{"id":168209,"date":"2024-07-12T08:26:37","date_gmt":"2024-07-12T08:26:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=168209"},"modified":"2024-07-12T08:26:38","modified_gmt":"2024-07-12T08:26:38","slug":"conceito-de-almas-gemeas-vs-ideia-de-crescimento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/conceito-de-almas-gemeas-vs-ideia-de-crescimento\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00e1s not\u00edcias para aqueles que confiam no conceito de almas g\u00e9meas, \u00e9 preciso trabalhar raparigas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Costumava acreditar que havia um homem perfeito s\u00f3 para mim e quando o encontrar, tudo se vai encaixar como por magia.<\/strong> Then I met him, or so I thought, but it didn\u2019t work. He was all I ever wanted, but life had other plans and we broke up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019ve all grown up on fairy tales about finding \u201cthe one\u201d or our \u201csoulmate\u201d and falling in love at first sight. Since childhood, we\u2019re led to believe that our perfect man is destined by fate. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estar pr\u00e9-decididos um pelo outro, a rela\u00e7\u00e3o com esse homem deve ser tranquila.<\/strong> We just need to find him and that\u2019s all. The rest is to viver felizes para sempre.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But let\u2019s be real: not everyone buys into the soulmate hype.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando se trata de amor e de rela\u00e7\u00f5es, h\u00e1 dois tipos de pessoas: os que acreditam em almas g\u00e9meas e os que acreditam que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es exigem esfor\u00e7o,<\/strong> terapia de casais e uma pitada de sorte para ter sucesso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Est\u00e1 a Equipa Alma G\u00e9mea <\/em>ou Equipa<\/em> Esfor\u00e7o<\/em>?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Para os adeptos dos contos de fadas, a ideia de almas g\u00e9meas \u00e9 profundamente rom\u00e2ntica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Inicialmente, estas pessoas experimentam frequentemente um elevado n\u00edvel de satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es. The magic and excitement of finding “the one” can lead to a blissful start.<\/strong> Mas o que acontece depois da fase de paix\u00e3o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por outro lado, os defensores do esfor\u00e7o acreditam que uma parceria bem sucedida isn’t just about finding a perfect match but about working together<\/strong> para ultrapassar desafios e tornar-se mais forte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They probably won\u2019t experience the same initial euphoria as the soulmate believers, but what will happen with their satisfaction over time?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que abordagem conduzir\u00e1 a rela\u00e7\u00f5es mais bem sucedidas?\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Believing in \u201cmeant to be\u201d or believing in effort? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os investigadores debru\u00e7aram-se sobre esta quest\u00e3o e partilharam as suas conclus\u00f5es no Jornal Europeu da Personalidade<\/em><\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O estudo acompanhou mais de 900 casais da Alemanha, Su\u00ed\u00e7a e \u00c1ustria durante dois anos, tendo-lhes sido perguntado quais as suas cren\u00e7as sobre o amor e a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o na rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Os investigadores analisaram se as cren\u00e7as no destino ou no crescimento influenciaram a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Participants with a “destiny” mindset felt that finding a compatible partner was the key, while those with a “growth” mindset believed in resolving conflicts<\/strong> para construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de sucesso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Inicialmente, o estudo concluiu que couples who believed they were “meant to be” were happier during the first two years. <\/strong>A emo\u00e7\u00e3o de encontrar o seu parceiro de destino deu-lhes um impulso significativo. Mas, com o passar do tempo, a sua satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o tende a diminuir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por outro lado, os casais com cren\u00e7as de crescimento registaram um decl\u00ednio menos dram\u00e1tico na satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o, sugerindo que a “love grows with effort” mindset might have some serious staying power!<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s their belief in working through problems together that ajuda-os a manter um n\u00edvel de felicidade mais consistente.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es, a perce\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 tudo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Os resultados mostraram como a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es diminui e, para um grande n\u00famero de casais, piora com o tempo. Mas h\u00e1 excep\u00e7\u00f5es, claro, alguns casais conseguem aumentar a sua satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o na rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O os casais mais felizes tinham cren\u00e7as de crescimento mais fortes,<\/strong> criando um ciclo positivo que refor\u00e7ou a sua liga\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the end, the study showed that a couple\u2019s perception plays a big role in their relationship\u2019s success. Tal como um jardim, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es precisam de cuidados e esfor\u00e7o para prosperar.<\/strong> Se quer que o seu amor cres\u00e7a, fa\u00e7a algum esfor\u00e7o e a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o desenvolver-se-\u00e1 com o tempo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Compreens\u00e3o estas din\u00e2micas podem ajud\u00e1-lo a navegar na sua pr\u00f3pria rela\u00e7\u00e3o <\/strong>more effectively. If you lean towards the soulmate belief, it might be beneficial to adopt some growth-oriented practices to sustain your relationship’s happiness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O destino pode dar-te um bom come\u00e7o, mas a mentalidade de crescimento manter\u00e1 o amor vivo durante muito tempo.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para aqueles que j\u00e1 se concentram no esfor\u00e7o, continuem assim! \u00c9 prov\u00e1vel que a vossa abordagem seja compensadora a longo prazo.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I used to believe there was a perfect man out there just for me and when I find him everything will magically fall into place. Then I met him, or so I thought, but it didn\u2019t work. He was all I ever wanted, but life had other plans and we broke up. We\u2019ve all grown…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":168215,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-168209","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Bad-News-For-Those-Who-Rely-On-The-Concept-Of-Soulmates-You-Need-To-Work-Girls-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? I do, and right here is where I share my thoughts on the topic.","parent":38,"count":95,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29615,"category_count":95,"category_description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? I do, and right here is where I share my thoughts on the topic.","cat_name":"soulmate","category_nicename":"soulmate-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168209","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168209"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168209\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":168216,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168209\/revisions\/168216"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/168215"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168209"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168209"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168209"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}