{"id":16984,"date":"2019-12-27T11:14:13","date_gmt":"2019-12-27T11:14:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16984"},"modified":"2022-01-10T03:11:35","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T03:11:35","slug":"uma-carta-aberta-a-proxima-namorada-do-meu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-aberta-a-proxima-namorada-do-meu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta para a pr\u00f3xima namorada do meu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Corre. Corre o mais r\u00e1pido que puderes e o mais longe que puderes.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Costumava odiar as pessoas que criticavam os seus ex. Eles foram a nossa escolha e, numa determinada altura da nossa vida, n\u00f3s am\u00e1mo-los. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Am\u00e1vamo-las como ningu\u00e9m e pens\u00e1vamos que essas pessoas iam ficar na nossa vida, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/2016297149\/how-make-sure-man-never-leaves-you-according-his-zodiac-sign-astrology\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sem nunca nos deixar<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A equipa da Comiss\u00e3o Europeia, que esteve sempre presente quando precis\u00e1mos deles. <\/span><b>Mas, oh Deus, como eu estava errado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As I woman, I feel it\u2019s my responsibility to tell you that you need to be careful. I wouldn&#8217;t want you to get hurt or to get your heart broken by someone who doesn&#8217;t even have one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>That man you will be looking at is like a grenade and you&#8217;re just waiting for him to explode and tear your whole world into pieces. He isn&#8217;t able to love a woman. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Never was, never will be. He doesn&#8217;t know how breakable the heart of a woman is, nor does he know how fragile her body is.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A woman breaks under the weight of someone who doesn&#8217;t give her the love and appreciation she deserves. You must know that, you&#8217;re a woman too. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you don&#8217;t get the appreciation you deserve, it seems like there&#8217;s no way you can make the relationship work but you continue on fighting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Be careful. He doesn&#8217;t have limits.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ultrapassaste-todos-os-meus-limites1\/\"> Ele ultrapassa os limites<\/a> and he doesn&#8217;t think twice about it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He will never consider your feelings while he&#8217;s saying what&#8217;s on his mind and it doesn&#8217;t bother him if he offends you to the point where you&#8217;re crying your eyes out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If he says he loves you, don&#8217;t believe him. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I fell for that trap too many times and my heart still hasn&#8217;t recovered from the pain he inflicted on me. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Always watch his actions and see if they follow up with his words. The moment you see that there&#8217;s nothing you can do for him to stop lying and treating you like you aren&#8217;t worthy of the truth, leave. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deixar isso de lado <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/finalmente-a-afastar-se-manipulador-toxico\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">manipulador t\u00f3xico<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and don&#8217;t let him fool you that he can change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 capaz de mudar.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I know that you&#8217;re probably thinking that I&#8217;m telling you all this because I still love him or because of some kind of jealousy, but no. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m telling you this as a friend. As someone who doesn&#8217;t want you to go through everything that I&#8217;ve experienced. I wouldn&#8217;t want any woman to ever fall into his devious hands.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-25990 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Untitled-design-5-724x1024.png\" alt=\"Uma carta aberta para a pr\u00f3xima namorada do meu ex\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Untitled-design-5-724x1024.png 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Untitled-design-5-212x300.png 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Untitled-design-5-768x1086.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Untitled-design-5.png 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Eu sei que ele parece simp\u00e1tico.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> He seems like he can give you the world and that he&#8217;ll make you happy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His eyes hypnotize you to the point where you think that you haven&#8217;t seen anything more beautiful in your entire life but truth be told, it\u2019s all an act.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>To him, love doesn&#8217;t exist except in the dictionary.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Love isn&#8217;t an emotion but a word that gets him what he desires. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 mais do que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-techniques-all-girls-use-to-manipulate-guys\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uma forma de manipular as mulheres<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who have fallen head over heels for him. But it doesn&#8217;t mean anything to him but victory. Nothing but a way to show his power.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Don&#8217;t wait for him to come home. Lock the door.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You won&#8217;t be able to fall asleep at night because you&#8217;ll be waiting for him and you don&#8217;t want that. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t want any man to treat you that way. At least lock the door so he knows that there&#8217;s no way he will ever again get another chance. I wish I had been smarter back then.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I wish I hadn\u2019t told him how hurt I was, I wish I had never said that his behavior was painful to me. My emotions were stronger than I was but I want to tell you that you need to be strong for the both of us. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show him that he can&#8217;t play with a woman&#8217;s heart like that. Show him how to treasure a woman and if you see that he&#8217;s not changing<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">seguir em frente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I&#8217;ve given you all the advice you need in order to survive the relationship.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Talvez tu v\u00e1s ser diferente. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elephantjournal.com\/2016\/03\/no-matter-how-hard-you-love-him-you-wont-be-able-to-change-him\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talvez sejas mesmo capaz de o mudar<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But if not, know that you&#8217;re not the only one who tried and failed. I&#8217;m just sorry that you will have to go through all that with him in order to see who he truly is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>No entanto, quando a dor e a luta acabarem, aperceber-se-\u00e1 de como s\u00e3o preciosas as pessoas que sabem amar. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Encontrar\u00e1 uma nova for\u00e7a para viver e encontrar\u00e1 a motiva\u00e7\u00e3o para seguir em frente, independentemente do tempo que isso possa levar. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>A melhor coisa de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele \u00e9 sair dela mais forte do que nunca.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Run. Run as fast as you can and as far as you can. I used to hate those people who would bash their exes. They were our choice and at one point in our life, we loved them. We loved them like no one else and we thought that those people were going to stay&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":16989,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16984","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/george-gvasalia-554878-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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