{"id":16974,"date":"2020-04-06T10:39:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T10:39:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16974"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:16:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:16:03","slug":"prefiro-ficar-solteiro-a-contentar-me-com-menos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/prefiro-ficar-solteiro-a-contentar-me-com-menos\/","title":{"rendered":"Prefiro ficar solteiro do que contentar-me com menos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estou farta de ouvir dizer que sou demasiado exigente, que os meus padr\u00f5es s\u00e3o demasiado elevados e que vou acabar sozinha. <\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m sick of hearing questions about wedding bells and what the hell I am waiting for. <\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m sick of being looked down on just because I\u2019m single. So, this one goes out to all of those people who are drowning me in the nonsense of settling. <\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than settle for someone I don\u2019t love.<\/b> Estive em rela\u00e7\u00f5es em que era eu que me preocupava mais e em que era eu que me preocupava menos. <\/p>\n

You can\u2019t for\u00e7ar o amor <\/a> . Just like I couldn\u2019t make my ex love me, I can\u2019t be forced to love someone else. I tried, believe me I did. \u201c Give it time,\u201d <\/i> disseram. <\/p>\n

Mas por mais que tentasse, nunca resultava. N\u00e3o importa quanto tempo eu espere, o amor n\u00e3o aparece. Por isso, deixei de esperar. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than sacrifice my dreams.<\/b> I\u2019ve seen so many unhappy people who gave up on their dreams for the sake of their relationship. <\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m not ready to do that. I\u2019m not ready to give up on my dream of traveling the world while I can. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m not ready to give up on the idea of living my dream, because my partner needs me to. There are sacrifices that I\u2019ll never make for love. And my future is one of them. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than settle for something half-assed.<\/b> Whether it\u2019s love, passion or life. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want it. I had it already, I was living off of crumbs of love. <\/p>\n

I was stuck in the same place with a man I couldn\u2019t imagine my future with and I was dreaming about making my dreams come true. <\/p>\n

I dreamed about a brighter future but he wasn\u2019t part of it. So I stopped dreaming and started doing. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than to have a <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem respeito<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m more than someone who will make you goddamn sandwiches and babies and bring you beer. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m a woman who wants to have children and who wants to raise them. And I want it all. I want to watch them grow, I want to kiss their bruises and sing them lullabies. <\/p>\n

Quero v\u00ea-los a ir para a universidade e quero dar-lhes uma vida decente. <\/p>\n

E quero que a minha cara-metade respeite esse desejo. Que me respeite a mim, as minhas escolhas, o meu passado e o meu conhecimento. <\/p>\n

E raios, quero algu\u00e9m que o fa\u00e7a comigo. Tudo isso. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than be in a one-sided relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quero algu\u00e9m que se esforce tanto como eu e que nunca me fa\u00e7a implorar por amor. <\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quero algu\u00e9m que lute por mim e comigo, n\u00e3o contra mim. Quero ter o amor que os meus pais t\u00eam. Amor com confian\u00e7a e respeito m\u00fatuos. <\/p>\n

Amor sem jogos, sorrisos falsos e mentiras. Quero lealdade, honestidade e integridade. E recuso-me a baixar os meus padr\u00f5es. <\/p>\n

There are certain times where it\u2019s okay to do it but love is not one of them. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than question my worth.<\/b> Because, you see, when you are dating a manipulator, you don\u2019t know it until it\u2019s too late. <\/p>\n

Until you have already lost all of you, your confidence, worth and faith. You don\u2019t know it until they leave you for dead, all bruised and naked. <\/p>\n

E Eu n\u00e3o me reconstru\u00ed <\/a> para que algu\u00e9m o leve embora. <\/p>\n

N\u00e3o passei pelo inferno da depress\u00e3o para voltar a cair nele. N\u00e3o fui dono do mundo para que algu\u00e9m me depreciasse. <\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por isso, opto por ficar solteira at\u00e9 que algu\u00e9m o possua comigo.   <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than settle for lies. <\/b> I\u2019ve been promised lifelong love before. <\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been made to believe that love is supposed to hurt. They say if it doesn\u2019t hurt, it\u2019s not real. But love is not about the pain, for heaven\u2019s sake. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s about acceptance, the will to fight and the passion you share together. It\u2019s about lowering your walls to let someone in and that someone protecting you. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s about rewriting the stars together, not putting them out. And I have had enough of others people\u2019s darkness. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than give up on me.<\/b> I\u2019m weird, proud and one hell of a badass. I learned how to be my own hero, so I don\u2019t need a new one. <\/p>\n

I learned how to fight my own battles, so I\u2019m not looking for a knight in shining armor. I learned how to love myself but the thing is, I want someone to love me as well. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about me needing someone in my life, it\u2019s about me wanting someone there. I want someone to have my back when it all goes south. <\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quero algu\u00e9m que caminhe ao meu lado, n\u00e3o que me carregue, at\u00e9 ao fim da estrada. E eu quero aquele amor de filme, mas n\u00e3o a qualquer custo. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than <\/b>aceitar<\/b><\/a> menos.<\/b> Por nada menos do que eu mere\u00e7o e quero. <\/p>\n

And God knows that I\u2019m not asking for much. In a world full of fuckboys, games and lies, I\u2019m asking for honesty and loyalty. <\/p>\n

In a world full of darkness and pain, I\u2019m asking for joy and someone who will shine with me. <\/p>\n

In a world full of hate, violence and brokenness, I\u2019m asking for someone who will share love with me. <\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que lute comigo contra as adversidades, que n\u00e3o me abandone ap\u00f3s o primeiro solavanco na estrada. <\/p>\n

Por isso, escolho a vida de solteiro at\u00e9 que o amor me escolha. Escolho-me a mim pr\u00f3pria at\u00e9 que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o escolha outra pessoa. <\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Prefiro<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sick of hearing how I\u2019m too picky, how my standards are too high and how I\u2019ll end up all alone. I\u2019m sick of hearing questions about wedding bells and what the hell I am waiting for. I\u2019m sick of being looked down on just because I\u2019m single. So, this one goes out to all…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":77055,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16974","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Id-Rather-Stay-Single-Than-Settle-For-Less.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16974","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16974"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16974\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77055"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16974"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16974"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16974"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}