{"id":16999,"date":"2020-06-27T13:18:56","date_gmt":"2020-06-27T13:18:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16999"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:45:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:45:50","slug":"5-sinais-de-que-ele-nao-merece-uma-segunda-oportunidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-ele-nao-merece-uma-segunda-oportunidade\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais de que ele n\u00e3o merece uma segunda chance"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ter o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido \u00e9 uma das piores dores emocionais por que se pode passar.<\/p>\n

Sente-se sem esperan\u00e7a e tudo o que quer \u00e9 voltar para o homem que lhe causou toda esta m\u00e1goa.<\/p>\n

And he behaves like he wants you back too. But you simply don\u2019t know what to do.<\/p>\n

Tem medo que you won\u2019t be able to move on<\/a> without this man by your side but at the same time, you are terrified he\u2019ll hurt you all over again.<\/p>\n

You are aware that things between the two of you didn\u2019t work out for a reason but all you want to do is let him back in your life.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ve found yourself in a dead-end street and you don\u2019t know what to do.<\/p>\n

Of course, there are situations in which people deserve a second chance. But there are also times when you shouldn\u2019t allow them to re-enter your life, no matter what.<\/p>\n

Here are 5 signs your ex doesn\u2019t deserve for you to give him a second chance under any circumstances.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the first time he has done this<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Uma segunda oportunidade s\u00f3 \u00e9 dada a algu\u00e9m uma vez e, mesmo assim, n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que se deva dar facilmente.<\/p>\n

Uma coisa \u00e9 o seu namorado ter sido sempre um tipo simp\u00e1tico que cometeu um erro est\u00fapido uma vez.<\/p>\n

Nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, o erro dele pode ser visto como uma exce\u00e7\u00e3o e \u00e9 perfeitamente normal que reconsidere a possibilidade de lhe dar uma segunda oportunidade.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019ve given numerous \u2018second\u2019 chances to this guy but he keeps doing the same things that bother you over and over again, it is more than obvious that he doesn\u2019t deserve any more of your time and attention.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t keep his promises<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

One of the signs that you shouldn\u2019t even consider taking your ex back is the fact that he never keeps his promises.<\/p>\n

Embora queira muito que ele mude, no fundo sabe que este tipo n\u00e3o \u00e9 de confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

For as long as you can remember, he\u2019s been giving you false promises and telling you everything you want to hear.<\/p>\n

But he never kept any one of those promises. You don\u2019t know whether he intentionally lies to you just to keep you around or if he is simply not reliable.<\/p>\n

Seja como for, o que vos faz pensar que desta vez seria diferente?<\/p>\n

Why do you think he is someone who deserves a second chance from you, when it\u2019s probable that he\u2019ll make you all the promises in the world but won\u2019t keep any of them?<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t really sorry<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Quando algu\u00e9m est\u00e1 realmente arrependido e pronto para mudar, o seu instinto diz-lhe que ele est\u00e1 a ser sincero.<\/p>\n

Da mesma forma, a sua intui\u00e7\u00e3o dir-lhe-\u00e1 se este tipo est\u00e1 apenas a enganar-vos<\/a> e se ele quer que penses que ele est\u00e1 mesmo arrependido.<\/p>\n

Sei que quer acreditar nas boas inten\u00e7\u00f5es dele para consigo, mas ser\u00e1 que ele est\u00e1 realmente a mostrar remorsos e a assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos ou est\u00e1 apenas a dizer-lhe o que quer ouvir?<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a fazer tudo para obter o seu perd\u00e3o ou \u00e9 voc\u00ea que est\u00e1 a inventar desculpas para o comportamento dele, porque quer justific\u00e1-lo?<\/p>\n

When a man is really sorry and doesn\u2019t want to make the same mistakes all over again, he will do whatever it takes just so you forgive him.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014if he wants to be with you, he\u2019ll chase you to the end of the world just to make it happen.<\/p>\n

But on the other hand, if a guy is not ready to be accountable for his own actions, he definitely doesn\u2019t deserve a second chance.<\/p>\n

It only means that he doesn\u2019t care enough about winning you over, that he is not aware of the things he\u2019s done to you or that he is perfectly aware of everything but just doesn\u2019t care enough to deal with it.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t take you seriously anymore<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se \u00e9 uma dessas raparigas que continuam a dar dezenas de segundas oportunidades sempre que o namorado faz asneira, a dura verdade \u00e9 que ele deixou de a levar a s\u00e9rio h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n

If this is the case with you and your boyfriend, let me tell you that he doesn\u2019t have any intention of changing, no matter what he says.<\/p>\n

Ele conhece-te muito bem e sabe o que precisas de ouvir para o deixares voltar \u00e0 tua vida.<\/p>\n

You keep threatening that this is the last time you are letting him back in your life and that you\u2019ll leave him for good if he doesn\u2019t change his behavior and treatment of you but he knows very well that you won\u2019t back your words with actions.<\/p>\n

Por isso, lamento ser eu a dizer-to, mas este tipo toma-te por parva.<\/p>\n

He thinks he can do whatever he wants and knows you\u2019ll always be there waiting for him.<\/p>\n

Your empty words don\u2019t really scare him and you aren\u2019t accomplishing a thing.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t forget what he did<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se est\u00e1 a pensar em dar uma segunda oportunidade ao seu namorado, tem de saber que esquecer e perdoar s\u00e3o duas coisas completamente diferentes.<\/p>\n

Although forgiving someone for the harm he\u2019s done to you is hard and challenging, forgetting is even more difficult.<\/p>\n

One of the biggest mistakes you could make in a relationship is convincing yourself that you\u2019ve forgiven or forgotten about something that still haunts you.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que provavelmente tens saudades deste tipo e daquele ainda o amas<\/a> but taking him back won\u2019t change a lot, especially if you know that you will be holding grudges and that resentment and bitterness will become a part of you and your relationship.<\/p>\n

In this case, it\u2019s better not to give him another chance, because you obviously can\u2019t move on from the things he did to you and the two of you will never have a stable, healthy relationship in those kinds of circumstances.<\/p>\n

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