{"id":17344,"date":"2018-04-05T13:37:28","date_gmt":"2018-04-05T13:37:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17344"},"modified":"2022-02-06T16:42:14","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T16:42:14","slug":"gostava-muito-que-tivessemos-conseguido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/gostava-muito-que-tivessemos-conseguido\/","title":{"rendered":"Gostava muito que tiv\u00e9ssemos conseguido"},"content":{"rendered":"

I have many regrets in life and most of them are connected with you. You may think that I regret ever meeting you, ever loving you the way I did and ever being with you. You may think I regret all the sacrifices I made for us, all the effort I put in our relationship and all the pain I\u2019ve been through because of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas nada disso \u00e9 verdade. <\/span>The only thing I regret is that we didn\u2019t make it.<\/b> And I think that is something that will haunt me for as long as I live. The fact that I won\u2019t spend the rest of my life with you is something I will never be able to accept.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes, eu sempre soube que t\u00ednhamos problemas. No fundo, sempre soube que <\/span>we weren\u2019t meant to be together<\/span><\/a>, as much as I wished for it. Somehow, I knew we weren\u2019t compatible. And deep down, I knew you could never love me the way I loved you. But none of it stopped me from loving you. None of it stopped me from fighting for us. And the fact that it was all in vain hurts me the most and it is something I will never get over.<\/span><\/p>\n

I can accept the fact that you left me. It hurt and it still hurts me in an unimaginable way but that is something I know I will learn to deal with. But what I can\u2019t accept is that I tried so hard for something that will never happen. I consider our relationship and the end of it as my personal defeat. I can\u2019t accept that everything I did served for nothing and that we won\u2019t end up together. I know life is not a fairy tale but I really believed in our happy ending. I hoped that we would eventually overcome all the obstacles, that we would chase away your issues and that we\u2019d end up together, despite everything. And now I have grown to realize that none of it will ever happen. <\/span>E isso \u00e9 algo que me vai magoar enquanto eu viver.<\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t think I will always suffer this way because of you. I know time heals all wounds and I know that with time, the intensity of my pain will reduce. I know that someday, you will be just <\/span>uma mem\u00f3ria distante<\/span><\/a> for me. I know that there will come a day when you won\u2019t be the first thing on my mind. And that there will come a day when you\u2019ll just be a part of the past.<\/span><\/p>\n

But even when that day comes, when I\u2019ve grown old and when my face has become wrinkled, I will think of you in a way. Even then, I will feel sorry for everything. I will feel sorry for all the things we could have done, if we had just tried harder. I will feel sorry for the fact that all the love I felt for you was for nothing. I will feel sorry that I wasn\u2019t enough for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I will feel sorry we didn\u2019t make it.<\/span><\/p>\n

We will probably love other people in the future. Maybe we\u2019ll find our happiness without each other. But there will always be a part of me that I left with you. And that is a part no other man in my life could ever get.<\/span><\/p>\n

E mesmo daqui a vinte anos, quando algu\u00e9m me perguntar quem foi a pessoa que mais amei na minha vida, a tua cara vai aparecer mesmo \u00e0 frente dos meus olhos. E toda a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o vai passar-me \u00e0 frente, como se tudo tivesse acontecido ontem. E eu sentirei a mesma dor que senti no dia em que te afastaste de mim.<\/span><\/p>\n

And even then I will ask myself why we didn\u2019t stay together. And even then, I won\u2019t know the answer. Even after all those years, I will <\/span>wonder why I wasn\u2019t enough<\/span><\/a>. I will wonder why I didn\u2019t fight harder and why I gave up. I will ask myself if there was anything I could have done to make you stay. And I will ask myself se alguma vez pensares em mim<\/a> a forma como penso em ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo assim, <\/span>Saberei que o nosso amor era real, que \u00e9ramos reais.<\/b> I will know that I loved you more than anyone else in this world. And I will know that you loved me the best way you could, even though that wasn\u2019t enough for me. And no matter how much time passes, that is something nobody can take away from me.<\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I have many regrets in life and most of them are connected with you. You may think that I regret ever meeting you, ever loving you the way I did and ever being with you. You may think I regret all the sacrifices I made for us, all the effort I put in our relationship…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":17345,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17344","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/eric-ward-455457-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17344","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17344"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17344\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17345"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17344"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17344"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17344"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}