{"id":16922,"date":"2020-09-26T13:32:19","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T13:32:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16922"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:30:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:30:19","slug":"para-todas-as-raparigas-com-problemas-de-abandono","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-todas-as-raparigas-com-problemas-de-abandono\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas as raparigas com problemas de abandono"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ol\u00e1, tu. Sei que decidiste ler isto assim que viste a palavra \"abandono\" no t\u00edtulo.<\/p>\n

This is one of the most painful words for you to hear or read. You try to run away from it, but it\u2019s like its haunting you whenever you look.<\/p>\n

Sei que tens enormes cicatrizes emocionais. Desde que te lembras, as pessoas deixaram-te pendurado.<\/p>\n

Eram pessoas a quem deste tudo o que tinhas, mas n\u00e3o recebeste nada em troca<\/a>. Pessoas que vos prometeram o mundo e depois vos viraram as costas.<\/p>\n

Eles estiveram por perto enquanto precisaram de si. Era suficientemente bom para eles quando tratava dos seus assuntos e resolvia os seus problemas.<\/p>\n

Mas, quando \u00e9ramos n\u00f3s que precis\u00e1vamos de alguma coisa, n\u00e3o os encontr\u00e1vamos em lado nenhum. Nenhum deles apreciava todos os sacrif\u00edcios que fazias e todo o esfor\u00e7o que fazias.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Todos eles te abandonaram quando mais precisavas deles e isso \u00e9 algo que te marcou para toda a vida. Os amigos, at\u00e9 a fam\u00edlia, mas sobretudo os homens, trataram-te assim.<\/p>\n

And I know you\u2019ve changed. In the past, you were someone who had a lot of trust in men, someone who believed that there was something good in everyone in this world.<\/p>\n

But, you were proven to be wrong. So, you\u2019ve built thick walls around you. You\u2019ve lost trust in people in general and especially in men.<\/p>\n

E eu sei que tens medo. Presume que todos os homens que se cruzam no seu caminho procuram apenas formas de se aproveitarem de si. Ele vaiusar-te para o seu ego<\/a> e ter algu\u00e9m por perto.<\/p>\n

You are positive that you\u2019ll never find someone who will try to heal you and who will understand everything you\u2019ve gone through.<\/p>\n

Pensa que nunca ningu\u00e9m o poder\u00e1 amar. Est\u00e1 convencido de que deve haver algo de errado consigo, uma vez que todos na sua vida o tratam da mesma forma.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve assured you that you are good for nothing and that you don\u2019t deserve to be loved. So you\u2019ve given up hope. You\u2019ve given up the idea that true love will ever find you.<\/p>\n

Pensa que nenhum homem estar\u00e1 disposto a suport\u00e1-la. Nunca haver\u00e1 um homem que se esforce por sarar todas as suas feridas e que a conven\u00e7a de que nem todos s\u00e3o iguais.<\/p>\n

And you think it is better that way. You don\u2019t give anyone a chance to get to know the real you because you think they will use you as soon as they see your vulnerable side.<\/p>\n

So you carry this fa\u00e7ade, this tough girl mask that chases men away from you\u2014you think that is for the best.<\/p>\n

That it is the only way to protect yourself from going through the things you\u2019ve already gone through.<\/p>\n

But, I am here to tell you not to give up. I am here to tell you that everything is going to be OK, although you probably don\u2019t believe me.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

H\u00e1-de aparecer um homem que te amar\u00e1, apesar de todas as tuas inseguran\u00e7as. Um homem quenunca desistir de ti<\/a>. Um homem que saber\u00e1 reconhecer o seu verdadeiro eu.<\/p>\n

Um homem que ver\u00e1 a rapariga perdida e assustada que enterrou dentro de si. Este homem saber\u00e1 que est\u00e1s apenas \u00e0 espera de ser amada.<\/p>\n

This man will know all about your fears. But, he won\u2019t run away from them. Instead, he will fight them together with you.<\/p>\n

He will know that your abandonment issues are a battle you can\u2019t control and he\u2019ll never blame you for has happened to you. Instead, he will understand.<\/p>\n

Ele compreender\u00e1 tudo aquilo por que passou e compreender\u00e1 que tudo isso fez de si a pessoa que \u00e9 hoje. Mas, acima de tudo, ele vai entender-te.<\/p>\n

E ele aceitar-vos-\u00e1. Amar-te-\u00e1 mesmo quando te sentires frustrada ou assustada. Ele vai amar-te com todos os teus medos e problemas de confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele vai amar-te com todos os teus problemas e dem\u00f3nios interiores. Nunca pensar\u00e1 em ti como o seu fardo.<\/p>\n

Instead, this man will see right through your armour shield. He will see that you were broken. But, he\u2019ll never try to use that against you.<\/p>\n

Instead, he will cherish your sensitivity and vulnerability. He will take care of you and you\u2019ll never overwhelm him.<\/p>\n

This man will be patient with you. He\u2019ll understand everything you went through and he won\u2019t expect you to open up to him right away.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll know that you can\u2019t trust him from the very beginning and he\u2019ll put an effort to win over your trust.<\/p>\n

And most importantly, this man will never abandon you. Even if you try to chase him away, he\u2019ll do anything in his power to stay.<\/p>\n

This guy will always have your back and will hold your hand through all life\u2019s difficulties. He will never leave you alone and he\u2019ll make sure you always know that.<\/p>\n

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Hey, you. I know you decided to read this as soon as you saw the word \u2018abandonment\u2019 in the title. This is one of the most painful words for you to hear or read. You try to run away from it, but it\u2019s like its haunting you whenever you look. I know you have enormous…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":113915,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16922","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/To-Every-Girl-With-Abandonment-Issues-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16922","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16922"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16922\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113915"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16922"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16922"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16922"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}