{"id":17159,"date":"2020-03-30T10:26:57","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T10:26:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17159"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:59:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:59:13","slug":"7-sinais-discretos-de-que-esta-a-ganhar-a-separacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-discretos-de-que-esta-a-ganhar-a-separacao\/","title":{"rendered":"7 sinais discretos de que est\u00e1 a ganhar a separa\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

As separa\u00e7\u00f5es nunca s\u00e3o f\u00e1ceis. Normalmente s\u00e3o confusas, com muitos peda\u00e7os do nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o espalhados por todo o lado.<\/p>\n

They will hurt no matter what. So, it’s not easy to say who’s the winner and who’s the loser in all of that.<\/p>\n

But the way you deal with a breakup is what makes you a winner. It’s about how elegantly you let go of the things that weren’t meant for you that counts.<\/p>\n

Pode n\u00e3o ser agrad\u00e1vel dizer isto, mas a verdade \u00e9 que sa\u00edmos realmente vencedores de certas separa\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

We win our life back for starters. Because sometimes, we get away from people who weren’t right for us\u2014who manipulado<\/a>, cheated, abused our trust\u2014and we are certainly not feeling a loss because the relationship ended.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, evitamos que as coisas piorem ainda mais e tudo o que podemos fazer \u00e9 estar gratos por tudo ter acabado.<\/p>\n

Em suma, h\u00e1 sinais que o ajudar\u00e3o a determinar se est\u00e1 a ganhar a separa\u00e7\u00e3o:<\/p>\n

When you said ‘no contact’, you meant NO CONTACT<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mantiveste-te fiel \u00e0 tua palavra. Expulsou-o completamente da sua vida porque n\u00e3o havia outra forma de o ultrapassar.<\/p>\n

It wasn’t always easy. You had days when all you wanted to do was to rush back into his arms or at very least send a text, but you resisted. <\/p>\n

You resisted even when he called you. You ignored him even if it was difficult\u2014you know it would only make things worse for you.<\/p>\n

That’s what makes you a winner. You are winning because you acknowledged that some people are not supposed to be in your life. They had their chance and they blew it.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a ganhar porque est\u00e1 a lutar contra os seus impulsos. Est\u00e1 a lembrar-se do que merece e n\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposto a contentar-se com menos.<\/p>\n

Sabes que se escorregasses e partisses regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a>, you would be in the same mess with him all over again and that’s the last thing you want.<\/p>\n

Redireccionou a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o para si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Sentiu que perdeu partes de si enquanto estava na rela\u00e7\u00e3o e perdeu ainda mais de si quando tudo acabou.<\/p>\n

Mas depois do choque inicial, percebeu que chorar o dia todo e afogar as m\u00e1goas em chocolate n\u00e3o o levava a lado nenhum e decidiu mudar-se.<\/p>\n

You decided that you put him in front of you so many times and that it’s time to change your ways. You decided to do things for yourself.<\/p>\n

Decidiu p\u00f4r-se em primeiro lugar e pensar no seu pr\u00f3prio bem-estar. Encontrou novos interesses e passatempos. Socializa mais. Fazes coisas que te fazem feliz.<\/p>\n

Os amigos m\u00fatuos continuam a fazer parte da vossa vida<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Quando uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o termina, algumas amizades que a acompanhavam tamb\u00e9m terminam. As pessoas detestam estar no meio das coisas e travar batalhas que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o delas. O que \u00e9 compreens\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

No entanto, se for um dos sortudos que ainda convive com alguns dos amigos comuns que partilhava com o seu parceiro, est\u00e1 definitivamente a ganhar a separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Se os amigos em comum ainda est\u00e3o na sua vida e o apoiam nos momentos dif\u00edceis, \u00e9 uma pessoa com muita sorte. Encontrou amigos que s\u00e3o verdadeiros<\/a> e ao vosso lado, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a sentir os seus sentimentos<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You don’t have the energy or necessity to pretend to be something you are not. If you are happy, it will show. If you are sad, it will show.<\/p>\n

You know that pain is inevitable and that you need to embrace it in order to heal. You also know that you shouldn’t deprive yourself of moments of happiness, so you make the best of it.<\/p>\n

De alguma forma, est\u00e1 a manter o equil\u00edbrio e, embora esteja mais triste agora, sabe que a felicidade vai prevalecer.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a ganhar porque n\u00e3o tem necessidade de justificar os seus sentimentos ao seu ex ou a qualquer outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 dono das suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e est\u00e1 a senti-las e a lidar com elas. J\u00e1 te sentes mais forte do que alguma vez te deste cr\u00e9dito.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o est\u00e1 a mostrar a sua dor de cabe\u00e7a nas redes sociais<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mesmo que provavelmente o tenhas apagado de todas as tuas redes sociais<\/a> accounts, you still don’t have the need to display your emotions publicly\u2014specially not in the form of long status updates of how are you feeling after the breakup.<\/p>\n

You know that not all of your social media friends are truly your friends. Your real life friends are people you can confide in and that’s more than enough.<\/p>\n

You don’t want any information about you reaching his ears. You know that not knowing is what will sting him the most.<\/p>\n

Encontramo-nos com eles e mantemos a calma<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It’s like some unwritten rule that you will run into your ex the moment you stop thinking about him. It’s like some kind of joke the universe plays on us.<\/p>\n

Mas se isso acontecer e estivermos no nosso melhor, fingindo que n\u00e3o fomos afectados de forma alguma por esse encontro, estamos a ganhar.<\/p>\n

Because no matter how you feel, it’s never a good idea to break into tears when seeing your ex. You can always do it later in the privacy of your home.<\/p>\n

He doesn’t have to know how you feel\u2014specially if he had a toxic personality and he would only feed on your pain. So, in any case, head up and be proud of yourself for keeping your cool.<\/p>\n

Ouviu dizer que andam a fazer perguntas sobre si<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And you wouldn’t do that in your wildest dreams. You know that people gossip and you know if you asked about him, it will reach his ears eventually.<\/p>\n

Como a informa\u00e7\u00e3o de ele querer saber onde est\u00e1s e o que andas a fazer chegou at\u00e9 ti.<\/p>\n

Podem estar a perguntar por pura curiosidade. Podem arrepender-se de o ter perdido. Pode ser que quero-te de volta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But the thing is that even though you enjoyed hearing that they want to know your whereabouts it simply doesn’t matter anymore.<\/p>\n

You have no intention of getting back with him. You decided it’s time to move on.<\/p>\n

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