So it\u2019s high time to stop being predictable and take things into your own hands.<\/strong><\/p>\n A primeira coisa que tens de perceber \u00e9 que se o perseguires, ele vai correr ainda mais depressa.<\/p>\n Ao iniciar o contacto, ao fazer dilig\u00eancias para que voc\u00eas voltem a estar juntos, s\u00f3 o vai afastar ainda mais.<\/p>\n Sei que est\u00e1 a ver as coisas do seu ponto de vista. Sei que pensa que tem de provar o seu amor lutando para que ele fique. Mas, ao faz\u00ea-lo, estar\u00e1 a travar uma batalha que j\u00e1 perdeu.<\/p>\n Se foi ele que se foi embora, n\u00e3o deve, em circunst\u00e2ncia alguma, ir atr\u00e1s dele.<\/p>\n It will only make you look desperate and needy and that\u2019s something I am sure you are not aiming for.<\/p>\n Sure your efforts, tears, and begging might get him back but that\u2019s a short-term fix.<\/p>\n If he comes back, it will be because he feels bad that he hurt you so badly and it won\u2019t be long until he disappears from your life once again.<\/p>\n He should come back only if he still loves you and cares for you. Sympathy is not a feeling that you can build a long-lasting relationship on. And I don\u2019t believe you would want that anyway.<\/p>\n Eu sei que acreditas que ir nenhum contacto<\/a> que o contacto com ele n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 qualquer influ\u00eancia e que ele se esquecer\u00e1 de si. Mas ao n\u00e3o iniciar o contacto, tem mais hip\u00f3teses de o recuperar do que se for atr\u00e1s dele. <\/strong><\/p>\n By not contacting him, you are giving him the space to see what he had all along and left behind. The truth is, some men don\u2019t know what they have until they lose it.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tamb\u00e9m precisas de algum espa\u00e7o para ver se o queres de volta.<\/p>\n And while your initial reaction is, \u201cOf course I want him back,\u201d things might not be that simple.<\/p>\n Tem de perceber que as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es o impedem de pensar com clareza.<\/p>\n D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3pria tempo para respirar e pensar nas coisas. Reflicta sobre a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e veja se ele \u00e9 realmente o homem com quem quer passar a sua vida para sempre.<\/p>\n Veja se a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o tinha realmente algo por que valia a pena lutar ou se tinha mais sinais de alerta que a avisavam de que era altura de se ir embora antes de ele acabar com tudo.<\/p>\n Se ele estava a fazer jogos, a manipul\u00e1-la, a control\u00e1-la ou a mostrar sinais de comportamento t\u00f3xico, ent\u00e3o, gra\u00e7as a Deus, ele foi-se embora e deve manter a dist\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n Make sure your heart and your mind are in sync and that your heart is not deluding you into thinking he is someone you can\u2019t live without.<\/p>\n Once you resolve these initial issues that you might be having, it\u2019s time to execute the plan called \u2018let him come to you after a break-up\u2019.<\/strong><\/p>\n There is no secret technique or miraculous remedy to fix what\u2019s broken and bring back the man you love. These are little pushes to get things moving.<\/strong><\/p>\n O mais importante \u00e9 que a maior parte das coisas listadas abaixo tem a ver consigo e com o que pode fazer por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n Porque, muitas vezes, esquecemo-nos de que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o mais importante que alguma vez teremos \u00e9 a que temos connosco pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n Temos de trabalhar e construir essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para que tudo o resto na nossa vida possa funcionar.<\/p>\n It’s not uncommon that while we are in a relationship we give so much love to another person that we take too much from ourself. As a result, things end and we are left with low self-esteem and are physically and emotionally drained.<\/p>\n That’s why it’s time you redirect your focus on building yourself back up.<\/p>\n Recuperar a confian\u00e7a<\/a> \u00e9 o primeiro passo a dar para estabelecer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o boa e firme consigo pr\u00f3prio e, eventualmente, com os outros.<\/p>\n H\u00e1 sempre uma forma de o fazer, s\u00f3 tem de encontrar a que melhor se adapta a si.<\/p>\n \u00c9 preciso amarmo-nos primeiro a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios para que outra pessoa nos ame de volta.<\/p>\n Mesmo que este guy really doesn’t care about you and it’s time to move on<\/a>, it’ll be much easier if you’re confident.<\/p>\n Don’t fall into the trap of writing long status updates about how sad you are without him, or using melancholic quotes or sad songs.<\/p>\n Don’t reach for anything that shows your anger or resentment toward him either.<\/p>\n Partilhar excessivamente as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es nas redes sociais nunca \u00e9 uma boa ideia.<\/p>\n O tiro s\u00f3 pode sair pela culatra e fazer com que pare\u00e7a desesperado. N\u00e3o publique nada em nenhuma das suas contas nas redes sociais.<\/p>\n A sua imagina\u00e7\u00e3o ser\u00e1 despertada pelo facto de n\u00e3o saber onde est\u00e1 ou o que anda a fazer.<\/p>\n Posting photos of your smiling face just after you have been through a break-up won’t help either; it will seem fake and forced.<\/p>\n Mas, passado algum tempo, deve definitivamente utilizar as redes sociais em seu benef\u00edcio.<\/p>\n Partilhe um artigo que a tenha comovido ou publique uma can\u00e7\u00e3o que a fa\u00e7a recordar um momento fant\u00e1stico que passou com ele e isso ir\u00e1 certamente record\u00e1-lo tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n Publique fotografias suas e dos seus amigos em novas aventuras<\/a>. Let him know that life hasn\u2019t stopped just because he is no longer a part of it.<\/p>\n Veja por si mesmo que, independentemente dele, pode fazer da sua vida o que quiser.<\/p>\n Est\u00e1s aqui para te fazeres feliz. \u00c9s o \u00fanico que cria o teu destino.<\/p>\n E assim que se aperceberem disso, as outras pessoas tamb\u00e9m o ver\u00e3o. Ele tamb\u00e9m o ver\u00e1.<\/p>\n He can\u2019t miss you if your texts keep coming every few seconds. It\u2019s never a good idea to text too much, especially when a relationship is over. It will just annoy him.<\/p>\n As suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es v\u00e3o estar \u00e0 flor da pele e vai ter vontade de o contactar, de ir ao fundo das coisas e, essencialmente, de o manter por perto, ver as suas mensagens ou ouvir a sua voz.<\/p>\n But that will just push him away. That\u2019s why you have to control your emotions and your actions.<\/p>\n Ele tem de ter tempo para processar a vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o, independentemente de ter sido ele a afastar-se ou tu. Ele tem de ter algum tempo para ver como \u00e9 estar sem si.<\/p>\n There is also a good chance that he will want you more once he sees that he doesn\u2019t have you anymore. That\u2019s why it\u2019s essential to give him some room sentir a tua falta.<\/a><\/p>\n As pessoas que vos conhecem e que est\u00e3o envolvidas na vida de ambos ir\u00e3o comentar e falar, independentemente da vossa vontade.<\/p>\n Haver\u00e1 quem ande para tr\u00e1s e para a frente entre os dois e d\u00ea as suas opini\u00f5es ou conselhos sobre a vossa situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Use those meddling people and their ‘communication skills’ to your advantage.<\/p>\n Diga-lhes o que quer que ele saiba, porque eles certamente o transmitir\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Diga-lhes que a decis\u00e3o de se afastar foi dele e que tem de a respeitar, independentemente dos seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n Tell them you will have to move on because that’s clearly what he wants and you have no other choice but to be happy with yourself first and then one day with somebody else.<\/p>\n This information will trigger something inside of him. He will realize he will lose you for good if he doesn’t act immediately.<\/p>\n Ele olhar\u00e1 para si como algu\u00e9m inferior, algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno do seu tempo, se vir que o seu mundo come\u00e7a e acaba com ele.<\/p>\n That’s why it’s important for you to have your own world, your own interests, and social life.<\/p>\n Tens de saber quem \u00e9s quando est\u00e1s sozinha e quando est\u00e1s com ele.<\/p>\n You need to have a life that you are happy with, regardless of your relationship status. That’s not something that should define you.<\/p>\n Ele precisa de saber que pode viver sem ele, mas que, se pudesse escolher, preferia n\u00e3o o fazer.<\/p>\n Naturally, he is important to you but your world shouldn’t revolve around him.<\/p>\n You need to be your own priority. You have to learn to put yourself first. That’s the only way he will start putting you first too.<\/p>\n No, that doesn\u2019t mean you will avoid texting him, or going out with him if he asks you\u2014follow your gut and trust your head, not your heart, in situations like this.<\/p>\n Ver\u00e1 a inten\u00e7\u00e3o por detr\u00e1s do seu desejo de se encontrarem. Talvez ele esteja realmente arrependido da forma como as coisas acabaram e queira ver como est\u00e1 ou se ainda tem alguma hip\u00f3tese consigo.<\/p>\n Another big maybe is that he is lonely, needs someone to talk to or misses sex, in which case you shouldn\u2019t see him at all, You are not there to be at his disposal and jump every time he tells you to.<\/p>\n No matter how much you love him and want him back, make sure you demand the respect you deserve. Don\u2019t let him trat\u00e1-lo como uma op\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> when you are born to be someone’s priority.<\/p>\n It wasn’t you who said that you should distance from each other or end a relationship.<\/p>\n Respect his decision. If love is really there, it\u2019s no place for forcing things.<\/p>\n There is no use in forcing somebody to stay in your life if they don’t want to.<\/p>\nO amor-pr\u00f3prio aproxima-a do amor dele<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nUtilizar as redes sociais em seu benef\u00edcio<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nD\u00e1-lhe espa\u00e7o para sentir a tua falta<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nRecorrer indiretamente \u00e0 ajuda de amigos comuns<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nShow him and yourself that you want him but don’t need him<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSe ele telefonar, evite estar demasiado dispon\u00edvel<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon’t make things harder on yourself<\/h2>\n
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Ao telefonar-lhe ou enviar-lhe mensagens de texto, est\u00e1 a piorar ainda mais uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o que j\u00e1 \u00e9 m\u00e1.<\/p>\n
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