Ele tornou-se distante. Desinteressado. Quase nunca tem tempo para si e, mesmo quando tem, \u00e9 apenas uma sombra do homem que outrora conheceu.<\/p>\n
Quando fala com ele, est\u00e1 sempre a fazer promessas que nunca cumpre. Ele precisa de tempo para voltar a p\u00f4r a sua vida nos eixos.<\/p>\n
He is going through a rough patch right now and that\u2019s why he treats you poorly. He will be o homem que mereces<\/a> se lhe deres um pouco de tempo.<\/p>\n But when you look at it, you have been waiting for forever and nothing has changed. You shouldn\u2019t be the one paying the high price for his problems.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t suffer because he is miserable. You bend over backward to please him but it\u2019s never enough. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Ele est\u00e1 t\u00e3o habituado ao seu papel de v\u00edtima que, nesta altura, na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ele \u00e9 sempre mal interpretado e a culpa \u00e9 sempre sua.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Mas tu continuas a agarrar-te. Continuas a dar-lhe peda\u00e7os de ti s\u00f3 para ele se sentir melhor.<\/p>\n You are putting his happiness before your own. What you don\u2019t realize is that you can\u2019t fix somebody who doesn\u2019t want to be saved.<\/p>\n E se ficares e tentares consert\u00e1-lo, nada te cortar\u00e1 t\u00e3o profundamente como esses peda\u00e7os dele. Nada te vai magoar mais.<\/strong><\/p>\n His brokenness and his dissatisfaction with his life don\u2019t have anything to do with you, even if he makes you feel like that sometimes. You have this feeling that it\u2019s your responsibility to help him but you can\u2019t help a hopeless case.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t do his job for him. Change comes only to those who welcome it into their lives. And he is clearly used to things being the way they are.<\/p>\n A \u00fanica coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 am\u00e1-lo at\u00e9 que ele se cure.<\/strong> That\u2019s what people in normal and healthy relationships do.<\/p>\n They support each other and they stay through thick and thin. That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t look at his problems like they are your own.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t fight battles that are not yours. You shouldn\u2019t let him use you in that way.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t you realize that somebody else in his shoes would thank God he has you? To have somebody who cares so much.<\/p>\n Somebody supportive. Somebody who stays no matter what. But he is not that somebody. He is taking your efforts for granted and he doesn\u2019t appreciate you nearly as much as he should.<\/p>\n Tentar consert\u00e1-lo, tentar consert\u00e1-los aos dois, est\u00e1 provavelmente a piorar as coisas. Est\u00e3o apenas a mover-se em c\u00edrculos de algo pouco saud\u00e1vel, de algo unilateral e totalmente co-dependente<\/a>.<\/p>\n Negligenciou-se a si pr\u00f3pria. P\u00f4s as necessidades dele \u00e0 frente das suas e esqueceu-se que merece ser amada com a mesma intensidade.<\/p>\n Mereces algu\u00e9m que esteja l\u00e1 para ti tanto quanto tu est\u00e1s para ele. Algu\u00e9m que esteja ao teu lado quando estiveres a passar por um momento dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n Algu\u00e9m com quem partilhar o riso e as vit\u00f3rias. Algu\u00e9m que te deixe entrar por inteiro.<\/p>\n Someone who will know how to give as much as he takes. You don\u2019t have that now.<\/p>\n Se ficares e lutares mais um pouco, isso s\u00f3 te vai destruir emocionalmente. Ele vai tirar-lhe tanto que n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 nada para dar a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/strong><\/p>\n You are probably already at your limit. His state of mind doesn\u2019t give him the right to treat you badly.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t put up with everything just because you love so deeply.<\/p>\n Love shouldn\u2019t consist only of sacrifice. Love should be something you are both involved in, something mutual.<\/p>\n Deve ser capaz de ver os seus esfor\u00e7os, o seu investimento, a sua determina\u00e7\u00e3o em tornar as coisas melhores para ambos. If you are the only one trying, the only one fixing things, it is not love, it\u2019s torture.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t stay somewhere where you are not appreciated. Don\u2019t be afraid to turn over a new leaf in a completely new book.<\/p>\n![\"no](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/autumn-in-the-park-stands-a-sad-woman.jpg\")
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