{"id":17257,"date":"2020-04-04T07:34:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T07:34:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17257"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:25:33","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:25:33","slug":"7-sinais-de-que-ele-esta-apenas-a-usar-te-e-tu-nem-sequer-te-apercebes-disso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-de-que-ele-esta-apenas-a-usar-te-e-tu-nem-sequer-te-apercebes-disso\/","title":{"rendered":"7 sinais de que ele est\u00e1 apenas a usar-te (e tu nem sequer te apercebes disso)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando conhecemos um rapaz e come\u00e7amos algo s\u00e9rio com ele, n\u00e3o estamos conscientes das coisas m\u00e1s que podem acontecer ao longo do caminho.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez o homem que acabaste de conhecer seja um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/guy-10-things-hes-serious-narcissist-disguise\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">narcisista disfar\u00e7ado<\/a> ou mesmo um mentiroso compulsivo e talvez seja muito bom a conseguir o que quer sem fazer muito esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 coisas diferentes que os rapazes querem das raparigas, como sexo, dinheiro, estatuto ou qualquer outra coisa. Depende de homem para homem. Mas se n\u00e3o tem a certeza se o seu homem est\u00e1 consigo apenas porque a ama, verifique estes sinais e descubra se o que ele sente \u00e9 amor verdadeiro ou outra coisa qualquer.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. He won\u2019t commit to you<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you have been dating a man for a long time and he still doesn\u2019t want to commit to you, it is a sign that he doesn\u2019t respect you and that he is just using you in the cruelest way.<\/p>\n<p>He is with you because of the girlfriend benefits that you give him, while he is quite selfish about his boyfriend benefits. If you don\u2019t feel good about the relationship you are involved in, you should talk to your partner about that.<\/p>\n<p>Tell him about your needs and wishes. If he loves you enough it won\u2019t be a big problem for him to put a label on your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Ele pede-te sempre dinheiro<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Do you sometimes feel that you are the only one paying for everything? It is understandable if your man doesn\u2019t have a job so you need to support him financially for some time but if he is too lazy to go out and find a way to pay the bills and buy food, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-signs-hes-using-you-and-you-dont-even-know-it\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ele est\u00e1 apenas a usar-te<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente tem pena dele e d\u00e1-lhe o dinheiro pensando que ele s\u00f3 teve azar e que as coisas v\u00e3o mudar para melhor. Oi\u00e7a-me, se ele vir que a senhora estar\u00e1 sempre presente para o apoiar financeiramente, ele nunca encontrar\u00e1 um emprego.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, se vir algo deste g\u00e9nero na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, deve reagir antes que seja tarde demais.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. He doesn\u2019t talk about the future<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>For a man like this, you are good for him whenever he needs your help but that doesn\u2019t mean that he plans anything serious with you. You are just his backup plan and you are good until another one comes into his life.<\/p>\n<p>Se quer saber em que p\u00e9 est\u00e3o os dois, mas ele se recusa a falar sobre isso, \u00e9 sinal de que est\u00e1 apenas a us\u00e1-la e finge que a ama, mas o tempo mostrar\u00e1 se est\u00e3o destinados a ficar juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Please, don\u2019t buy into this shit and move away from a man like that because he is nothing but a manipulator who is damn good at what he does. He will never be hubby material and he just pretends that he loves you and cares about you just to get what he wants.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Ele s\u00f3 \u00e9 simp\u00e1tico contigo quando precisa de alguma coisa<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Have you caught your partner being all sweet to you only when he needs something? If your answer is \u2018yes\u2019 that means that he is just using you and that he will never commit to you.<\/p>\n<p>This is a characteristic of a manipulator and a liar who gets what he wants in an easy way and doesn\u2019t feel any remorse about it. If he talks to you only when it is convenient for him, it is a<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/12-sure-fire-signs-he-doesnt-care-about-you-move-on\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> sign that he doesn\u2019t care about you<\/a> como ele diz e que continuar\u00e1 a faz\u00ea-lo enquanto o deixares.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. He hasn\u2019t introduced you to his family<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When you love someone and when you want something serious with that person, it is quite normal that you introduce them to your parents, right? But if your man has never spoken about anything like that and if he doesn\u2019t want to talk about it even if you insist, you should think twice about why you are still with him.<\/p>\n<p>Ele est\u00e1 apenas a us\u00e1-la, mas \u00e9 muito bom no que faz, pelo que n\u00e3o se apercebe disso. Deve saber que um homem como este nunca ser\u00e1 algu\u00e9m em quem se possa apoiar e que encontrar\u00e1 sempre uma forma de escapar a qualquer coisa s\u00e9ria.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. He shows his \u2018love\u2019 for you only in bed<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Um homem assim dir\u00e1 tudo o que quiseres ouvir s\u00f3 para te levar para a cama. Ele dir\u00e1 que voc\u00ea \u00e9 a mulher mais bonita que ele j\u00e1 viu e que tem muita sorte em t\u00ea-la na vida dele. Ele usar\u00e1 o mesmo m\u00e9todo quando<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-um-homem-a-esta-a-usar-por-dinheiro\/\"> ele precisa do seu dinheiro<\/a> tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>He knows that he will get things easily if he is kind, so that is what he will do. Also, if you see that he just tends to satisfy his needs in bed and doesn\u2019t care about yours, it is a big, red flag that he doesn\u2019t love you enough.<\/p>\n<p>He is just using you for the things that you can help him with and doesn\u2019t feel any remorse about it.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. Ele tem uma reputa\u00e7\u00e3o bastante m\u00e1<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Talvez o seu homem tivesse uma m\u00e1 reputa\u00e7\u00e3o antes de si, mas acredita que, por alguma raz\u00e3o, o pode mudar. Lamento rebentar a sua bolha, mas ele nunca vai mudar. Ele ser\u00e1 sempre o mesmo manipulador e mentiroso que conseguir\u00e1 sempre o que quer usando os seus m\u00e9todos doentios.<\/p>\n<p>He will go from girl to girl and use all the methods on them until it works on one of them. So, whatever you do, don\u2019t let him treat you like shit and fight for your rights. If he doesn\u2019t want to have an official relationship with you, don\u2019t let him have anything with you.<\/p>\n<p>Respect yourself because it is obvious that he doesn\u2019t know what that means.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you meet a guy and you start something serious with him, you are not aware of the bad things that could happen down the road. 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