{"id":17071,"date":"2020-05-28T11:32:19","date_gmt":"2020-05-28T11:32:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17071"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:58:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:58:52","slug":"tenho-pena-da-mulher-que-te-vai-amar-depois-de-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tenho-pena-da-mulher-que-te-vai-amar-depois-de-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"Tenho pena da mulher que te vai amar depois de mim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sabias que eu era sempre um pouco ciumento. N\u00e3o \u00e9 algo de que me orgulhe, mas \u00e9 simplesmente o que sempre fui.<\/p>\n<p>When we were together, my biggest fear wasn\u2019t that you\u2019d leave me, it was that you\u2019d find someone else. I could never imagine you being with anyone else but me.<\/p>\n<p>E pensei que nunca sobreviveria ao ver-te com outra mulher.<\/p>\n<p>When we broke things off for the last time, I told you I hoped you would never find a woman who\u2019d love you.<\/p>\n<p>E admito que fiquei zangado, magoado e desiludido quando vos disse estas palavras.<\/p>\n<p>E eu esperava, por medo e ci\u00fame, que nunca viesse uma mulher que te amasse como eu te amei.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96767\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada e atenta, sentada \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But now I am very much aware that a day will come when you\u2019ll find someone. Someone who will love you the way I loved you, even when you are unlovable.<\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m que te amar\u00e1 no teu melhor e no teu pior, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>And although this may come as a shock to you, I won\u2019t be jealous of that woman. I won\u2019t hate her and I am not afraid of the idea that she\u2019ll exist one day.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tenho pena dela.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I feel sorry for this woman, whoever she will be, because I know you better than anybody. I know you\u2019ll never change. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And I have no doubt that you\u2019ll make her life a living hell. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>In the beginning, she\u2019ll be enchanted by you. She\u2019ll think that all of her dreams are finally coming true.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96768\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz a abra\u00e7ar um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll think she has found her soulmate, that she has found her true happiness.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll know exactly what to tell her and how to behave to win her over. You\u2019ll say everything she wants to hear, just so you can have her.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll present yourself as a loyal, reliable and trustworthy guy.<\/p>\n<p>And before she realizes, she\u2019ll fall for you. She won\u2019t know that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-signs-dating-broken-man\/\"> ela ama um homem quebrado <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t know what hit her but she won\u2019t be able to control herself around you. She\u2019ll think of you as the perfect guy who has everything she\u2019s been looking for all along.<\/p>\n<p>And the moment you feel that, the moment you feel you have her, you\u2019ll change. Or at least, she\u2019ll think you\u2019ve changed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96769\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-smiling-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz a abra\u00e7ar homem sorridente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-smiling-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-smiling-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-smiling-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-smiling-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/happy-woman-hugging-smiling-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But actually, you\u2019ll only be showing her your true self.<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t happen overnight but from the moment you see how much she loves you, everything will be different.<\/p>\n<p>All of a sudden, there won\u2019t be a good morning text waiting for her. You\u2019ll stop calling her to see how her day was.<\/p>\n<p>All of a sudden, you\u2019ll be too busy to see her and all of her problems will become irrelevant.<\/p>\n<p>In the beginning, she will be your priority. You\u2019ll leave everything and everyone waiting just so you could go to her whenever she needs you.<\/p>\n<p>But the second she gets used to it, you\u2019ll see it and you\u2019ll change.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96771\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-man-lying-in-bed-while-woman-sleeps.jpg\" alt=\"homem preocupado deitado na cama enquanto a mulher dorme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-man-lying-in-bed-while-woman-sleeps.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-man-lying-in-bed-while-woman-sleeps-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-man-lying-in-bed-while-woman-sleeps-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-man-lying-in-bed-while-woman-sleeps-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-man-lying-in-bed-while-woman-sleeps-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Suddenly, she\u2019ll be at the bottom of your priority list and everybody and everything will become more important than her.<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly, she\u2019ll feel like she has to beg for your attention and love.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quando ela se aperceber disso, ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll already love you and she\u2019ll try everything in her power for you to go back to your old ways.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll wonder if there was anything she did for you to become like this.<\/p>\n<p>And she\u2019ll blame herself for every little fight, for every time you look at some other girl, for every time you leave her hanging.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96772\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e triste a chorar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-crying-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-crying-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-crying-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll lose her confidence and she\u2019ll start thinking that she is not enough for you.<\/p>\n<p>Mas mal sabe ela que este \u00e9, na verdade, o seu verdadeiro rosto.<\/p>\n<p>Mal saber\u00e1 ela que esteve sempre a fingir ser algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o era, at\u00e9 ver que a tinha.<\/p>\n<p>E foi nessa altura que come\u00e7ou <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bolde.com\/11-signs-guy-like-taking-advantage-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> aproveitar-se dela <\/a> Foi nessa altura que come\u00e7ou a us\u00e1-la de todas as formas poss\u00edveis e foi nessa altura que come\u00e7ou a tom\u00e1-la e ao seu amor como garantidos.<\/p>\n<p>Foi nessa altura que deixou de se esfor\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n<p>Little will she know that you\u2019ll never love her in the way every woman deserves to be loved.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96773\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-standing-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-standing-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-standing-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-standing-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-standing-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-standing-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When she first meets you, she\u2019ll never imagine what a monster you actually are.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t know that you\u2019ll never respect her and that you won\u2019t appreciate all the sacrifices she\u2019ll be making.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t know that you\u2019ll make her life a living hell and that she\u2019ll wish she had never met you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Eu sei, porque j\u00e1 fui como ela. E \u00e9 por isso que n\u00e3o tenho ci\u00fames dela<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>Tenho pena dela. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Feel-Sorry-For-The-Woman-Who-Will-Love-You-After-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Tenho pena da mulher que te vai amar depois de mim\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Feel-Sorry-For-The-Woman-Who-Will-Love-You-After-Me-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Feel-Sorry-For-The-Woman-Who-Will-Love-You-After-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Feel-Sorry-For-The-Woman-Who-Will-Love-You-After-Me-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Feel-Sorry-For-The-Woman-Who-Will-Love-You-After-Me-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You knew I was always a little bit jealous. That is not something I am proud of but that is simply who I\u2019ve always been. When we were together, my biggest fear wasn\u2019t that you\u2019d leave me, it was that you\u2019d find someone else. I could never imagine you being with anyone else but me&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":96774,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17071","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Feel-Sorry-For-The-Woman-Who-Will-Love-You-After-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17071","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17071"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17071\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96774"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17071"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17071"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17071"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}