{"id":1690,"date":"2019-06-22T09:27:51","date_gmt":"2019-06-22T09:27:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=1690"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:16:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:16:19","slug":"4-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-mantem-maus-relacionamentos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-mantem-maus-relacionamentos\/","title":{"rendered":"4 raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres permanecem em m\u00e1s rela\u00e7\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Temos tend\u00eancia a acreditar que todos queremos o melhor para n\u00f3s. Ser\u00e1 que \u00e9 mesmo assim? Ou por vezes contentamo-nos com menos?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reparei que as mulheres \u00e0 minha volta preferem exprimir as suas atitudes e que falam das coisas que querem. Nunca se diria que estas mulheres se contentam com menos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, quando se trata de amor e de rela\u00e7\u00f5es, as coisas podem ser diferentes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1693 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min.jpg\" alt=\"Homem a segurar uma mulher de vestido preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-262x175.jpg 262w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-735x490.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-335x223.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-347x231.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-520x346.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-640x426.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">H\u00e1 algumas raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres optam por permanecer numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mesmo quando n\u00e3o est\u00e3o satisfeitas com os seus parceiros. Depois de ouvir as suas hist\u00f3rias, posso dizer-lhe 4 dessas raz\u00f5es.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Medo de acabar sozinho<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Penso que a maioria das mulheres se debate com este problema. \u00c9 natural que todos n\u00f3s procuremos seguran\u00e7a e conforto nos nossos parceiros. Existe um mito que retrata a solid\u00e3o como algo terr\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por vezes, temos a imagem estereotipada de uma senhora idosa solteira com um monte de gatos. E apesar de brincarmos com isso, temos secretamente medo de tamb\u00e9m acabarmos assim. Esta \u00e9 a raz\u00e3o mais comum pela qual as mulheres permanecem em maus relacionamentos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acreditam que estar com <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">qualquer um<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 melhor do que ser <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sozinho<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Even if they are not attracted to a guy and don\u2019t love him, they keep on dating him because they feel they have (at least some) security.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como uma nova gera\u00e7\u00e3o de mulheres fortes e independentes, temos de provar ao mundo que <a href=\"http:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/jamie-varon\/2014\/04\/a-relationship-will-not-make-you-happy-so-stop-looking-for-happiness-there\/\" rel=\"noopener\">don\u2019t need anyone in order to be happy<\/a>. Senhoras, pensem nisso. Ser\u00e1 que estar sozinha \u00e9 realmente pior do que estar com a pessoa errada?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t think so.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Baixa autoestima<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many women are facing troubles because they don\u2019t think they are beautiful enough, smart enough, etc. Leaving their comfort zones scares them. Some women don\u2019t believe they can have better than what they already have, and don\u2019t want to risk it all. They are afraid of being rejected by men, and that is why they stick to their partners, despite the fact they are not the perfect matches.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, women who have low self-esteem don\u2019t like conflicts and arguments, so they will do anything just to avoid confrontation. They are afraid to break up with their partners. They pretend that everything is okay because they are insecure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1694 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher de p\u00e9 num prado ao p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perhaps they think, \u201cWho else would want me?\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is an obstacle that every adult woman should overcome. Once we gain our self-esteem back, we will do what it takes to be happy. I\u2019m sure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-true-signs-love-way-loves\/\">6 sinais verdadeiros de que o amas muito mais do que ele te ama<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">For the children\u2019s sake<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Throughout the history, staying in a relationship or marriage just because of kids was considered the right thing to do. A long time ago, this was even considered to be a woman\u2019s obligation. Even today, some women feel it as something mandatory.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Women confessed that they decided to put up with all kinds of problems (such as abusive partners, cheating husbands, etc.) just because they didn\u2019t want to disappoint their children. A relationship\/marriage like that is destined to fail eventually.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De facto, se querem o melhor para os vossos filhos, devem acabar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-signs-toxic-relationship\/\">uma m\u00e1 rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. N\u00e3o est\u00e1 a fazer um favor aos seus filhos se os deixar crescer numa fam\u00edlia infeliz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Al\u00e9m disso, n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a dar um bom exemplo para elas, especialmente se tiver filhas. Lembre-se de que \u00e9 o modelo delas. \u00c9 seu dever ensinar-lhes uma vis\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel do amor, das rela\u00e7\u00f5es e do casamento.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Amor<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talvez isto pare\u00e7a estranho, mas quando amamos tanto algu\u00e9m, recusamo-nos a ver a realidade tal como ela \u00e9. Continuamos a tolerar algumas coisas que s\u00e3o muito m\u00e1s para n\u00f3s. Deixamos que nos enganem, que nos manipulem, que nos mintam. Por vezes, pergunto-me: estaremos loucos ou qu\u00ea?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sim, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel a uma mulher amar verdadeiramente o seu parceiro, apesar de tudo. No entanto, o amor ilimitado pode, por vezes, causar-nos danos se formos cegamente levados por ele. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">H\u00e1 um grande perigo \u00e0 espreita: a possibilidade de sacrificarmos tudo s\u00f3 porque amamos algu\u00e9m.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9 preciso muita coragem para as mulheres nestas situa\u00e7\u00f5es. Desistir do seu amor \u00e9 provavelmente a coisa mais dif\u00edcil. Todos sabemos como \u00e9 dif\u00edcil terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e como pode ser ainda pior quando ainda se tem sentimentos por algu\u00e9m.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We tend to believe we all want what\u2019s best for us. Is it really so? Or sometimes do we settle for less? I noticed that women around me prefer expressing their attitudes, and that they speak up about things they want. You would never say these women settle for less. However, when it comes to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":1693,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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