{"id":17166,"date":"2018-03-30T11:25:08","date_gmt":"2018-03-30T11:25:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17166"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:32:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:32:48","slug":"para-todas-as-raparigas-que-pensam-que-sao-dificeis-de-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-todas-as-raparigas-que-pensam-que-sao-dificeis-de-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas as raparigas que acham que s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis de amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve been hearing this for as long as you can remember. All the men you\u2019ve encountered in your life have told you that you are challenging, that you are hard to love and difficult to put up with. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been told you are a handful, that you expect too much of everyone and that you are a perfectionist. And you think this cannot be a coincidence<\/span>\u2014<\/span>deve haver alguma verdade nisso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Com o tempo, come\u00e7ou a acreditar neles e come\u00e7ou a ver isso como algo negativo. Pensou nisso como sendo culpa sua, como algo que faz com que os homens fujam de si. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, deixou que isso o definisse. Come\u00e7ou a culpar essa sua qualidade como a raz\u00e3o pela qual nenhuma das suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es foi bem sucedida.<\/span><\/p>\n

You started blaming yourself for all the bad treatment you were getting and everything you\u2019ve been through in life.<\/span><\/p>\n

But I am here to tell you it\u2019s time to stop feeling this way. <\/b><\/p>\n

Estou aqui para te dizer que n\u00e3o \u00e9s dif\u00edcil de amar. \u00c9s apenas uma pessoa forte,<\/span> mulher independente <\/span><\/a>com as suas pr\u00f3prias opini\u00f5es e atitudes. \u00c9 uma pessoa que luta por si pr\u00f3pria e por aquilo que acha que est\u00e1 certo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y<\/span>ou are a woman who relies on herself only and a woman who doesn\u2019t trust everybody who comes into her life. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que se deixa definir pelos homens e n\u00e3o \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que vai mudar a ess\u00eancia do seu ser s\u00f3 para ser mais agrad\u00e1vel a um tipo ou para se enquadrar nos padr\u00f5es da sociedade. <\/span><\/p>\n

You have a very strong intuition and you don\u2019t get fooled easily. You are not easily lied to, because it offends your intelligence.<\/span><\/p>\n

Respeita-se a si pr\u00f3prio e exige que todos na sua vida o respeitem e apreciem. Nunca permite que as pessoas o tomem por garantido ou o tratem com condescend\u00eancia, porque conhece o seu verdadeiro valor.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t make you hard to love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As vossas qualidades fazem com que<\/span> homens imaturos<\/span><\/a><\/em> feel insecure about you. They feel threatened and as if they aren\u2019t man enough.<\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n

Estes homens conhecem a sua for\u00e7a de car\u00e1cter, conhecem o seu poder e a sua coragem e sabem muito bem que nunca a poder\u00e3o manipular como gostariam. <\/span><\/p>\n

B<\/span>ut their fragile ego doesn\u2019t allow them to accept that, nor say it to you. So, they choose to blame you for everything. They choose to persuade you to feel guilty for being difficult to handle or hard to deal with. <\/span><\/p>\n

What those men don\u2019t know is that you hide a heart full of love. They don\u2019t know that your strength is something that would help them get through life. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you being a fighter means that you would also fight against everyone and everything just to preserve your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you would never leave their side and that you would hold their hand through all of life\u2019s difficulties. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know you would never disrespect them, if they respected you. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you would believe in them, even when everyone else stopped. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you would love them unconditionally and that you are someone who would make sacrifices for their well-being, if they proved to be worthy of your love.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, por favor, p\u00e1ra de te culpares a ti pr\u00f3prio, pensando que \u00e9s dif\u00edcil de amar, porque n\u00e3o \u00e9s.<\/b><\/p>\n

You are just hard to love for men who don\u2019t deserve you and who are not worthy of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t expect too much from people<\/span>\u2014<\/span>\u00e9 apenas algu\u00e9m que d\u00e1 muito e espera o mesmo tratamento. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know that you shouldn\u2019t be <\/span>o \u00fanico que est\u00e1 a fazer todo o esfor\u00e7o<\/span><\/a> numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e isso \u00e9 mais do que bom. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to prioritize the people who treat you as an option and that is what you should continue doing. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know you don\u2019t believe me now but trust me, <\/span>vir\u00e1 um homem que achar\u00e1 que mereces todo o trabalho.<\/b><\/p>\n

It will take you some time and a lot of patience but you will let him get close to you because you\u2019ll feel that his intentions are sincere and that his feelings are real. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando entrar na sua vida, este homem vai v\u00ea-la como \u00e9 e ver\u00e1 o seu valor. Ele ver\u00e1 todas as suas qualidades e esfor\u00e7ar-se-\u00e1 para que voc\u00ea baixe o seu escudo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este homem vai amar-te at\u00e9 \u00e0 lua e voltar por seres exatamente quem \u00e9s. Ele vai amar todas as tuas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e vai amar-te da maneira que mereces ser amada. <\/span><\/p>\n

B<\/span>ut most of all, he will fight all your insecurities away and he will show you that there is much about you to be loved. By doing this, he will teach you how to love yourself again. When this man comes along, you\u2019ll never again think you\u2019re hard to love. <\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve been hearing this for as long as you can remember. All the men you\u2019ve encountered in your life have told you that you are challenging, that you are hard to love and difficult to put up with. You\u2019ve been told you are a handful, that you expect too much of everyone and that you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":17168,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17166","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/allef-vinicius-137748-unsplash.jpg",800,528,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17166","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17166"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17166\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17168"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17166"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17166"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17166"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}