{"id":17341,"date":"2020-08-05T13:28:42","date_gmt":"2020-08-05T13:28:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17341"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:59:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:59:21","slug":"para-a-rapariga-que-pensa-que-esta-demasiado-lixada-para-encontrar-o-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-pensa-que-esta-demasiado-lixada-para-encontrar-o-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que acha que est\u00e1 demasiado \"lixada\" para encontrar o amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know exactly how you feel because I\u2019ve been there. I know that there are voices inside your mind telling you that n\u00e3o \u00e9s suficiente<\/a> e que nenhum homem te amar\u00e1 com todas as tuas cicatrizes, a tua bagagem e todos os dem\u00f3nios do teu passado.<\/p>\n

I know that every time you meet someone new, those voices in your head try to sabotage your relationship, whispering that you don\u2019t even have to bother trying something that was destined to doom.<\/p>\n

Pensa que as suas experi\u00eancias de vida fazem de si a pessoa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 am\u00e1vel, mas isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade. Ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 demasiado danificado para ser amado e para encontrar o amor, especialmente voc\u00ea!<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 precisa de aceitar isso e come\u00e7ar a pensar positivamente em vez de deixar que os pensamentos negativos arruinem completamente a sua vida.<\/p>\n

Talvez estejas lixado, mas pelo menos n\u00e3o est\u00e1s sozinho<\/h2>\n

\"amigas<\/p>\n

We are all a little bit broken but that doesn\u2019t mean that we can\u2019t find love. Love is everywhere and you just need to recognize what you want to have in your life.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que sente o mesmo que tu e, quando se encontrarem, compreender-se-\u00e3o mutuamente.<\/p>\n

Ele ser\u00e1 a tua alma g\u00e9mea e tu ser\u00e1s a sua cara-metade. Ambos estar\u00e3o quebrados \u00e0 vossa maneira, mas aprender\u00e3o a viver juntos.<\/p>\n

Estar\u00e1 l\u00e1 para ele quando a vida lhe der uma bofetada na cara, dizendo-lhe que tudo vai melhorar, e ele vai adorar todos os seus peda\u00e7os quebrados.<\/p>\n

Aceitar-te-\u00e1 tal como \u00e9s, sem te moldar na pessoa que ele quer que sejas.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 o \u00fanico que tem bagagem<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You made mistakes in the past? So what! We have all made some mistakes but that doesn\u2019t mean that we are not allowed to love again.<\/p>\n

Independentemente do que penses, n\u00e3o \u00e9s t\u00e3o mau como pensas. Basta dar uma oportunidade a si pr\u00f3prio e ver\u00e1 isso.<\/p>\n

You gave so many second chances to people who didn\u2019t deserve them so why wouldn\u2019t you give another one to yourself? You will see that other people have issues and that we are not perfect.<\/p>\n

De facto, somos perfeitamente imperfeito<\/a> mas isso \u00e9 algo com que n\u00e3o se deve preocupar.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t strive for perfection because that doesn\u2019t exist. It is just a story for people who want to be as good as they can be. That is just a lie others tell us to make us reach our limits.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o est\u00e1s t\u00e3o quebrado como pensas que est\u00e1s<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

My darling, all the people around you are broken as well but they don\u2019t show it. Maybe they are more broken than you but they are better liars. So, don\u2019t believe everything that others tell you.<\/p>\n

Podes pensar com a tua cabe\u00e7a e decidir o que est\u00e1 certo e o que est\u00e1 errado.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t ever give up on good things, especially love. Love can heal you and you won\u2019t even be aware of it.<\/p>\n

Se deres ao amor outra oportunidade de estar na tua vida, ver\u00e1s que valeu a pena. N\u00e3o te esque\u00e7as de que as merdas acontecem sempre; s\u00f3 depende da forma como as pessoas reagem a elas.<\/p>\n

Por isso, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, tente ser voc\u00ea mesmo e esteja sempre aberto \u00e0s coisas boas e a que o amor fa\u00e7a parte da sua vida.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s melhor do que pensas que \u00e9s<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I know that sometimes you have high expectations. I know that sometimes people don\u2019t understand you so you think the problem is with you.<\/p>\n

E tamb\u00e9m sei como pode estar confuso com tudo isso. Mas acredita em mim quando digo que \u00e9s muito melhor do que pensas.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9s muito mais forte do que todas as merdas que te acontecem e \u00e9s tu que tens de decidir se vais seguir em frente como um guerreiro ou se te vais perder em todos os problemas da tua vida.<\/p>\n

Lutar n\u00e3o \u00e9 f\u00e1cil, mas sentir-se-\u00e1 definitivamente como se tivesse feito algo de bom para si pr\u00f3prio depois de o conseguir.<\/p>\n

Confia em mim, tu consegues, s\u00f3 precisas de dar o primeiro passo sozinho.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9s o n\u00e3o am\u00e1vel<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Eu sei que todos os homens te trataram como merda. Sei que todos eles tentaram convencer-te de que tu \u00e9 que n\u00e3o \u00e9s am\u00e1vel, mas essa \u00e9 a maior mentira de todas.<\/p>\n

Eles s\u00f3 fizeram isso para se sentirem melhor em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s coisas que estragaram. Queriam sentir-se bem na sua pr\u00f3pria pele, deixando-o levar a culpa toda.<\/p>\n

In your past relationships, you were convinced that you were the one who couldn\u2019t love, the one who was hard to love and that you would never find that kind of love that people write books about.<\/p>\n

Too bad that you didn\u2019t believe in yourself enough and that you let them control you and make you think that you are something you are not.<\/p>\n

Tens o direito de te sentires feliz<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tens o direito de amar e de ser amado. Tens o direito de viver a tua vida ao m\u00e1ximo e tens certamente o direito de ser perseguido.<\/p>\n

The worst thing that you can do is go with the flow and make zero effort for your life to be better. You are the only ruler of your life so don\u2019t let any man convince you of the opposite.<\/p>\n

Se deixares que sejam os outros a decidir em vez de ti, nunca encontrar\u00e1s a verdadeira felicidade.<\/p>\n

Por isso, esquece tudo o que te disseram sobre dar ouvidos aos mais velhos. Vive a sua pr\u00f3pria vida e toma as suas pr\u00f3prias decis\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Se forem maus, aprender\u00e1s com eles e se forem bons, ser\u00e3o uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o para ti.<\/p>\n

But whatever happens, be proud of who you are and walk through life with your head up. Because you don\u2019t deserve anything less than that.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 algu\u00e9m perfeito para si l\u00e1 fora<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que far\u00e1 o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o bater mais depressa, algu\u00e9m que te dar\u00e1 borboletas no est\u00f4mago sempre que o vires.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 um homem que a deixar\u00e1 louca e, ao mesmo tempo, loucamente apaixonada por si. E quando o conheceres, vais sab\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

You will feel that the one you have been waiting for, for such a long time, has come along. And bear in mind that good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n

Mas quando o seu homem perfeito entrar na sua vida, tudo far\u00e1 sentido. Ele ser\u00e1 a pe\u00e7a que faltava no puzzle que procurou durante tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

And now he has come along to be with you, to hold you, to love you and to spoil you. Because you don\u2019t deserve anything less than that!<\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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