{"id":16881,"date":"2020-03-23T14:48:11","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T14:48:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16881"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:48:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:48:47","slug":"7-coisas-que-precisa-de-experimentar-antes-de-desistir-de-uma-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-que-precisa-de-experimentar-antes-de-desistir-de-uma-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"7 coisas que voc\u00ea precisa tentar antes de desistir de um relacionamento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Although relationships should be easy and sweet, they are usually very complicated and they don&#8217;t make sense most of the time.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 magoado pelo seu parceiro, mas continua a tentar falar sobre o assunto para melhorar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Is it really worth it? Well, if you believe in soulmates you wouldn&#8217;t want to lose the one person in your life whom you&#8217;ve been searching for just by giving up on them, right?<\/p>\n<p>As rela\u00e7\u00f5es d\u00e3o muito trabalho e exigem muito esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>But let&#8217;s be honest,<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-sinais-de-que-ja-nao-vale-a-pena-lutar-por-uma-relacao\/\"> h\u00e1 sinais de que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a acabar.<\/a> In order for you to know if a relationship is really over, it&#8217;s crucial to try out some things, just to be completely sure.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t want to regret letting go of someone who loves you without at least asking them what happened.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m always going back to communication as some kind of holy grail to solving all problems in life.<\/p>\n<p>If you ask your partner what&#8217;s wrong, why he isn&#8217;t talking to you, why he isn&#8217;t responding to your messages, and if he reacts in a mean manner or doesn&#8217;t want to talk about it at all\u2014leave.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/becca-martin\/2017\/02\/he-doesnt-deserve-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\">He doesn&#8217;t deserve you.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>But if he has a good enough reason, like maybe his work doesn&#8217;t allow him to breathe, try communicating with him how much it would mean to you if he would dedicate time for the two of you, for him to talk to you, call you, text you back.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn&#8217;t change his behavior, let him know that you won&#8217;t repeat yourself. There&#8217;s no need to lose sleep over someone who doesn&#8217;t respect you and your needs.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nenhum contacto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89495\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-phone-and-waiting-for-call.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel e \u00e0 espera de uma chamada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-phone-and-waiting-for-call.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-phone-and-waiting-for-call-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-phone-and-waiting-for-call-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If communication doesn&#8217;t work, try to distance yourself completely and see what happens.<\/p>\n<p>If he sees that you&#8217;ve been a bit different and that you&#8217;re no longer there for him, he&#8217;ll start asking himself what he did wrong and he&#8217;ll try to make it better.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn&#8217;t call you on the same day you decide to distance yourself, I don&#8217;t think that you need to wait any longer.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/merecem-olhar-para-o-ecra-vazio\/\">Merece mais do que ficar a olhar para um ecr\u00e3 vazio.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O que \u00e9 que a fez apaixonar-se por ele?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a pensar \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7a a si pr\u00f3pria estas perguntas: O que \u00e9 que te fez apaixonar por ele? O que \u00e9 que vos atraiu?<\/p>\n<p>Volte \u00e0s origens e pense nas coisas que eram t\u00e3o atraentes nele.<\/p>\n<p>If he&#8217;s changed completely, then he&#8217;s not the person that you fell in love with, so why bother trying to turn him back to what you&#8217;re used to?<\/p>\n<p>I mean, of course, people change, they become a better version of themself every day but let&#8217;s be honest\u2014if he&#8217;s a completely new person, that&#8217;s not the one you want to be with.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Experimentar algo novo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89497\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-holding-hands-and-walking-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"casal de m\u00e3os dadas a passear na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-holding-hands-and-walking-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-holding-hands-and-walking-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-holding-hands-and-walking-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your communication is good but the relationship simply starts getting boring and you can&#8217;t seem to find anything interesting to do together anymore, then try out something new.<\/p>\n<p>Experimentem algo que nenhum de voc\u00eas tenha feito antes e analisem a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel refreshed, like your relationship is able to continue without you questioning it, then you&#8217;ve done a great job!<\/p>\n<p>Se nunca foram de f\u00e9rias juntos, v\u00e3o! Fa\u00e7am j\u00e1 as vossas malas e v\u00e3o divertir-se!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Reconhecer o problema<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89498\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a olhar \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bem, todos n\u00f3s sofremos por coisas que aconteceram no nosso passado.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve seen many marriages and relationships fall apart it might be something you&#8217;re used to and there isn&#8217;t really a chance for you to unlearn something that was instilled in you from an early age.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, as pessoas que o rodeiam podem afetar a forma como reage \u00e0s coisas na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Just be sure that the emotions that you&#8217;re feeling are actually yours and not the feelings or behavior of someone you&#8217;ve encountered.<\/p>\n<p>Depois, quando tiveres a resposta, n\u00e3o te esque\u00e7as de resolver o problema.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pairedlife.com\/love\/When-Love-is-not-There\" rel=\"noopener\">Porque \u00e9 que n\u00e3o se sente amado<\/a> or why do you feel that the relationship is over? Is that something that can be changed? If the answer is no, there isn&#8217;t much you can do.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abrandar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89499\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-woman-sitting-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada sentada ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-woman-sitting-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s very important to take it easy from time to time and watch what happens.<\/p>\n<p>See the relationship from a whole new perspective and understand what&#8217;s happening.<\/p>\n<p>Tome o seu tempo para observar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e cuide de si.<\/p>\n<p>We get carried away by emotions and we don&#8217;t give ourself time to analyze them. So this might be the right time to do this.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It&#8217;s not your responsibility to save the relationship<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-woman-with-curly-hair-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada com cabelo encaracolado sentada no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-woman-with-curly-hair-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-woman-with-curly-hair-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-woman-with-curly-hair-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The most important realization ever! It&#8217;s not your responsibility to save the relationship. Watch what happens when you sit up and give yourself time to think.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez a melhor solu\u00e7\u00e3o seja ir embora e seguir em frente, mas tamb\u00e9m pode ser apenas uma fase que os dois tenham de passar.<\/p>\n<p>Just be sure to know that you can&#8217;t save something that&#8217;s already lost.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89493\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/7-Things-You-Need-To-Try-Before-You-Give-Up-On-A-Relationship-pinterest.png\" alt=\"7 coisas que voc\u00ea precisa tentar antes de desistir de um relacionamento\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/7-Things-You-Need-To-Try-Before-You-Give-Up-On-A-Relationship-pinterest.png 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/7-Things-You-Need-To-Try-Before-You-Give-Up-On-A-Relationship-pinterest-212x300.png 212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Although relationships should be easy and sweet, they are usually very complicated and they don&#8217;t make sense most of the time. You get hurt by your partner but you still try to talk it over in order to make it all better. Is it really worth it? Well, if you believe in soulmates you wouldn&#8217;t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":89501,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/7-Things-You-Need-To-Try-Before-You-Give-Up-On-A-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16881"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16881\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89501"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}