{"id":17238,"date":"2020-08-03T13:27:39","date_gmt":"2020-08-03T13:27:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17238"},"modified":"2022-03-04T10:54:13","modified_gmt":"2022-03-04T10:54:13","slug":"quando-sabemos-que-nunca-vai-dar-certo-mas-continuamos-a-voltar-um-para-o-outro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-sabemos-que-nunca-vai-dar-certo-mas-continuamos-a-voltar-um-para-o-outro\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando sabemos que nunca vai dar certo, mas continuamos a voltar um para o outro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sometimes, your love for someone is stronger than everything else. Sometimes, your mind simply can\u2019t control your actions, no matter how hard you try. Sometimes, you need to put a stop to some things but you just can\u2019t help yourself.<\/p>\n

Se alguma vez esteve numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que est\u00e1 louca por um homem mas sabe que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 futuro para os dois, sabe exatamente do que estou a falar.<\/p>\n

Este homem abalou o teu mundo desde o primeiro momento em que o viste. E sabes que ele sente o mesmo por ti.<\/p>\n

Voc\u00eas os dois s\u00e3o loucamente apaixonados um pelo outro<\/a> and you can\u2019t keep your hands off of one another.<\/p>\n

Mas desde o momento em que o conheceste, soubeste ele era um problema<\/a>. Sabias que os dois nunca poderiam encontrar paz um ao lado do outro.<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019ve always thought that he is your other half\u2014you could never imagine loving someone that much.  <\/p>\n

\"silhuetas<\/p>\n

You both want things between you to work out badly but somehow that is not happening. You keep fighting and breaking up because you simply can\u2019t get along.<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t know why that is so. You don\u2019t doubt his feelings and you are certain that you love him as well.<\/p>\n

Apesar de tudo, continuam a voltar um para o outro. No fundo, ambos sabem que nunca conseguir\u00e3o ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e forte, mas h\u00e1 uma for\u00e7a inexplic\u00e1vel que os arrasta um para o outro.<\/b><\/p>\n

Every time you break things off, you decide to call it quits for good. You decide this is the last time you\u2019ll let this man into your life, because you know he is toxic for you.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t have to mean that he is a bad guy\u2014voc\u00eas os dois simplesmente n\u00e3o s\u00e3o adequados um para o outro<\/a>. He wakes up the worst in you and that is something you don\u2019t need in your life.<\/p>\n

Mas sempre que ele vem a rastejar de volta<\/a>e tu voltas a lev\u00e1-lo, como se nada tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Embora saibas que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 futuro para voc\u00eas os dois, esperas secretamente que desta vez seja diferente. <\/b>And I am here to tell you that it won\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

Neither of you is obviously ready to change. You are both grown-ups and it would be absurd to expect either of you to change so that you could fit the other person\u2019s standards.<\/p>\n

It is possible that you are both hot-tempered or that your personalities simply don\u2019t match.<\/p>\n

The two of you have been together for ages and by now, you should\u2019ve learned how to function together. But, obviously, that didn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

And if it hadn\u2019t happened by now, why would you think it would in the future? Porque \u00e9 que acha que desta vez vai ser diferente, se no passado as coisas acabaram sempre da mesma maneira?<\/b><\/p>\n

Whatever it is that is keeping you two from being happy, it is obviously something that you can\u2019t surpass and it\u2019s time for you to stop running from that fact.<\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time you accept the fact that your partner is not someone you need in your life, despite all the love you feel for him.<\/p>\n

Sei que pensas que o amor verdadeiro pode derrotar tudo. E pode mesmo. But it\u2019s obvious that this is not true love, as much as you wish for it to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

True love shouldn\u2019t make you feel like this. Yes, this guy gives you butterflies and passion you\u2019ve never felt before, but admit it\u2014you feel stressed and overwhelmed all the time.<\/p>\n

Nunca se sabe qual \u00e9 a nossa posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ele e nunca se sabe o que o futuro vos reserva. Embora isto possa parecer excitante no in\u00edcio, com o tempo torna-se cansativo.<\/p>\n

True love will make you feel peaceful. It will feel like home. It will make all the puzzles fit in place and it will be everything you\u2019ve been looking for all along, without even knowing it.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Por isso, por favor, para bem da sua sa\u00fade mental e f\u00edsica, seja o \u00fanico a afastar-se. Porque isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor verdadeiro<\/b>\u2014<\/b>it\u2019s torture.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know you are scared of making the wrong decision and I know you don\u2019t want to hurt yourself or your partner. And I am not going to lie to you\u2014it won\u2019t be easy.<\/p>\n

Ficar\u00e1s devastada quando finalmente puseres fim a esta charada. E vais sentir muito a falta dele.<\/p>\n

You will cry, you will feel like you can\u2019t live without him and you will want to go back to him. And this is when you\u2019ll have to be the strongest.<\/p>\n

This is when you\u2019ll have to realize that sometimes o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente<\/a> and this is when you\u2019ll have to accept the fact that you\u2019d never be happy with this guy.<\/p>\n

But all of this pain will go away in time. And you\u2019ll be grateful you finally ended it. You\u2019ll be thankful you saved yourself from a lifetime of misery.<\/p>\n

\"Quando<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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