{"id":17115,"date":"2018-03-29T13:36:20","date_gmt":"2018-03-29T13:36:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17115"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:35:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:35:05","slug":"uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-o-deixou-finalmente-livre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-o-deixou-finalmente-livre\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para a rapariga que o deixou, Finalmente \u00e9s livre"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t regret a thing. You are finally free. I know that it hurts right at this moment. I know that it seems like you won&#8217;t be able to fall in love ever again. I know it because I&#8217;ve been where you&#8217;re at. I&#8217;ve been broken before and I have left the man who broke me, thinking that I was making a mistake. My whole body wanted to go back to him, but my mind knew that it was a terrible idea to expect <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/lexi-herrick\/an-open-letter-to-the-man-who-broke-my-heart_b_5349587.html\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">o homem que me quebrou<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> para me ajudar a curar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Acredita em mim, vais ficar bem.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You have run away from the claws of the man who kept you hostage in a constant game that you confused for love. You weren&#8217;t a player\u2014you were a figure that he manipulated from the moment he saw that you fell in love with him. But no matter what he did, you were able to see through his poker face and <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/lifegoalsmag.com\/escape-toxic-relationship\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">conseguiu escapar<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9s livre. \u00c9s finalmente livre.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Est\u00e1s livre da dor e da mis\u00e9ria<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. I know that it does seem tough right now because your broken pieces hurt like hell. But just remember the misery he made you go through. Remember how much you craved to be loved by him. You craved his affection and a gentle touch. You didn&#8217;t get any of those things\u2014it only kept hurting more and more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Est\u00e1 livre das suas suposi\u00e7\u00f5es e dos seus ci\u00fames.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Just because you had co-workers and guy-friends doesn&#8217;t mean that you were going to cheat on him. But, let&#8217;s be honest. The way he acted when you would speak to another man was unacceptable! He threw tantrums and called you names, never stopping for one minute to listen to what you had to say.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9s livre de ser tu pr\u00f3prio.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> There won&#8217;t ever again be someone telling you that the way you are isn&#8217;t enough or that you have to change. You are finally free to be just the way you are. You can laugh as loud as you want and wear the most colorful things that make you feel comfortable. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cru.org\/us\/en\/blog\/spiritual-growth\/devotionals-quiet-times\/what-it-means-to-live-free.html\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isto \u00e9 o que significa ser livre<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014to have the ability to be the way you truly are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9 livre de se tornar uma vers\u00e3o melhor de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> He won&#8217;t come up to you hoping to slaughter your ambitions and your motivation to succeed. You have all the strings in your own hands right now and that&#8217;s the first step to becoming better. This is the right time to pick up those hobbies you left behind because of him, the right time to do all the things that bring you joy and happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9s livre de amar<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You are completely free to love the world, to love yourself, to love your life. You can love whom you want and never again worry if your love is going to be mistreated because you will know what you went through, and that you won&#8217;t let yourself fall for that type of man again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9s livre de encontrar a tua pessoa para sempre.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Se quiseres, \u00e9 claro. Deixou para tr\u00e1s tudo o que a deixava triste, zangada e infeliz e tem a possibilidade de come\u00e7ar uma vida totalmente nova. Se isso significa encontrar um novo parceiro que o fa\u00e7a sentir-se amado e apreciado, ent\u00e3o que seja! J\u00e1 n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que a prenda.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9 livre para come\u00e7ar uma nova vida.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> To start all over again. Pick up the pieces and move on from anything that has happened to you that doesn&#8217;t serve you anymore. You are free to start anew and to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/daringtolivefully.com\/letting-go-of-the-past-quotes\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nunca mais olhem para o vosso passado.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9s livre de ser feliz<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Isn&#8217;t freedom what&#8217;s needed to become truly happy? Freedom. You are free of his grasp, you are free of his mind-games and you are free of him.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don&#8217;t regret a thing. You are finally free. I know that it hurts right at this moment. I know that it seems like you won&#8217;t be able to fall in love ever again. I know it because I&#8217;ve been where you&#8217;re at. 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