{"id":17067,"date":"2020-11-08T11:06:51","date_gmt":"2020-11-08T11:06:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17067"},"modified":"2022-01-09T18:18:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T18:18:05","slug":"es-a-minha-maior-desilusao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/es-a-minha-maior-desilusao\/","title":{"rendered":"You Are My Biggest Disappointment (Tu \u00e9s a minha maior desilus\u00e3o)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What you did to me was more than terrible. You shattered my dreams and destroyed my entire world. You put me through an unimaginable amount of pain that I was sure I couldn\u2019t handle.<\/p>\n<p>But I did. I didn\u2019t only learn to handle it but I also survived. I survived you and everything you put me through. Somehow, my life kept going without you in it.<\/p>\n<p><b>N\u00e3o vou mentir<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>foi tudo menos f\u00e1cil. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>No in\u00edcio, n\u00e3o via fim para a minha mis\u00e9ria. Pensei que iria sofrer para o resto da minha vida por me teres abandonado. Tinha a certeza de que nunca te conseguiria esquecer.<\/p>\n<p>At first, I hoped you\u2019d come back. I hoped you\u2019d realize you had made a huge mistake by abandoning me and that you\u2019d try to fix things.<\/p>\n<p>But most of all, I hoped that you\u2019d understand how much you loved me and that we would continue where we left off. So, I waited for that to happen.<\/p>\n<p>Estava pronta a perdoar-te por me teres deixado e por toda a dor que me causaste, desde que te pudesse ter de volta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122293 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher asi\u00e1tica triste senta-se \u00e0 janela e olha para o exterior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But time passed by and that didn\u2019t happen. And what did happen was life. Everywhere around me, life went on and I was standing still, in one place, waiting for you.<\/p>\n<p>And then one morning, after a while, I woke up and you weren\u2019t the first thing that crossed my mind. And I didn\u2019t realize that until a few hours had passed.<\/p>\n<p>Outra pessoa consideraria isto irrelevante mas, para mim, era enorme. Passado algum tempo, dei por mim a sorrir de novo sem qualquer raz\u00e3o especial.<\/p>\n<p>And I knew I was on the path to my recovery. For the first time ever, I had hope that there would come a time when I\u2019d get over you.<\/p>\n<p>E esse momento chegou. <b>Eu realmente sobrevivi a ti. E perdoei-te mesmo por tudo o que aconteceu entre n\u00f3s. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Perdoei-te por me teres deixado num piscar de olhos e perdoei-te por nunca te teres perguntado como \u00e9 que as tuas ac\u00e7\u00f5es me faziam sentir. Perdoo-te por tudo, exceto por uma coisa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122294 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table.jpg\" alt=\"a loira triste pensa \u00e0 mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><b>I can\u2019t forgive you for disappointing me.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it \u2014 you were never perfect. And neither was I. But I thought we were perfect for each other. After all, that was what you tried to convince me all along, wasn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>Trabalhou muito para ganhar a minha confian\u00e7a e para se apresentar como um homem fi\u00e1vel e maduro.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2014 I always saw your flaws and I accepted them as part of you. But despite all of these flaws, I always thought you were an amazing guy.<\/p>\n<p>Considerava-o um grande homem e, acima de tudo, uma grande pessoa. Tinha a certeza da for\u00e7a do seu car\u00e1cter. Pensava em ti como um homem de palavra, como algu\u00e9m que nunca violaria a minha confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>I considered you to be a man I could trust with my life and I was sure you\u2019d never hurt me the way you did.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a forma como <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-deixou-o-chao-a-implorar-para-ficar\/\">deixaste-me<\/a> e tudo o que fizeste depois de te ires embora mostrou-me como eu estava enganada. Mostrou-me que s\u00f3 eras grande aos meus olhos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122295 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"uma loira triste deitada na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You weren\u2019t this great man and great person<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>Eu s\u00f3 te imaginava assim. Eras apenas o meu maior amor. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Apercebi-me que s\u00f3 esperava e desejava que fosses <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/articles\/communication\/9-ways-better-person.html\" rel=\"noopener\"> uma pessoa melhor <\/a> than you actually were. And then it hit me \u2014 I never knew the real you.<\/p>\n<p>I will never know whether you pretended to be someone you obviously weren\u2019t or if I just chose to see you differently. I will never know if you changed after you walked away from me or if this was your true face all along.<\/p>\n<p>Porque come\u00e7aste a agir como se eu nunca tivesse existido, como se nunca tiv\u00e9ssemos sido uma coisa.<\/p>\n<p>When you walked away without ever giving me an explanation, without saying a word, you proved that our relationship never meant a thing to you \u2014 that I didn\u2019t mean anything to you. You did everything you swore you would never do.<\/p>\n<p>E agora, <b> you are the man you swore you\u2019d never be. Now, you are my biggest disappointment.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122296 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"You Are My Biggest Disappointment (Tu \u00e9s a minha maior desilus\u00e3o)\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> <\/b> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What you did to me was more than terrible. You shattered my dreams and destroyed my entire world. You put me through an unimaginable amount of pain that I was sure I couldn\u2019t handle. But I did. I didn\u2019t only learn to handle it but I also survived. I survived you and everything you put&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":122292,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17067","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment.-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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