{"id":17278,"date":"2020-10-04T12:09:26","date_gmt":"2020-10-04T12:09:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17278"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:25:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:25:11","slug":"7-razoes-pelas-quais-o-seu-ex-continua-a-rastejar-para-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-razoes-pelas-quais-o-seu-ex-continua-a-rastejar-para-si\/","title":{"rendered":"7 raz\u00f5es pelas quais o teu ex continua a rastejar para ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you break up a relationship that didn&#8217;t bring you anything other than pain and misery, you kind of want that person to disappear out of your life forever, right? But for some reason, they <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/leia-isto-se-ele-voltar-a-rastejar\/\">continuar a rastejar de volta para ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>At first, it might seem like it&#8217;s all about love and appreciation, because they keep telling you how much they&#8217;re missing you. But the possibilities for that are quite impossible.<\/p>\n<p>Of course it&#8217;s possible that you might go back to your ex, you might realize that the relationship you had was everything you wanted.<\/p>\n<p>Mas se o seu ex era um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/if-he-does-these-6-things-hes-a-toxic-manipulator\/\">manipulador t\u00f3xico<\/a> and he comes back to you asking for forgiveness, you need to know the possible reasons why he&#8217;s coming back to you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Ci\u00fame<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123785\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He might have seen you hanging around with another man and that triggered his jealousy. A man can&#8217;t stand it if you start seeing another man because that hits him right in the guts and he finds it to be disrespectful.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re happy before he finds another woman? For him, there&#8217;s nothing happy about it.<\/p>\n<p>Also if you&#8217;re happy without him, if you&#8217;ve dedicated yourself to make your future better, he will get jealous and come crawling back to make it miserable again.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sexo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123786\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-sex-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a fazer sexo na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-sex-in-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-sex-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-sex-in-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-sex-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-sex-in-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-sex-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-sex-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-sex-in-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pode ser que voc\u00eas os dois tenham tido sexo regularmente e agora, sem isso, ele est\u00e1 sexualmente frustrado. Al\u00e9m disso, se ele tiver uma nova parceira, ela pode n\u00e3o ser t\u00e3o boa nos len\u00e7\u00f3is como voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p>O sexo \u00e9 normalmente um grande motivador para um homem voltar a rastejar para a sua ex. Quer dizer, voc\u00eas estiveram juntos durante algum tempo e trabalham bem juntos.<\/p>\n<p>You know what he likes and he simply doesn&#8217;t want to waste time teaching someone else the things that you do perfectly.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele tem medo da solid\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste a olhar pela janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is especially true if you&#8217;ve been together for a long period of time. He simply isn&#8217;t used to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.riskology.co\/alone\/\" rel=\"noopener\">estar sozinho<\/a> e a ideia de o fazer assusta-o.<\/p>\n<p>He also may have tried other relationships but he got dumped or it didn&#8217;t work out and he wants you because it feels familiar.<\/p>\n<p>This won&#8217;t work out, because you probably know that you can&#8217;t love someone unless you love yourself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Arrependimento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123788\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-rainy-window.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste a olhar atrav\u00e9s de uma janela chuvosa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-rainy-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-rainy-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-rainy-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-rainy-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-rainy-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-rainy-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-rainy-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-rainy-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Acredite ou n\u00e3o, o seu ex, mesmo que seja um idiota, pode aprender a li\u00e7\u00e3o e voltar a pedir-lhe uma segunda oportunidade porque est\u00e1 arrependido de a ter deixado e de a ter tratado como o fez.<\/p>\n<p>Regret doesn&#8217;t really mean that he has changed though, just that he wants to see what&#8217;s going to happen if you start again.<\/p>\n<p>Also, he simply didn&#8217;t want to deal with difficulties in your relationship but he realized that those things weren&#8217;t that bad and that you could&#8217;ve gotten over them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Controlo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123790\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio de fato a olhar pela janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Foi ele que se foi embora? Se sim, h\u00e1 uma grande possibilidade de que ele goste de controlar o que faz e o que as pessoas \u00e0 sua volta fazem.<\/p>\n<p>If he left you, it represents an act of power and also he thinks that he can come back at any given time, knowing that you&#8217;ll be there to welcome him with widespread arms.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mem\u00f3rias<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123792\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"homem atento junto \u00e0 janela e a observar a rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know that you get emotional flashbacks because of old memories too, so you can&#8217;t actually blame him. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/love-couch\/sweet-love\/signs-he-secretly-misses-you\" rel=\"noopener\">Ele sente a tua falta<\/a> and he&#8217;s aware of the mistakes he made.<\/p>\n<p>Ele amava-a mesmo e voc\u00eas passaram mesmo um tempo fant\u00e1stico juntos. Ent\u00e3o, porque n\u00e3o ouvir o que ele tem para dizer?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Rejei\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123793\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-building-roof-top.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio sentado no telhado de um edif\u00edcio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-building-roof-top.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-building-roof-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-building-roof-top-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-building-roof-top-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-building-roof-top-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-building-roof-top-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-building-roof-top-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-building-roof-top-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A cena dos encontros de hoje \u00e9 bastante assustadora para algu\u00e9m que acabou de sair de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Ele pode ter medo da rejei\u00e7\u00e3o!<\/p>\n<p>He knows that he can always come back to you and be happy in your arms but putting himself out there and getting his pride hurt isn&#8217;t an option for him.<\/p>\n<p>Also, he might have low self-esteem that doesn&#8217;t allow him to find someone else. This isn&#8217;t really a good motivator to restart a relationship and you know that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123795\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/7-Reasons-Your-Ex-Keeps-Crawling-Back-To-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 raz\u00f5es pelas quais o teu ex continua a rastejar para ti\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/7-Reasons-Your-Ex-Keeps-Crawling-Back-To-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/7-Reasons-Your-Ex-Keeps-Crawling-Back-To-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/7-Reasons-Your-Ex-Keeps-Crawling-Back-To-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/7-Reasons-Your-Ex-Keeps-Crawling-Back-To-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/7-Reasons-Your-Ex-Keeps-Crawling-Back-To-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you break up a relationship that didn&#8217;t bring you anything other than pain and misery, you kind of want that person to disappear out of your life forever, right? But for some reason, they keep crawling back to you. At first, it might seem like it&#8217;s all about love and appreciation, because they keep&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":123794,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17278","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/7-Reasons-Your-Ex-Keeps-Crawling-Back-To-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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