{"id":16835,"date":"2020-08-23T09:27:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T09:27:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16835"},"modified":"2022-01-26T02:00:38","modified_gmt":"2022-01-26T02:00:38","slug":"5-coisas-horriveis-que-os-narcisistas-fazem-para-controlar-as-suas-vitimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-horriveis-que-os-narcisistas-fazem-para-controlar-as-suas-vitimas\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas horr\u00edveis que os narcisistas fazem para controlar as suas v\u00edtimas"},"content":{"rendered":"

As pessoas que sofrem de uma Perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da Personalidade Narcisista n\u00e3o sabem como se comportar nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00edntimas.<\/p>\n

Falta-lhes empatia e compreens\u00e3o para com os outros e, no processo de negligenciar e manipular os seus parceiros, s\u00f3 pensam em si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that they are incapable of feeling love, they are incapable of loving anyone but themselves.<\/p>\n

O seu amor por si pr\u00f3prios est\u00e1 t\u00e3o acima de tudo o resto e leva-os a manipular as suas v\u00edtimas para que fa\u00e7am o que eles querem e como eles querem.<\/p>\n

Being trapped in a narcissist\u2019s grasp can destroy you and it\u2019s almost impossible to break free from it. You are a victim of mind control and manipula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You are being brainwashed and your confidence and self-love are crushed into dust\u2014they don\u2019t exist. That is, in fact, how they keep you under their control.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Esmagam-vos para vos poderem dominar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

They destroy you completely, making you think that you don\u2019t deserve anything else. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Fazem-nos pensar que temos sorte em t\u00ea-los na nossa vida porque nos fizeram acreditar que nunca ningu\u00e9m nos amar\u00e1, que n\u00e3o somos am\u00e1veis e que somos completamente horr\u00edveis.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

So, you hang on to their abusive love because you don\u2019t know any better and you\u2019re scared to let go and start all over again.<\/p>\n

When someone keeps feeding you with negativity and claims that you are incapable of living without them, that you are incompetent and actually there is no use to you whatsoever, after some time, you start believing it and when the time comes and you want to leave, you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared that you are not going to make it.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es narcisistas s\u00e3o como as drogas.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

O abuso dura tanto tempo que o corpo e a mente se habituam a ele.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you break free finally, you\u2019ll start craving it in a second. You\u2019ll crave the dose of a narcissist because he managed to emotionally hook you on his evil.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es narcisistas s\u00e3o humilhantes.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He will drag you to the darkest place of your life. You won\u2019t be able to think straight nor will you know what you\u2019re doing. The only thing you will know is that you want it to stop.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll keep praying for the pain to go away and for him to stop, to shut up. You\u2019ll burn inside, but your face will be calm. Cold. Blank.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es narcisistas mudam-nos<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

They change who you\u2019ve been. Those people tear you down and crush you from the inside with their abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> t\u00e1cticas. <\/p>\n

They rebuild you into the person they want by their side, not you. You are just a casual victim whom they don\u2019t give a shit about.<\/p>\n

Your feelings don\u2019t matter to them. You are not a human being. To them, you are a little insignificant nobody.<\/p>\n

Isso muda-nos por completo. Mesmo quando te afastas dele, nunca mais ser\u00e1s a mesma.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You will try to bring joy back into your life and in the beginning, it\u2019s going to be excruciating.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll wish you\u2019d never been born. You\u2019ll curse the day you met him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to be angry with yourself for letting a narcissistic sociopath ruin your life, ruin you. But, it\u2019s not your fault. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You did nothing wrong, so you can\u2019t blame yourself. You never see them coming. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Eles s\u00e3o t\u00e3o sorrateiros e manipuladores, que podem disfar\u00e7ar-se como o que quiserem. Quando o fazem, quando confiamos neles, eles encurralam-nos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Os narcisistas usam t\u00e1cticas furtivas<\/a> para manipular e fazer as coisas \u00e0 maneira deles. Conseguem sempre o que querem e em todas as circunst\u00e2ncias, e \u00e9 o utilizador que paga o pre\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

Proje\u00e7\u00e3o de sentimentos negativos<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a defense mechanism to protect themselves.<\/p>\n

They will project their negative feelings onto you and they will put the blame on you which will make you feel like crap when instead, it\u2019s them who have to feel that way.<\/p>\n

Mas eles manipulam-no para que pense que a culpa \u00e9 sua e que tem de se sentir mal por algo que eles fizeram.<\/p>\n

In the end, you\u2019ll find yourself apologizing for something you haven\u2019t done. This turns into a serious problem because a narcissist can\u2019t accept he was wrong.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t accept that he is not flawless and that from time to time, he can make a mistake. That\u2019s why he needs you to project his negative feelings, too.<\/p>\n

Ele precisa de se sentir inocente e precisa que tu te sintas culpada.<\/p>\n

He will do this by any means necessary. He\u2019ll be hurtful and cruel because, in the end, he really doesn\u2019t care about you or your feelings at all.<\/p>\n

Mudan\u00e7a de jogo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He will find something wrong in everything you do. No matter how hard you try, he will ruin it and crap all over everything you\u2019ve done so far.<\/p>\n

If you did everything he has asked you to do, and he can\u2019t complain because he has got no reason for saying anything, he will change the rules.<\/p>\n

Ele vai passar por cima do que disse anteriormente e impor-lhe um novo conjunto de regras que s\u00e3o quase imposs\u00edveis, s\u00f3 para que falhe e se sinta mal por isso.<\/p>\n

Ele vai colocar-te numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que trabalhas muito, para que ele te aprove. Infelizmente, est\u00e1s a procurar a sua valida\u00e7\u00e3o e aprova\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mas as suas cr\u00edticas constantes ter\u00e3o o seu pre\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

As queixas constantes deixar\u00e3o uma cicatriz em si. Sentir-se-\u00e1 ansioso e deprimido porque nada do que faz parece ser suficientemente bom.<\/p>\n

Your self-esteem falls faster than the speed of light and as it decreases, the chances you\u2019re going to be more submissive to him are bigger.<\/p>\n

The thing is by criticizing you all the time, he is diverting you from all the good things you\u2019ve done and making you focus on just the bad ones which makes you feel bad and obsessed with thinking about why can\u2019t you succeed in anything.<\/p>\n

Controlo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele vai tentar isol\u00e1-la do resto do mundo porque, acredite ou n\u00e3o, ele tem medo. Tem medo que o deixes, que perca a sua v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have anybody to drain and that\u2019s what will destroy him. If he doesn\u2019t have anyone to suck the energy from, like an vampiro emocional<\/a>, ele perecer\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Querem ser os \u00fanicos que podem ter alguma influ\u00eancia na sua vida, para o poderem controlar.<\/p>\n

They will cut you off from your friends and family, so you don\u2019t get the chance to hear the truth or a few words of support and advice.<\/p>\n

Apart from the getting you as far away as possible from the people you love, they will try to control where you\u2019re going, with whom you are going, how much money you\u2019re spending and for what.<\/p>\n

A sua vida tornar-se-\u00e1 basicamente uma pris\u00e3o a c\u00e9u aberto.<\/p>\n

Mudar de assunto<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve had enough and if you sober up even for a minute, you\u2019ll see things for what they are. Maybe you\u2019ve just had enough and you want to confront him.<\/p>\n

De alguma forma, arranja toda a coragem e for\u00e7a para o fazer, mas o que \u00e9 que ele faz?<\/p>\n

He plays the victim and brings out a completely different subject and punishes you for something that you\u2019ve done 3 months ago.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 o que eles fazem a toda a hora.<\/p>\n

He will blame you or point out a mistake you did a long time ago and it\u2019s not just coincidental.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s been keeping that for times just like this, for times when he hasn\u2019t got any other way out but to bring out your past mistakes to make you feel like you\u2019re the abuser and he is the victim.<\/p>\n

And of course, he never mentioned it before now. He didn\u2019t mention it three months ago because he knew he was going to need it some other time.<\/p>\n

Sarcasmo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele vai usar piadas cru\u00e9is para o magoar, mas, claro, v\u00e3o ser disfar\u00e7adas de piadas inofensivas.<\/p>\n

Assim, se se zangar, ele far\u00e1 com que pare\u00e7a que est\u00e1 a exagerar e que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 raz\u00e3o para se zangar ou magoar porque ele estava apenas a brincar.<\/p>\n

But the real motive behind it is never to tease you. It\u2019s exactly what you think it is\u2014it\u2019s to hurt you.<\/p>\n

He will use a patronizing tone with you to humiliate you even more. He will act like you\u2019re a child, you are incapable of doing things for yourself and you need him to show everything to you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to stay strong and resist everything narcissists are capable of doing to you. They are extremely dangerous and their disease can destroy you if you let it.<\/p>\n

Tens de te manter forte<\/a>, believe in yourself and believe in what you\u2019re doing because it\u2019s right. Don\u2019t let him mess up your mind because if you surrender, you won\u2019t be able to bounce back so easily.<\/p>\n

And even if he broke you, it\u2019s not too late to come back to life. At least you\u2019ll learn a lesson and find out more about yourself. You\u2019ll bring back your self-worth and respect.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn to love yourself again because no one can take that away from you forever. They can only make you forget about it\u2014not lose it.<\/p>\n

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