{"id":17231,"date":"2018-04-03T11:03:16","date_gmt":"2018-04-03T11:03:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17231"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:30:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:30:55","slug":"6-sinais-de-que-tem-medo-do-amor-e-o-que-fazer-em-relacao-a-isso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-sinais-de-que-tem-medo-do-amor-e-o-que-fazer-em-relacao-a-isso\/","title":{"rendered":"6 sinais de que voc\u00ea tem medo do amor e o que fazer a respeito"},"content":{"rendered":"

Acredita no amor e, teoricamente, apaixonar-se \u00e9 o que mais deseja.<\/p>\n

Mas, ser\u00e1 que as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e3o de acordo com as suas palavras? Ou continua a fugir do amor inconscientemente?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 voc\u00ea que se est\u00e1 a impedir de ser feliz? Tem mesmo medo de se apaixonar?<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o 6 sinais que lhe dar\u00e3o uma resposta a estas perguntas.<\/p>\n

1. Agarra-se ao passado<\/span><\/h2>\n

One of the first signs that you are scared of love and relationships is the fact that you still hold on tight to the past. You\u2019ve had your heart broken recently and you feel like you are not ready to enter a new relationship just yet.<\/p>\n

Embora seja necess\u00e1rio d\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio tempo para sarar<\/a> and you shouldn\u2019t jump from one relationship to another, you should also do your best to look at the future.<\/p>\n

O que aconteceu no passado deve ficar l\u00e1 e nunca conseguir\u00e1 encontrar a sua felicidade se n\u00e3o se libertar de todos os ressentimentos e rancores que possa estar a sentir.<\/p>\n

2. . You don\u2019t trust people<\/span><\/h2>\n

If you\u2019ve ever been hurt in the past, it is natural that you\u2019ve lost your trust in people and especially in men. A<\/p>\n

ll the men in your life violated your trust and you assume that every guy you meet will be the same. You\u2019ve been cheated on and lied to, so you are extra careful whenever there is a new man on your radar.<\/p>\n

And although being careful around new people is a good thing, it is also something that prevents you from finding true love. I know you don\u2019t believe it now, but not all men are the same.<\/p>\n

There will come a guy who will show you that he is worthy of your trust\u2014you just have to give him a chance.<\/p>\n

3. Pensa demasiado<\/span><\/h2>\n

Por vezes, uma das coisas que o pode impedir de entrar em novas rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 o facto de pensar demasiado.<\/p>\n

Sempre que conhece um novo rapaz, pensa em todos os poss\u00edveis resultados da sua potencial rela\u00e7\u00e3o. S\u00f3 v\u00ea todos os defeitos e imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es que esse rapaz tem e isso impede-a de dar uma oportunidade a algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que decida tentar com algu\u00e9m, o seu pensar demasiado arru\u00edna a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> mais cedo ou mais tarde. Sei que \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil falar do que fazer, mas \u00e9 preciso fazer um esfor\u00e7o para relaxar.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t control everything that is going to happen and sometimes it\u2019s best to just go with the flow.<\/p>\n

4. Sente-se inseguro<\/span><\/h2>\n

The men from your past have tried to manipulate and control you. But, the only thing they\u2019ve accomplished is ruining your self-esteem. Over time, your insecurities grew and you started believing that you really are unlovable.<\/p>\n

Therefore, you can\u2019t believe that there exists a guy who would like you, so you keep sending new guys all the wrong signals, making them think you are unapproachable.<\/p>\n

Se \u00e9 este o seu caso, a primeira coisa a fazer \u00e9 reconstruir a sua autoestima.<\/p>\n

Although you don\u2019t think this way now, a man who thinks you are worthy will come and he will show you that love is not something you should be scared of.<\/p>\n

5. You can\u2019t imagine yourself being with one person<\/span><\/h2>\n

Outro sinal de que est\u00e1 medo do amor<\/a> is the fact that you can\u2019t imagine yourself spending the rest of your life with one person.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you don\u2019t believe in monogamy\u2014you are just scared that you\u2019ll get tired of one guy after a while.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you one thing\u2014these types of fears and introspective thoughts are perfectly normal and are not something you should be ashamed of. Instead of thinking about so far off in the future, focus on the present and everything that is going on now.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t have to mean that every relationship you get involved in will end up being a long-lasting one. So, live for the moment and see where life brings you.<\/p>\n

6. Gosta demasiado do seu espa\u00e7o pessoal<\/span><\/h2>\n

Being single can be great if you know how to use that time right. But, if you\u2019ve been single for a long time, it is likely that you\u2019ve started enjoying it too much and it can be one of the signs that you are too scared to fall in love.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s simple\u2014you\u2019ve developed your own habits with time and you forgot how it feels to compromise with a partner. But, this doesn\u2019t have to be a thing that prevents you from falling in love.<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando se est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 importante estabelecer limites e, desta forma, continuar a ter o seu espa\u00e7o pessoal. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You believe in love and theoretically, falling in love is something you desire the most. But, do your actions stand behind your words? Or do you keep running away from love subconsciously? Are you the one keeping yourself from being happy? Are you actually afraid of falling in love? Here are 6 signs that will…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":17232,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17231","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/bruno-van-der-kraan-614223-unsplash.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17231","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17231"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17231\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17232"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17231"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17231"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17231"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}