{"id":17038,"date":"2020-03-28T09:03:14","date_gmt":"2020-03-28T09:03:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17038"},"modified":"2022-02-27T13:45:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T13:45:13","slug":"sei-que-tens-saudades-minhas-e-estou-me-nas-tintas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sei-que-tens-saudades-minhas-e-estou-me-nas-tintas\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu sei que tu sentes a minha falta e eu n\u00e3o quero saber"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s not my fault that you are an idiot who left me. It\u2019s not my fault that you\u2019ve made the biggest mistake of your life and you\u2019ve realized it too late. That\u2019s why, my darling, I don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Pensaste que a vida seria melhor sem mim, pensaste que podias fazer melhor. Caramba, fizeste asneira!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t say anything the day you decided to leave me. I didn\u2019t beg for you to stay, I didn\u2019t try to stop you and I didn\u2019t ask you why.<\/p>\n<p>Even though I loved you, I let you go. But you know what? I\u2019m glad you walked away because your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/my-heart-deserves-more-than-your-half-assed-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">amor de meia-tigela<\/a> n\u00e3o \u00e9 o que eu mere\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>I slammed the door in your face without shedding one tear, even though I was crying a river inside that I never wanted you to see. I wouldn\u2019t let you see my pain. That was something that was beneath me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Esquecer-te era a luta que eu estava prestes a travar. Era uma luta s\u00f3 minha.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I really hope that you are happy for leaving me because if you\u2019re not, then all of this would have been in vain. You would have broken my heart in vain and you would have lost me in vain.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you miss me and frankly, I don\u2019t give a fuck. I know that you know that you made the biggest mistake of your life because you\u2019re never going to find anyone who will treat you like I did and you are aware of that.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you miss me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>But I don\u2019t miss you. I only miss the person I was before I met you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>A nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o mudou-me. Esforcei-me tanto para que funcion\u00e1ssemos. Esforcei-me tanto para te agradar e esperava receber algo em troca, mas nunca recebi.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo o que recebi foi dor e tortura e isso mudou-me. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o sou a mesma pessoa que era antes. Sinto falta do meu antigo eu.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>That\u2019s why I don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me but guess what? You\u2019re never going to get me back. You\u2019re history.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Sentes a minha falta porque eu estava sempre l\u00e1 para ti.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sempre que precisavas de mim, eu estava l\u00e1 para ti.<\/p>\n<p>When you had a bad day and came home all fucked up, I offered you a shoulder to cry on, despite the fact that I had my own problems which you regularly ignored because they weren\u2019t important to you. I wasn\u2019t important to you.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Sentes a minha falta porque eu era o teu saco de pancada onde descarregavas tudo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I was there whenever you needed to blow off some steam. When you were annoyed or angry, you took it all out on me. You didn\u2019t care, not one bit, that you fed me with negative energy almost every day.<\/p>\n<p>You couldn\u2019t care less that you destroyed me bit by bit with your poisonous words. You were that selfish, so I really don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You miss me because you\u2019ve realized how lucky you were to have me.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now that you\u2019re waking up in the morning all alone. There is no one there to hug and kiss you good morning. There is no one there to text you how much she loves you.<\/p>\n<p>There is no one there to call you just to say she misses you. You miss that, I get it, but really darling, I don\u2019t give a fuck. You had your chance and you decided you could do better. Okay, now\u2019s your chance. Good luck!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Sentes a minha falta porque me usaste para aumentar o teu ego.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Costumava criticar-me a toda a hora. Tudo o que eu fazia nunca era suficientemente bom para ti. Podias sempre fazer melhor do que eu, mas nunca tentaste.<\/p>\n<p>I know why you never tried; it was because you were incapable. You hid your incompetence by judging me and making me feel like crap, like I was completely incapable. That\u2019s what made you feel better than me.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em><strong>I don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me and I don\u2019t want you back, only because you would feel more important by putting me down.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Sentes a minha falta porque j\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m quer aturar as tuas merdas.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Aguentei muito mais do que devia. A culpa nunca foi tua. Seja qual for a merda que aconteceu, sabias exatamente como te defenderes. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/287448\/14-signs-someone-always-playing-the-victim\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fazer-se de v\u00edtima<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>De alguma forma, sabias como fazer-me esquecer o que eu te estava a dizer. Sabias mudar de assunto e culpar-me por algo que fiz h\u00e1 3 meses.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s how all the attention would move from you to me and poor you, no one understood how you were feeling and how hurt you were. See, I don\u2019t miss that!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You miss me because you\u2019re no one\u2019s priority now that I\u2019m gone.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I knew that no one else would put up with you. Maybe you even had a backup plan when you left me but where is she now? I know\u2014she left your sorry ass when you tried to control her like you did me.<\/p>\n<p>It blew up in your face and she told you she never wanted to see you again. That\u2019s why you miss me.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em><strong>I put up with everything you did to me because I loved you. But now that you have left me, I feel like a huge burden has fallen from my chest and I really don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me. I don\u2019t miss you.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>You miss me because I\u2019ve realized I deserve better.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Wouldn\u2019t you like to come back into my life now that you see how happy I am and how satisfied I am with myself? Well, you are responsible for that, so thank you so much.<\/p>\n<p>Obrigado por me fazeres perceber que estava a perder tempo quando estava ao teu lado.<\/p>\n<p>Obrigado por me impedires de me odiar a mim pr\u00f3prio, porque isso teria acontecido se eu tivesse ficado contigo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/rapariga-da-carta-que-ja-nao-reconhece\/\">Deixaria de me reconhecer<\/a> e eu come\u00e7aria a odiar-te e depois a mim.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You can\u2019t come back to me, I won\u2019t let you. You can miss me but I won\u2019t miss you and frankly, I no longer give a fuck that you do.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91029 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i-know-that-you-miss-me-and-i-dont-give-a-fk-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Eu sei que tu sentes a minha falta e eu n\u00e3o quero saber\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i-know-that-you-miss-me-and-i-dont-give-a-fk-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i-know-that-you-miss-me-and-i-dont-give-a-fk-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i-know-that-you-miss-me-and-i-dont-give-a-fk-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s not my fault that you are an idiot who left me. It\u2019s not my fault that you\u2019ve made the biggest mistake of your life and you\u2019ve realized it too late. That\u2019s why, my darling, I don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me. You thought that life would be better without me, you thought&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":17040,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17038","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/rodolfo-sanches-carvalho-439913-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17038","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17038"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17038\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17040"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17038"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17038"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17038"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}