{"id":17508,"date":"2020-08-11T11:58:01","date_gmt":"2020-08-11T11:58:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17508"},"modified":"2022-02-15T00:16:25","modified_gmt":"2022-02-15T00:16:25","slug":"a-todas-as-maes-solteiras-que-andam-por-ai-voces-sao-verdadeiras-heroinas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-todas-as-maes-solteiras-que-andam-por-ai-voces-sao-verdadeiras-heroinas\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas as m\u00e3es solteiras que existem: Voc\u00eas s\u00e3o verdadeiras hero\u00ednas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser m\u00e3e \u00e9 dif\u00edcil, mas ser m\u00e3e solteira \u00e9 o trabalho mais dif\u00edcil do mundo<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

\u00c9 deixado sozinho com muitas dor emocional <\/a> que tens de suportar e uma crian\u00e7a que precisa de ti mais do que nunca.<\/p>\n

E todos os dias d\u00e1s por ti a chorar porque a vida foi t\u00e3o injusta contigo, mas depois v\u00eas dois olhos brilhantes a olhar para ti e a perguntar se est\u00e1s bem.<\/p>\n

So, you stand up, summon up the last bit of strength you have and tell your child that mommy is okay and that you weren\u2019t actually crying\u2014something fell into your eye .<\/p>\n

You lie to your child\u2014not being able to believe in your own lie\u2014but you don\u2019t want to hurt him because you don\u2019t want him to suffer just like you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want him to miss his father figure, so you always go the extra mile to make up for the love he is not receiving from a so-called dad.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"m\u00e3e<\/p>\n

Because there is a man out there who is his father but your son will never call him \u2018dad\u2019. Dads don\u2019t do things like that. They don\u2019t make moms sad and they never leave their kids.<\/p>\n

Dads are there to tuck their kids in every night and to kiss them goodnight. They come to every football game and are their kid\u2019s biggest fan.<\/p>\n

Os pais carregam os filhos aos ombros e fazem-nos sentir que podem conquistar o mundo porque s\u00e3o muito altos.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Os pais fazem as crian\u00e7as sentirem-se t\u00e3o especiais e t\u00e3o \u00fanicas. Mas quando n\u00e3o h\u00e1 um pai para fazer todas estas coisas, um dos pais tem de o fazer.<\/p>\n

E, neste caso, s\u00e3o as m\u00e3es solteiras. Elas carregam o pesado fardo \u00e0s costas, mas nunca dizem que \u00e9 dif\u00edcil para elas.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o t\u00e3o bons em multitarefas, fazendo coisas que pensavam nunca serem capazes de fazer.<\/p>\n

\"m\u00e3e<\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o cansados de todo o trabalho que t\u00eam de fazer sozinhos, mas nunca falam sobre isso.<\/p>\n

The single moms don\u2019t talk about the 2 jobs they have to do to pay the bills and the rent<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t talk about all the emotional pain that is inside them and about all the love they still have, but there is nobody to reciprocate it.<\/p>\n

Fazem de conta que s\u00e3o os mulheres mais fortes <\/a> in public but once they come home to their 4 walls, they fall apart into a million shattered pieces\u2014pieces that can\u2019t be stuck back together no matter what happens.  <\/p>\n

And they live like that\u2014like everything is normal and they have a dream life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Single moms are true heroes but others don\u2019t see that. It is simple to gossip about and judge them but once you get to be in their shoes, you will see that their every day is a constant battle.<\/p>\n

\"m\u00e3e<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 25 Sinais ineg\u00e1veis de que \u00e9s um Mombie<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 uma batalha pelas suas vidas e por aquela pequena criatura que os admira, pensando que s\u00e3o poderosos e que podem resolver qualquer problema.<\/p>\n

E s\u00f3 por causa daqueles olhos enormes e daquele sorriso que vos pode fazer ganhar o dia, voc\u00eas, m\u00e3es solteiras, lutam o mais que podem.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Lutamos para lhes dar tudo o que precisam, para lhes dar amor, afeto e conselhos.<\/p>\n

You work 2 jobs because you know that alimony is not enough. You simply don\u2019t want to disappoint your children more that they are already disappointed.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o d\u00e1 vontade de ver as l\u00e1grimas nos seus olhos quando v\u00eaem outras fam\u00edlias irem juntas ao parque e depois irem para casa.<\/p>\n

And you hate that you can\u2019t find a valid reason to explain why your family doesn\u2019t go home with dad and why he isn\u2019t there with you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"m\u00e3e<\/p>\n

Tem um n\u00f3 na garganta, est\u00e1 \u00e0 beira das l\u00e1grimas, mas, mesmo assim, consegue inventar qualquer coisa e dizer ao seu filho que se vai divertir com o pai da pr\u00f3xima vez.<\/p>\n

E com passos pesados, rasteja at\u00e9 \u00e0 sua casa vazia, fingindo ser o super-her\u00f3i que sorri sempre e se sente bem.<\/p>\n

Esfor\u00e7a-se ao m\u00e1ximo para ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de si mesma, para ser uma m\u00e3e de sonho para o seu filho, mas sabe que \u00e9 mais dif\u00edcil do que nunca.<\/p>\n

Then, when your child finally sleeps in your arms, you look at him and you don\u2019t regret anything that you did for him.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t mind being a mom, housekeeper, doctor, psychologist, melhor amigo <\/a> , empregado de mesa e protetor em simult\u00e2neo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t mind doing all that every day, 24\/7 and not getting a salary for your work.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You even don\u2019t mind that you are the one who goes the extra mile because you know that your child will transform into a good person.<\/p>\n

And all that is thanks to you\u2014mom! <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c9s um verdadeiro super-her\u00f3i e sei que h\u00e1 algu\u00e9m l\u00e1 em cima que v\u00ea toda a tua dor e sacrif\u00edcio.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sei tamb\u00e9m que, um dia, ver\u00e1 os frutos do seu trabalho e ficar\u00e1 muito orgulhoso de si pr\u00f3prio, porque fez tudo isso sozinho, sem qualquer ajuda. E foi bem sucedido.<\/p>\n

O teu projeto principal est\u00e1 terminado e \u00e9 absolutamente perfeito gra\u00e7as a ti, m\u00e3e.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t think that you made mistakes because you gave as best as you could to make things work. You were a magician, making things work that didn\u2019t work at the beginning.  <\/p>\n

Por isso, ergue a cabe\u00e7a, mulher orgulhosa, e nunca deixes que ningu\u00e9m te fa\u00e7a olhar para baixo.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9s mais do que suficiente!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9s digno!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mereces o mundo<\/i><\/b><\/a>!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sabes que tens imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es, mas s\u00e3o elas que te tornam perfeito como \u00e9s.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Your difficulties don\u2019t reflect on your worth, because you already know that you are more than enough, so never let anyone convince you of the opposite.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you and tell you that it is easy because it is not<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

This phase of your life is like a roller coaster of emotions, a crazy drive whose end is unknown. But I know one thing\u2014it is definitely worth it.<\/p>\n

Vale a pena por causa daqueles olhinhos que olham para n\u00f3s e pensam que somos perfeitos.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 suficiente por causa dessas pequenas m\u00e3os que te estendem a m\u00e3o para as proteger porque pensam que \u00e9s o mais forte.<\/p>\n

Pensam que se pode conquistar o mundo e a verdade \u00e9 que se pode mesmo.<\/p>\n

M\u00e3e, podes conquistar o mundo com uma m\u00e3o enquanto o teu filho segura a outra.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t you ever forget that <\/i><\/b>tu \u00e9s suficiente<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

De facto, m\u00e3e, tu \u00e9s mais do que suficiente!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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