But you missed seeing that. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sentiste falta de ver uma mulher \u00e0 tua frente com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga. Aquela que tremia cada vez que te via. Uma rapariga que era muito mais do que merecias.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t want to put me first.<\/h2>\n

For you, I was always a second option\u2014a girl who will be there when everyone else abandons you. The one who doesn\u2019t ask much but kisses and hugs you every time life slaps you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fui a rapariga que ficou contigo mesmo quando as coisas estavam t\u00e3o m\u00e1s que qualquer outra pessoa teria provavelmente ido embora se estivesse no meu lugar. Mas eu fiquei ao teu lado. E tudo o que fiz, fi-lo por n\u00f3s os dois. <\/span><\/p>\n

Too bad that you never saw that. But maybe you didn\u2019t want to see, right? Because it was much easier to close your eyes to the good things I did for you because you could convince me that you owed me nothing after all. <\/span><\/p>\n

E sabes qual foi a pior parte? Pensaste mesmo que eu estaria sempre l\u00e1, a implorar-te por migalhas do teu amor, mas estavas t\u00e3o enganado.<\/p>\n

Cansei-me de ser o \u00fanico a tentar.<\/h2>\n

Admit it\u2014you were actually okay with losing me. You thought that there are other girls who are much better than me and will give you the love and affection I gave you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t even want to fight for me when I wanted you to do that. You were indifferent the whole time. And that is exactly the opposite of love. When you are indifferent, you feel the same whether someone is there or not.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need that person like the air you breathe. But too bad that I needed you even more than the air I was breathing. I needed you more than I have ever needed anything in my life. And you not giving a damn about me was something that made my whole world fall apart. <\/span><\/p>\n

The day when you didn\u2019t choose me, you actually lost me. Perdeste-me para sempre<\/a> and there wasn\u2019t a way that you could bring me back.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por muito que eu quisesse ficar, tu afastaste-me.<\/h2>\n

Afastaste-me sempre que tive de te implorar para me ouvires. Afastaste-me ao n\u00e3o te importares comigo quando eu mais precisava de ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Afastaste-me com a tua indiferen\u00e7a e falta de amor. Afastaste-me sem a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de lutar por mim e de me reconquistar. <\/span><\/p>\n

So I am asking you: \u201cAre you happy now?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Perdeste mesmo uma rapariga que queria ser tua.<\/h2>\n

E eu s\u00f3 queria o vosso amor e carinho. Queria que olhasses para mim e pensasses que tens muita sorte em me ter. Queria que admirasses as coisas que eu fa\u00e7o e me dissesses que tinhas orgulho em mim. <\/span><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t want those bad words from your mouth. I didn\u2019t want gaslighting, lying and manipulation. But unfortunately, that was all I got from you. I never got the unconditional love I craved so much. <\/span><\/p>\n

I never got all those magical moments that people in love have the chance to experience. You didn\u2019t know to provide me with the only thing I needed from you\u2014love!<\/span><\/p>\n

After you realize that you won\u2019t have a girl like me anymore, you will try to find me in every other woman but you won\u2019t find me. No woman will treat you like I did, look at you with admiration and proudness and no one will ever put you first like I did.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nenhum deles ficar\u00e1 contigo quando lhes mostrares a tua verdadeira cara. Isso \u00e9 algo que s\u00f3 eu era capaz de fazer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas o que interessa \u00e9 que tenho de vos agradecer por esta li\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have realized how strong I was. I would never have started cherishing myself enough to start a new chapter of my life with someone who is worthy of my love and everything that I can give. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you ever see me again don\u2019t look at me like I was shattered. I am just a breathtaking mosaic of the battles I\u2019ve won!<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you hear that? That is the sound of my heart breaking because you betrayed me in the worst possible way. You gave me hope that you will love me, without any intention to do so. How could you do that to me? How could you do something like this to the woman that loved…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":30620,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16807","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/adult-blur-bonnet-246804-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16807","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16807"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16807\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30620"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16807"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16807"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16807"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}