Todos n\u00f3s temos uma imagem na nossa cabe\u00e7a de como seria uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita, certo? Mas, de alguma forma, esquecemo-nos das nossas pr\u00f3prias ideias e dedicamo-nos a agradar ao nosso parceiro.<\/p>\n
Sometimes, the things that are needed in order for our partner to be happy are quite unusual, but we still do them, mistaking his needs for love. That’s the problem, you know?<\/p>\n
Fazer coisas com as quais n\u00e3o nos sentimos bem s\u00f3 para que o nosso parceiro fique ao nosso lado \u00e9 a pior coisa que uma mulher pode fazer. Se precisa mesmo de fazer certas coisas para que ele fique consigo, ent\u00e3o ele n\u00e3o vale a pena.<\/p>\n
Especialmente se essas coisas forem contra tudo aquilo em que acredita.<\/p>\n
What does he tell you when you get angry and you try talking to him? Does he shut you up? If you are feeling upset for whatever reason and he doesn’t give you the freedom to talk about it, then he’s not worthy of you.<\/p>\n
Isto tamb\u00e9m se aplica se ele a obrigar a esconder as l\u00e1grimas. Ele diz que essas coisas o incomodam ou que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 deprimida simplesmente porque teve um dia dif\u00edcil e ele torna tudo ainda pior por n\u00e3o estar ao seu lado. V\u00e1-se embora.<\/p>\n
He doesn’t deserve you. It\u2019s just who he is. He won\u2019t change.<\/a><\/p>\n Your body is yours only and he doesn’t have the right to it. Ever. If he tells you that sex is the ultimate sign of love, he’s lying. You can give your body to whomever you want but you can also choose if you’ll give it to him.<\/p>\n If you refuse, he needs to respect your decision. Men think that they are entitled to our body, thinking that if we don’t give ourself to them, we don’t care enough.<\/p>\n If a guy wants you to give up your job, your dreams or everything you’re working for, then we have a problem. If he really loves you, he will be supportive of everything that you want to achieve in your life and he might even help if he sees that there’s a way he actually could.<\/p>\n But keeping you locked inside his own little world, never allowing you to grow? Well, that’s just messed up. You need to grow together and not let him convince you that he’s the only one who should be working or going to university. You deserve to follow your dreams as well!<\/p>\n I know that it’s very common that we find ourselves in relationships with people who don’t really get along with our friends but that’s not as horrible as if he tries to make you give them up.<\/p>\n If he keeps on talking about them in a bad manner and doesn’t even want to meet them, then there’s a problem. He needs to love you for who you are and respect all your choices.<\/p>\n Your friends are one of your choices and if he wants you to give up on your friendships in order for him to stay in your life, then he’s simply not worth it.<\/p>\n If he proposes an open sexual relationship and he tells you that it’s the only way he can function in a relationship but you simply don’t like the idea of it, what do you do? Do you tell him that you are not into that or do you not say anything because you’re too scared that you might lose him, so you still go with it?<\/p>\n If he makes you settle for this kind of thing, he isn’t in love with you and you shouldn\u2019t let yourself contentar-se com menos do que isso<\/a> than you want or need. If you need him to be only yours and he still decides to leave, then it’s his loss. You just keep on being yourself.<\/p>\n It’s cute when a guy gets jealous sometimes, right? It gives off the impression that he cares. But if he doesn’t allow you to wear certain pieces of clothing because other men might look at you, he’s just possessive.<\/p>\n If he makes you wear jeans to formal events where you would rather wear a dress, because he’s afraid that you might catch the attention of another man, he doesn’t trust you enough, so why bother?<\/p>\n2. Ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais com ele<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Desistir dos seus sonhos<\/span><\/h2>\n
4. Desiste dos teus amigos<\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Settle for something you’re not into<\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Vestir-se de forma diferente<\/span><\/h2>\n
7. Tomar iniciativa<\/span><\/h2>\n