{"id":16908,"date":"2020-04-26T11:40:51","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T11:40:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16908"},"modified":"2021-08-11T21:14:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T21:14:37","slug":"10-sinais-de-que-e-apenas-mais-um-idiota-egoista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-e-apenas-mais-um-idiota-egoista\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais de que ele \u00e9 apenas mais um idiota ego\u00edsta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando estamos apaixonados, temos tend\u00eancia a ignorar os defeitos do nosso parceiro, porque estamos t\u00e3o loucamente apaixonados que o consideramos perfeito.<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s one thing to ignore it if he never puts clothes in the washing machine or forgets to do the dishes, but it\u2019s a completely different thing to ignore that his selfish ass is not capable of loving anyone but himself.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel like you\u2019re the giver in the relationship and like you\u2019re screaming at a brick wall but nothing is happening, you could be stuck in a relationship with a selfish man.<\/p>\n<p>Check for other signs that he\u2019s just another selfish asshole you should <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relrules.com\/7-types-of-people-you-need-to-kick-out-of-your-life\/\" rel=\"noopener\">expulsar da sua vida<\/a>!<\/p>\n<h2>1. S\u00f3 fala de si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90644\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-wearing-white-shirt-talking-to-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem de camisa branca a falar com uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-wearing-white-shirt-talking-to-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-wearing-white-shirt-talking-to-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-wearing-white-shirt-talking-to-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s so involved with himself that there\u2019s hardly any time left for you to talk about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>E h\u00e1 sempre algum drama a acontecer na sua vida ou algum louvor para ele cantar para si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Quando tentas falar de ti, ele interrompe-te com a mesma coisa que lhe aconteceu no outro dia.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no way in hell you can feel special, because that man is one hell of a one-upper and a show thief.<\/p>\n<h2>2. He never shows interest in how you\u2019re doing<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90645\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-at-cafe-outside.jpg\" alt=\"casal num caf\u00e9 no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-at-cafe-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-at-cafe-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-at-cafe-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In healthy relationships, it\u2019s normal to check up on your partner regularly and make sure that they\u2019re doing okay.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner is not there for you to vent to him and just go on with your life, while they\u2019re the one taking the weight.<\/p>\n<p>And if you feel like he\u2019s constantly doing this to you, using you as a trash bin for his drama, but he never seems to be interested in how you\u2019re doing, let him go.<\/p>\n<p>Um homem que \u00e9 incapaz de perguntar sobre o seu dia \u00e9 incapaz de a amar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/choose-man-loves-way-deserve-loved\/\">da maneira que mereces ser amado.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>3. He\u2019s selfish in the bedroom<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90646\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-and-woman-naked-legs.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher pernas nuas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-and-woman-naked-legs.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-and-woman-naked-legs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-and-woman-naked-legs-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t really care if you finish or not, as long as he finishes. He\u2019s extremely selfish when it comes to providing you with pleasure in the bedroom and the only time you\u2019re actually getting it on is when he\u2019s interested.<\/p>\n<p>That behavior will soon transfer to other parts of your life, not just the bedroom\u2014are you sure he\u2019s worth it?<\/p>\n<h2>4. He doesn\u2019t know the meaning of the word compromise<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90647\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-having-serious-conversation-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal a ter uma conversa s\u00e9ria em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-having-serious-conversation-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-having-serious-conversation-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-having-serious-conversation-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando estamos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, estamos a combinar dois mundos, duas vidas, numa s\u00f3. O compromisso \u00e9 verdadeiramente necess\u00e1rio para que as coisas funcionem.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s not interested in compromising and his way is the only way, it means that he is too selfish to give up on his life and the things he loves for you but he expects you to do it for him.<\/p>\n<p>A man who doesn\u2019t care about your happiness doesn\u2019t care about you. The only person he <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/an-open-letter-guy-cares-himself\/1797785\" rel=\"noopener\">preocupa-se com ele pr\u00f3prio.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>5. He\u2019s highly concerned about your looks<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90649\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-whispering-to-his-beautiful-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a sussurrar \u00e0 sua bela mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-whispering-to-his-beautiful-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-whispering-to-his-beautiful-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-whispering-to-his-beautiful-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another sign of him being selfish is that he\u2019s highly concerned about the way you look and the clothes you wear.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s going to be seen with you, he wants you to look your best. He has a reputation to keep, you know? It doesn\u2019t matter if he hurts your feelings in the process.<\/p>\n<h2>6. You\u2019re only doing things that are of interest to him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90650\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/side-view-of-unhappy-couple-in-a-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de um casal infeliz numa varanda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/side-view-of-unhappy-couple-in-a-balcony.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/side-view-of-unhappy-couple-in-a-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/side-view-of-unhappy-couple-in-a-balcony-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The thing with selfish men is that they\u2019re interested only in the things they can benefit from.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s being nice to you, so he can get something from you or taking you to a certain show where his boss will be, there is always a reason for him to do things.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you don\u2019t see it at first, trust me, it\u2019s there. Just try to think of how many times he\u2019s done something just because you felt like it.<\/p>\n<h2>7. He interrupts you\u2014all the time<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90651\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/shallow-focus-photo-of-man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia com focagem superficial de homem e mulher a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/shallow-focus-photo-of-man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/shallow-focus-photo-of-man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/shallow-focus-photo-of-man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Especially in public. He needs to show that he is the man, he\u2019s the one in charge and his opinion is the best one.<\/p>\n<p>He is the smartest, the best and the most skillful man you could meet and you\u2019re just his silly girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>Um homem que n\u00e3o tem interesse em deixar a sua mulher mostrar a sua experi\u00eancia e conhecimentos \u00e9 um homem com problemas de autoestima que precisa de menosprezar toda a gente para se sentir melhor consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s a man who will try to hold you back from the future you deserve, just because he needs to be more successful than you are.<\/p>\n<h2>8. You\u2019re always the one to apologize<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90652\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem louco a apontar o dedo a uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He can never take the blame, simply because he\u2019s the perfect one. How could he do something wrong? He did that only because he knows what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s a man who is so good at guilt-tripping that you actually end up feeling guilty for being the one who is hurt, so you apologize to him.<\/p>\n<p>If you notice a pattern that you\u2019re always the one apologizing, while he\u2019s the perfect one, think about your relationship. You can\u2019t always be the one to blame.<\/p>\n<h2>9. He always reminds you about how much he\u2019s doing for you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90653\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"Casal infeliz a discutir no sof\u00e1 em casa, na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While he\u2019s incapable of apologizing and looking after your feelings, he\u2019s perfectly capable of reminding you of the things he does for you.<\/p>\n<p>Ele levou a sua roupa \u00e0 lavandaria uma vez e fala disso durante o m\u00eas seguinte.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que lhe pedimos para nos ajudar em alguma coisa, ele esfrega-nos isso na cara.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1s mesmo preparado para ouvir isso para o resto da tua vida? Ou mesmo o resto da semana?<\/p>\n<h2>10. Ele faz-te esperar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90654\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa deitada na cama e a escrever no telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re having dates when it\u2019s convenient for him and going out only when he feels like it.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re texting only when he\u2019s interested in doing so and that\u2019s so rare you often think that the guy died. If he doesn\u2019t make time for you, stop waiting for him.<\/p>\n<p>Mereces mais do que um homem que te faz <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/merecem-olhar-para-o-ecra-vazio\/\">olhar para um ecr\u00e3 vazio<\/a> e que te deixa \u00e0 espera s\u00f3 porque sabe que vais esperar.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes que mereces muito mais do que isso, por isso porque te contentas com o ego\u00edsmo dele?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-90655 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 sinais de que ele \u00e9 apenas mais um idiota ego\u00edsta\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we\u2019re in love we tend to overlook the flaws of our significant other, because we\u2019re so madly in love that we think of them as perfect. But it\u2019s one thing to ignore it if he never puts clothes in the washing machine or forgets to do the dishes, but it\u2019s a completely different thing&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":90642,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16908","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole.jpg",800,542,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16908","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16908"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16908\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90642"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16908"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16908"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16908"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}