{"id":17469,"date":"2020-05-11T09:20:44","date_gmt":"2020-05-11T09:20:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17469"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:15:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:15:22","slug":"5-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-nao-se-abre-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-nao-se-abre-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais ele n\u00e3o se abre com voc\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel \u00e9 crucial para uma vida saud\u00e1vel e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-sinais-de-uma-relacao-estavel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1vel<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But all communication is a two-way street and you can\u2019t expect it to be healthy when you are dealing with someone who simply refuses to open up to you, especially if that someone is your romantic partner.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve tried everything but you feel like you can\u2019t get to this man completely.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what you do, he stays far away from you and there is always a part of him he doesn\u2019t want to share with you.<\/p>\n<p>And no matter how hard you try to understand this, you can\u2019t figure out why this is so.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, eis 5 raz\u00f5es poss\u00edveis para o seu homem se recusar a abrir-se consigo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele \u00e9 inseguro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83763 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"homem pensativo sentado ao lado da janela e a olhar para fora\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the main reasons most men won\u2019t open up is because of their insecurities.<\/p>\n<p>No nosso mundo, os homens s\u00e3o normalmente retratados como criaturas duras que t\u00eam poucas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>But the truth is quite different\u2014they are also human beings and they can experience a wide range of emotions, the same as women can.<\/p>\n<p>Mas o que talvez n\u00e3o saiba \u00e9 que a maioria dos homens tem um ego muito fr\u00e1gil.<\/p>\n<p>It is possible that your partner feels like he\u2019ll be less of a man in your eyes if he opens up to you and expresses his true feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he is insecure about your feelings for him and he thinks he\u2019ll appear too weak in front of you.<\/p>\n<p>He might be afraid that you won\u2019t understand him or that you\u2019ll ridicule him for opening up to you and that blocks him from showing his true emotions.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You didn\u2019t react well to him opening up to you in the past<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83764 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher zangada e infeliz a falar com o namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/> &nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, the slightest thing can hurt someone. It is possible that your man tried to open up to you in the past but you simply didn\u2019t react the way he expected you to.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you didn\u2019t even realize that he was trying to share something with you and didn\u2019t take his hint, so you disregarded his feelings. That was more than enough for him to close up all over again.<\/p>\n<p>He thinks he tried opening up but you just didn\u2019t provide him with the comfort he needed at that point, so he simply decided to give up on sharing anything with you.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ve done this on purpose, it only means that you need to pay better attention to him and everything he is trying to tell you if you want to have a better relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t love you enough<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83765 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal triste sentado num sof\u00e1 em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Men won\u2019t open up to just anyone. They need to really care about you and they need to be sure that you are their <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-coisas-que-nao-sao-para-sempre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pessoa para sempre<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things none of wants to accept is that it is possible our partner simply doesn\u2019t love us enough but this can be one of the reasons your partner doesn\u2019t open up to you.<\/p>\n<p>As much as it hurts you, it is possible that he doesn\u2019t consider your relationship something that will be long-lasting, so he chooses not to open up to someone who will soon be gone from his life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s been hurt in the past<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83766 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-wearing-hoodie-sitting-beside-water.jpg\" alt=\"homem com capuz sentado junto \u00e0 \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-wearing-hoodie-sitting-beside-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-wearing-hoodie-sitting-beside-water-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-wearing-hoodie-sitting-beside-water-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the most common reasons men refuse to open up to just anyone is the fact that they\u2019ve been hurt in the past.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 poss\u00edvel que o seu parceiro tenha passado por uma experi\u00eancia dolorosa numa das suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores, pelo que \u00e9 natural que tenha problemas de confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, este homem decidiu manter todas as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es engarrafadas dentro de si.<\/p>\n<p>He thinks he\u2019ll be hurt again the moment he exposes his vulnerable side, so he built thick walls around him and decided not to let anyone in, including you.<\/p>\n<p>Se for esse o caso do seu parceiro, ele precisar\u00e1 de tempo e paci\u00eancia antes de perceber que \u00e9 algu\u00e9m digno da sua confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>But sooner or later, he\u2019ll understand this and then you\u2019ll be able to see his true side.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He isn\u2019t in touch with his emotions<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83767 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick-1.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de um homem com \u00f3culos de sol apoiado num tijolo de parede\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Algumas pessoas s\u00e3o simplesmente <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindbodygreen.com\/articles\/signs-out-of-touch-with-your-emotions\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fora de contacto com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/a> Isto \u00e9 especialmente comum nos homens.<\/p>\n<p>There are men who are not in sync with their emotions and they have the ability to disconnect from them. This doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t have feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Pelo contr\u00e1rio, est\u00e3o apenas a escond\u00ea-las no seu \u00edntimo por raz\u00f5es diferentes.<\/p>\n<p>Se acha que o seu homem \u00e9 uma destas pessoas, tem de o ajudar a entrar em contacto com os seus sentimentos, sem o pressionar demasiado, porque se o fizer, s\u00f3 ser\u00e1 contraproducente.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, deixe-o enfrentar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es sozinho, consigo ao seu lado, segurando-lhe a m\u00e3o durante esta viagem.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83768 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais ele n\u00e3o se abre com voc\u00ea\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Healthy communication is crucial for a healthy and stable relationship. But all communication is a two-way street and you can\u2019t expect it to be healthy when you are dealing with someone who simply refuses to open up to you, especially if that someone is your romantic partner. You\u2019ve tried everything but you feel like you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":83769,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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