You are your own worst critic, especially when someone pressures you all the time and that\u2019s why os narcisistas s\u00e3o presas<\/a> em si.<\/p>\n You are an easy target for them to leech off of. You won\u2019t give up on them even if they dry you out completely.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll criticize yourself and you\u2019ll have the feeling that it was all your fault. Well, that\u2019s exactly what they want.<\/p>\n Fazem-nos perder a autoestima e o amor-pr\u00f3prio, exatamente as duas coisas de que mais precisamos.<\/p>\n A narcissist is only capable of loving himself and no one else. There is no point in trying to evoke empathy or any feelings in them because they just can\u2019t show them. They don\u2019t care about anyone but themself.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um narcisista<\/a> is something you can\u2019t see coming. No matter how hard you try to spot them and try to deal with them, they can play you like a fool.<\/p>\n Eles s\u00e3o t\u00e3o bons actores e mentirosos, especialmente quando querem ou precisam muito de alguma coisa, neste caso, de si, e voc\u00ea nunca tem hip\u00f3tese contra eles.<\/p>\n You have to understand that it\u2019s not your fault if you\u2019ve been victimized by a narcissist. It\u2019s not true that you are less worthy or that you don\u2019t deserve anything better than him. It\u2019s his goal to make you feel like crap, to make you feel guilty of everything, to make you feel submissive to him.<\/p>\n That\u2019s how he controls you, through his little mind games and control. First, he convinces you that you are good for nothing and then he takes advantage of you. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n He uses your very last atom of energy and he doesn\u2019t leave you be. Not until you become an empty shell that once was a smiling and loving woman.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Porque \u00e9 que os INFJ atraem os narcisistas?<\/strong><\/p>\n S\u00e3o todos iguais desde o in\u00edcio. Fingem ser carinhosos e amorosos. Fingem que querem dar-te o mundo, para que acredites neles e confies neles. Depois apanham-nos na sua armadilha.<\/p>\n Narcissists fake having something you want, something your personality needs, that\u2019s why you are an easy prey for them.<\/p>\n It\u2019s similar to empatas<\/a>, uma vez que tamb\u00e9m atraem estas personalidades de tra\u00e7os negros.<\/p>\n Tens de ter muito cuidado quando conheces pessoas novas. Sei que confia em toda a gente e que pensa que todos agem e pensam como voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n Bem, nem todos eles querem fazer sobressair apenas o melhor das pessoas. Alguns deles alimentam a sua energia sugando as outras pessoas, como os narcisistas.<\/p>\n Tens de resistir a mostrar empatia por cada pessoa que aparece. Isto \u00e9 o oposto de tudo o que sabe e de tudo o que \u00e9, mas para seu pr\u00f3prio benef\u00edcio, tem de resistir.<\/p>\n You are a perfectionist and it is normal that you reject everything that\u2019s less than perfect.<\/p>\n So, you carefully choose the people who surround you but it\u2019s not easy to spot a narcissist in disguise, as they can sneak up on you and bomb you with their fake love, which will seem to you like perfection.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s where you make the biggest mistake. You know that you deserve to be loved and respected and a narcissist will lie and manipulate you into thinking he will give you exactly what you want.<\/p>\n You have to realize that the things that happen fast, like love at first sight and so on, are nice, cute and exciting but it doesn\u2019t have to mean it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n As coisas podem parecer perfeitas, mas \u00e9 preciso ter medo da perfei\u00e7\u00e3o porque nunca nada \u00e9 perfeito. Pode esfor\u00e7ar-se para fazer o melhor poss\u00edvel, mas nunca ser\u00e1 perfeito.<\/p>\n Por isso, para se proteger dos narcisistas, tem de perceber que a sua ideia de perfei\u00e7\u00e3o pode lev\u00e1-lo aos bra\u00e7os deles e eles podem mago\u00e1-lo seriamente.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Sempre que um narcisista faz algo manipulador e ofensivo, em vez de pegar nos seus pertences e deix\u00e1-lo, um INFJ pensa que pode dar-lhe a volta.<\/p>\n She thinks she can change him for the better. Well, that is not going to happen. A narcissist can\u2019t change because he doesn\u2019t want to change.<\/p>\n Nada do que ele faz lhe parece mau. Ele sente que o seu comportamento \u00e9 completamente normal e que as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o justificadas.<\/p>\n Ele pensa que tu \u00e9 que \u00e9s o falhado, porque te recusas a viver segundo as suas regras, porque te recusas a obedecer-lhe.<\/p>\n Por outro lado, os seus tra\u00e7os obscuros est\u00e3o presentes h\u00e1 tanto tempo que ele se tornou parte deles.<\/p>\n Estas caracter\u00edsticas m\u00f3rbidas s\u00e3o o que o torna quem ele \u00e9 e nada pode mudar isso.<\/p>\n Ningu\u00e9m pode mudar a ess\u00eancia de um ser humano, algo que o define, por isso tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o pode.<\/p>\n Narcissists target people who have empathy and who are strong. They can\u2019t take advantage of weak people because they have nothing to offer them.<\/p>\n S\u00f3 os fortes, como tu, conseguem aguentar ser sugados at\u00e9 ao tutano por estes vampiros emocionais<\/a>.<\/p>\n Tem algo para dar, algo que eles querem, como compaix\u00e3o, amor ou integridade.<\/p>\n You want to fix people, you want to help them and that\u2019s what draws them closer to you.<\/p>\n Os narcisistas sabem que podem fazer tudo o que quiserem porque, mesmo que o magoem e ultrapassem todos os limites, v\u00e3o fazer com que se sinta culpado e lhe d\u00ea outra oportunidade ou sinta pena deles.<\/p>\n They know you\u2019ll fall for that trick because you want to help them, you want to heal them.<\/p>\n In this situation, your kind personality will be your downfall and no, that\u2019s not fair, but it happens and you have to learn to fight it.<\/p>\n No fundo, sabes que mereces todo o respeito e amor que possas ter, mas o teu maior problema \u00e9 que duvidas demasiado de ti.<\/p>\n You\u2019re too sensitive and pretty much anything can hurt you because apegamo-nos t\u00e3o r\u00e1pida e facilmente<\/a> to people. It\u2019s your good nature and you can\u2019t avoid it.<\/p>\n But that\u2019s why you put people on a pedestal; you think everyone is better than you when that\u2019s far from the truth.<\/p>\nUm narcisista finge dar-nos todo o amor de que precisamos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nOs INFJ procuram a rela\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nOs INFJ t\u00eam um desejo insaci\u00e1vel de salvar pessoas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nOs narcisistas s\u00e3o atra\u00eddos por pessoas emp\u00e1ticas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nOs INFJ sabem que duvidam de si pr\u00f3prios com frequ\u00eancia<\/h2>\n
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