{"id":16819,"date":"2018-03-22T14:45:14","date_gmt":"2018-03-22T14:45:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16819"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:21:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:21:13","slug":"5-coisas-que-todas-as-raparigas-que-estao-a-passar-por-uma-separacao-devem-ouvir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-todas-as-raparigas-que-estao-a-passar-por-uma-separacao-devem-ouvir\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas que todas as raparigas que est\u00e3o a passar por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o devem ouvir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e3o existe uma pessoa neste mundo que n\u00e3o tenha tido uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o dolorosa no passado.<\/p>\n<p>Quando estamos a passar por isso, pensamos que \u00e9 o fim do mundo, mas mais tarde percebemos que faz parte da vida. Mas \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil quando h\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que nos d\u00e1 a m\u00e3o durante esta experi\u00eancia dolorosa.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, aqui ficam 5 coisas que gostava que me tivessem dito quando estava a passar por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o, o que teria tornado tudo muito mais f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Sobreviver\u00e1s<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Quando estamos a passar por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o desagrad\u00e1vel, pensamos que o peso do mundo inteiro caiu sobre os nossos ombros.<\/p>\n<p>For you, life has no meaning anymore and you don\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel. In those moments of despair, you are positive that you\u2019ll never get over this guy and that you\u2019ll suffer forever. But I am here to tell you that everything will be OK.<\/p>\n<p>I know you\u2019ve heard this line far too many times but it really isn\u2019t just an empty phrase\u2014it\u2019s the truth. Yes, you are going through a lot of emotional pain now but there will come a time when you\u2019ll laugh at this.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this pain seems unbearable and too much for you to handle at the moment but life will put you through more difficult situations and this break-up will look like a piece of cake. No matter what you think now, you\u2019ll get better and you\u2019ll survive.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Ele n\u00e3o vale a pena<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I assume that this is the last thing you want to hear right now but this guy is really not worth it. It will take a long time before you really understand this but he didn\u2019t deserve everything you are going through now because of him.<\/p>\n<p>This won\u2019t reduce your suffering, because you still love him despite knowing this, but it is something you should repeat to yourself constantly.<\/p>\n<p>Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno das vossas l\u00e1grimas, n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno de todas as noites sem dormir e n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno do vosso sofrimento.<\/p>\n<p>Acima de tudo, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bolde.com\/10-signs-hes-not-worthy-of-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\">ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno de ti<\/a>. It is simple\u2014if he was worthy, he wouldn\u2019t have put you through everything you are going through.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">3. Provavelmente ele tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 a sofrer<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Uma das primeiras perguntas que todos fazemos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios quando estamos a passar por um desgosto de amor \u00e9 se somos os \u00fanicos a sentirmo-nos assim.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que este gajo tamb\u00e9m pensa em mim? Ser\u00e1 que ele sente a minha falta, nem que seja um bocadinho? Os homens gostam de fingir que s\u00e3o duros e que raramente sofrem por amor. Mas eu estou aqui para vos dizer que tudo isso s\u00e3o tretas.<\/p>\n<p>He is probably suffering the same way you are but he just doesn\u2019t show it. You are not the only one waiting for his phone call or stalking him on social media\u2014he does it too.<\/p>\n<p>But this shouldn\u2019t be a sign for you to get back together with this guy, it should only help you stop feeling miserable about yourself.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. He wasn\u2019t the love of your life<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/leia-isto-se-estiver-a-passar-por-uma-separacao-dolorosa\/\">est\u00e1 a meio de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o dolorosa<\/a>Provavelmente, pensa que este homem \u00e9 o amor da sua vida. Deste ponto de vista, est\u00e1 convencida de que nunca amou ningu\u00e9m como o amou a ele e que nunca mais voltar\u00e1 a amar.<\/p>\n<p>You think this man was your soulmate and that you\u2019ll never find someone like him. And that is normal. But it doesn\u2019t make it true. Trust me\u2014this guy was probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-screaming-signs-not-soulmate\/\">n\u00e3o \u00e9 a tua alma g\u00e9mea<\/a> or the love of your life and you\u2019ll definitely love again, despite what you may think now.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let yourself fall into despair, thinking you\u2019ll end up forever alone. Yes, you\u2019ll probably spend some time consumed by this sadness you are feeling now but as soon as you meet someone new, it will go away.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1-de aparecer um homem que a far\u00e1 esquecer que esse homem existiu. Tudo isto parece provavelmente improv\u00e1vel e imposs\u00edvel para si, mas acredite que vai acontecer quando menos esperar.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Esta ser\u00e1 uma li\u00e7\u00e3o para ti<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I know you probably think that this was the worst thing that could\u2019ve happened to you.<\/p>\n<p>You feel hopeless, like all of your dreams and hopes have been shattered into pieces. But trust me\u2014there will come a time when you\u2019ll realize this was the best thing that could\u2019ve happened. There will come a time when you\u2019ll see that he was your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/foste-a-minha-licao-mais-dura\/\">li\u00e7\u00e3o mais dif\u00edcil<\/a> mas que foi uma experi\u00eancia valiosa.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t see it now but there will come a time when you\u2019ll thank God that this man walked away from your life.&nbsp;<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There doesn\u2019t exist a person in this world who didn\u2019t have a painful break-up in the past. When you are going through it, you think of it as the end of the world, but later you realize it is all part of life. 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