{"id":17128,"date":"2018-03-30T07:22:25","date_gmt":"2018-03-30T07:22:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17128"},"modified":"2022-03-08T18:53:29","modified_gmt":"2022-03-08T18:53:29","slug":"uma-carta-aberta-ao-meu-ex-namorado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-aberta-ao-meu-ex-namorado\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta ao meu ex-namorado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Caro ex-namorado,<\/p>\n<p>I know you probably weren&#8217;t expecting me to write since it has been such a long time since the last time I laid my eyes on you&#8230; when you mailed out that letter that broke my heart in two, and you decided to say goodbye.<\/p>\n<p>Durante muitos anos, deixou bem claro que eu n\u00e3o era suficientemente bom para si. Muitas vezes, esfor\u00e7ava-se por me lembrar de tudo o que havia de errado comigo por causa da minha paralisia cerebral. Dizia-me que se sentia envergonhado e embara\u00e7ado por mim e pela forma como Deus me criou.<\/p>\n<p>Chegou a um ponto em que comecei a acreditar em ti e em tudo o que dizias. Era como se me tivesses enfeiti\u00e7ado com os teus pensamentos negativos.<\/p>\n<p>I had begun to doubt myself as a young women. I was thinking that I wasn&#8217;t beautiful; thinking that I was the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sindrome-do-patinho-feio-2\/\">patinho feio<\/a> in the pond when I was BEAUTIFUL the whole time. There was nothing wrong with me. It&#8217;s sad to say you finally saw that I was a shining star in the galaxy&#8230;but only once you said goodbye and walked out of my life forever.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s sad to say you realized every mistake you made once you found out that I had moved on to a young man; that you finally saw everything that makes me BEAUTIFUL and regretting the day you said, \u201cGoodbye\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Looking back, I begin to realize that you were blind and that you couldn&#8217;t see a single thing great about me being unique but that&#8217;s okay. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/lisabeth-saunders-medlock-phd\/dont-fear-failure-9-powerful-lessons-we-can-learn-from-our-mistakes_b_6058380.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Todos n\u00f3s aprendemos e crescemos com os nossos erros<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I just want to say \u201cthank you\u201d for inspiring me to want to educate people about disabilities and being a part of my life story. I&#8217;ll always carry a special place in my heart for you and wish you nothing but the very best but I want you to remember that every woman is a beautiful woman, regardless of shape, size or skin color\u2014no women is ugly<\/p>\n<p>Espero que estejas a tratar a tua nova namorada melhor do que me trataste a mim, porque ela merece o mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Com os melhores cumprimentos<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>por Tylia Flores<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Ex-boyfriend, I know you probably weren&#8217;t expecting me to write since it has been such a long time since the last time I laid my eyes on you&#8230; when you mailed out that letter that broke my heart in two, and you decided to say goodbye. For many years, you made it very clear&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":17129,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17128","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/kelly-sikkema-401675-unsplash-1024x747.jpg",1024,747,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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