{"id":16848,"date":"2020-04-23T10:51:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-23T10:51:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16848"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:14:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:14:46","slug":"10-sinais-de-que-ja-nao-se-deve-importar-com-ele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-ja-nao-se-deve-importar-com-ele\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais de que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o deves dar a m\u00ednima para ele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nem todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e3o destinadas a ser felizes para sempre e nem todos os filmes t\u00eam um final feliz.<\/p>\n

And sometimes, no matter how hard we try or how much effort we put into a relationship, it\u2019s worth nothing if we\u2019re the only one doing it.<\/p>\n

Acaba por nos partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o uma e outra vez at\u00e9 que ele se desfa\u00e7a em milh\u00f5es de peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re stuck on the edge of our breaking point, wondering whether it\u2019s better to let go of it all or to keep on fighting just a little bit longer.<\/p>\n

Neste \u00faltimo caso, basta um pequeno empurr\u00e3o para nos derretermos completamente, para perdermos o ch\u00e3o s\u00f3lido sob os nossos p\u00e9s e cairmos.<\/p>\n

To save yourself and your heart from that happening and to prevent him from taking away another piece of you, it\u2019s time you decide to let the guy go and to ponha-se em primeiro lugar<\/a> para variar.<\/p>\n

Procure estes sinais que gritam que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se deve importar com ele.<\/p>\n

Ele mente-lhe<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Apanhou-o v\u00e1rias vezes a mentir-lhe sobre as coisas mais rid\u00edculas.<\/p>\n

Why he\u2019s late to dinner, what he\u2019s doing at work, with whom he went to the bar (even if it\u2019s just colleagues from work).<\/p>\n

It makes you wonder if he\u2019s lying about the important stuff as well\u2014about the future plans he has with you, about the love he feels or about his loyalty.<\/p>\n

Compulsive liars are the worst and they\u2019re so good at their lying game that they actually make us feel like we\u2019re losing our mind.<\/p>\n

Kick his lying ass out of your life, he\u2019s not even worthy of being in it in the first place!<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t remember the last time you were happy<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se precisa mesmo de se sentar e de se esfor\u00e7ar para pensar na \u00faltima vez que foi verdadeiramente feliz, porque \u00e9 que est\u00e1 com ele?<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not making you happy, if he\u2019s not making any effort to put a smile on your face, he doesn\u2019t deserve to put tears there either.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re constantly feeling exhausted and drained after spending time with him, he\u2019s nothing but an emotional leech.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t feel appreciated<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa o que fa\u00e7as e o quanto te esforces, parece que ele nunca o v\u00ea.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 v\u00ea as coisas que fez e est\u00e1 sempre a elogiar-se a si pr\u00f3prio, menosprezando os seus esfor\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s just a sinal de um homem ego\u00edsta<\/a> que nunca reconhecer\u00e1 as coisas que faz por ele e pela vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s a man who doesn\u2019t know how to say, \u201cThank you,\u201d without rubbing your nose in something he did better.<\/p>\n

Ele enganou-a<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ultrapassar a infidelidade \u00e9 dif\u00edcil e as coisas nunca voltam a ser como dantes.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always wondering if he\u2019s going to do it again or you\u2019re looking for signs of him cheating.<\/p>\n

And trust is so hard to earn but so easy to break that it\u2019s completely normal if you\u2019re having a hard time getting over it.<\/p>\n

This one completely depends on you and the situation you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re married and you really want to make it work and he\u2019s honestly sorry about it, maybe he does deserve a second chance.<\/p>\n

But if you suspect that he will never change and that this wasn\u2019t just a one-time thing, the only person you should give a second chance is you.<\/p>\n

Walk away and give yourself a chance to be happy again. It can be painful and scary in the beginning but it\u2019ll be worth it.<\/p>\n

Ele faz-nos sentir inferiores<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Nunca, e quero dizer nunca, deves aturar algu\u00e9m que faz-nos sentir inferiores<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not a god, these are not the fifties and you are a remarkable human being who deserves to be treated equal and respected.<\/p>\n

And this doesn\u2019t apply only to your relationship, it applies to your whole life! Remember your worth and remind yourself of it every day.<\/p>\n

Keep your head held high and don\u2019t ever let anyone take your worth away from you. No matter how much you love them, you need to love yourself more.<\/p>\n

A tua confian\u00e7a continua a ser quebrada<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When we love someone, we trust them with our heart and emotions, trusting that they won\u2019t hurt us, trusting that they won\u2019t betray us.<\/p>\n

And if that trust keeps on being broken, if he\u2019s hurting you over and over again, making you think that you\u2019re not good enough or if he has someone else, it\u2019s time you see him for who he really is.<\/p>\n

I know that letting go sometimes looks scarier and harder than staying in hell, but it\u2019s the best thing you can do for yourself.<\/p>\n

And always remember that you deserve to be happy too. You deserve what\u2019s best for you and he\u2019s not it.<\/p>\n

7. Sente-se ansioso quando pensa na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se a ansiedade continua a dar-te um pontap\u00e9 nas entranhas sempre que pensas nele ou quando voltas para casa, ent\u00e3o algo est\u00e1 muito errado.<\/p>\n

As borboletas s\u00e3o \u00f3ptimas, a excita\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 espantosa e a excita\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 incr\u00edvel. Mas a ansiedade \u00e9 errada.<\/p>\n

A ansiedade \u00e9 um inferno. Especialmente se o temperamento e o comportamento dele s\u00e3o as raz\u00f5es por detr\u00e1s disso. Querida, porque est\u00e1s a fazer isso a ti pr\u00f3pria?<\/p>\n

He wouldn\u2019t do it for you and you know it. And a man who isn\u2019t ready to walk through fire for you doesn\u2019t deserve to walk in the sunshine with you.<\/p>\n

Continua a magoar-se<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Pode parecer insano que algu\u00e9m permane\u00e7a numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que est\u00e1 sempre a magoar-se, mas fazemos coisas loucas e est\u00fapidas por amor.<\/p>\n

Por causa das mem\u00f3rias de como era antes e de como \u00e9ramos felizes, ficamos e continuamos a lutar.<\/p>\n

But if you keep on getting hurt and he doesn\u2019t seem like he even notices, ditch his ass. He\u2019s not worthy of your tears and pain.<\/p>\n

Ele espera que sacrifiques o teu futuro e as tuas cren\u00e7as por ele<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Que tipo de homem \u00e9 que espera isso? Uma coisa que nunca se deve sacrificar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a pr\u00f3pria pessoa e quem se \u00e9.<\/p>\n

Se sonhava em ser professora ou ter a sua pr\u00f3pria empresa e ele tem a ideia de que \u00e9 uma dona de casa e quer que deixe esse sonho em paz, a \u00fanica coisa que deve deixar \u00e9 ele.<\/p>\n

O compromisso \u00e9 a chave para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem-sucedida, mas apenas enquanto o fizerem juntos.<\/p>\n

Uma pessoa n\u00e3o deve p\u00f4r a sua vida em suspenso para que a outra possa prosperar.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 suposto prosperarem juntos.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one who still gives a damn<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o precisos dois para o amor e um a rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser sempre uma via de dois sentidos<\/a>. If it\u2019s not, if it\u2019s a one-sided relationship, then it\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n

Nothing and no one is worthy of your love if they\u2019re not ready to love you back.<\/p>\n

E muito menos se a pessoa o enganou e usou o facto de o amar para conseguir o que queria.<\/p>\n

Honey, if you\u2019re the only still fighting, stop it. Fight for yourself this time.<\/p>\n

\"10<\/p>\n

\"10<\/p>\n

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