{"id":16973,"date":"2018-03-27T10:42:39","date_gmt":"2018-03-27T10:42:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16973"},"modified":"2022-01-10T01:10:22","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T01:10:22","slug":"sou-perfeitamente-imperfeita-e-isso-e-mais-do-que-aceitavel-para-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sou-perfeitamente-imperfeita-e-isso-e-mais-do-que-aceitavel-para-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu sou perfeitamente imperfeito e isso \u00e9 mais do que bom para mim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Alguma vez algu\u00e9m te disse que \u00e9s perfeito?<\/strong> <\/em>Sentiu-se bem ou sentiu-se mal porque teve de justificar a sua perfei\u00e7\u00e3o esfor\u00e7ando-se mais, sendo melhor e nunca desistindo? Como v\u00ea, vivemos num mundo em que toda a gente \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/parar-de-tentar-ser-perfeito\/\">tentar ser perfeito<\/a>como se a vida deles dependesse disso. Quando abro o meu Facebook, s\u00f3 me aparecem caras perfeitas.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Tudo o que consigo ver s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/sex-women\/a19543284\/11-qualities-of-the-perfect-woman\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mulheres perfeitas<\/a>A maioria das pessoas que vivem no mundo da moda, com casas, maridos e filhos perfeitos, que v\u00e3o para destinos ex\u00f3ticos perfeitos e que vivem vidas perfeitas.<\/strong><\/em> They have perfect jobs with perfect colleagues and they seem like they don\u2019t have any problems.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas sabes que mais? Que se lixe isso!<\/strong> Fuck their perfect lives when they have to use Photoshop in every selfie they take because they are not as beautiful as they appear to be. Fuck their perfect husbands who hit on every hot woman who comes along. Fuck their vacations to exotic destinations because they took out a bank loan so they could show off in front of their \u2018perfect\u2019 friends.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>H\u00e1 pessoas que s\u00f3 querem saber se s\u00e3o ricas e se a sociedade as aceita.<\/strong><\/em> Because you don\u2019t want to do something to depart from societal rules, right? It is extremely important to be a part of something and if you don\u2019t belong anywhere, you don\u2019t exist, at least not in a world like this.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Por isso, mais uma vez, que se lixe esse mundo!<\/strong><\/em> I never was perfect and I don\u2019t want to be perfect. I am perfectly imperfect and I am more than okay with that. I don\u2019t want to be one of those girls who doesn\u2019t think with her own head and who nods to all the shit that others say just because they have an important role in society. I don\u2019t want to be molded into something I don\u2019t want to be just because someone else likes it. I want to be on my own. I want to find the right path to happiness and I want to think in a normal and healthy way.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>And if someone has a problem with that or if someone doesn\u2019t accept me the way I am, then I don\u2019t need that person in my life.<\/strong><\/em> Serei sempre um pouco confusa, um pouco louca e uma rapariga que usa o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga durante toda a vida. Porque isso \u00e9 o que mais importa no final. Quero fazer uma vida que seja s\u00f3 minha, sem que os outros me digam o que fazer ou como me comportar.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Porque eu n\u00e3o sou como eles<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-coisas-que-os-homens-querem-da-sua-namorada-perfeita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> raparigas perfeitas<\/a> que se v\u00ea na rua.<\/strong><\/em> I will never say something just so others will like me. I will always say what I mean, no matter how good or bad it may sound. But at least it will come from the bottom of my heart. And no matter what happens, I will never strive for perfection because it really doesn\u2019t exist. I will always be a girl with my own scars that are a part of my story.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Serei diferente das outras pessoas que conhecer\u00e1 porque sou \u00fanico e \u00e9 isso que me torna t\u00e3o especial.<\/strong><\/em> Manter-me-ei sempre fiel a mim pr\u00f3prio, porque \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de n\u00e3o me perder. E aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, amar-me-ei sempre e aceitar-me-ei tal como sou. S\u00f3 assim poderei encontrar a paz que tanto anseio. Porque a vida \u00e9 demasiado curta e a \u00faltima coisa de que preciso \u00e9 de fingir que sou outra pessoa. Orgulho-me de tudo o que consegui e, mesmo que n\u00e3o seja muito, estou grato por cada li\u00e7\u00e3o e cada b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o que recebo.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Portanto, esta sou eu, perfeitamente imperfeita e estou mais do que satisfeita com isso.<\/strong><\/em> If you want to accept me like this, don\u2019t try to change me. I will change when I feel it is the right time for that and not when someone else wants me to. I like to be beautifully broken and a little bit on my own.<strong><em> That is what makes me so unique and I don\u2019t want to change that for anything in this world.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did anyone ever tell you that you are perfect? Did it make you feel good or did it made you feel bad because you had to justify your perfection by trying harder, being better and never giving up? 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