{"id":17718,"date":"2018-04-17T10:56:54","date_gmt":"2018-04-17T10:56:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17718"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:10:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:10:21","slug":"recuperar-o-seu-coracao-e-ouvir-o-seu-cerebro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/recuperar-o-seu-coracao-e-ouvir-o-seu-cerebro\/","title":{"rendered":"Recuperar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e ouvir o seu c\u00e9rebro"},"content":{"rendered":"

A nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o parecia o filme \"Inception\" misturado com \"He's Just Not That Into You\" e \"Fifty Shades of Grey\", tudo correu horrivelmente mal.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard for us women to listen to our brain when deciding to get out of something so toxic like a bad relationship. Not only have we been manipulated by a stupid boy, but… we also battle heartache vs. gut feelings (our brain) and we battle every damn Disney fairy tale vs. reality.<\/p>\n

Era dif\u00edcil para mim ouvir o meu c\u00e9rebro quando quem eu pensava ser a minha alma g\u00e9mea, por natureza, procurava as suas necessidades e cuidava delas em vez das minhas.<\/p>\n

Pode dizer-se que eu era o brinquedo perfeito para brincar. Vinha com pilhas inclu\u00eddas e o meu objetivo era agradar para fazer o meu consumidor, ele, feliz.<\/p>\n

No entanto, quando se ouve o c\u00e9rebro<\/strong>, you\u2019re able to take your heart back from him. You will be able to see things clearly. You will be able to see how much he underestimated the value you brought into the relationship.<\/p>\n

Quando recuperares o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o,<\/strong> you will be able to see that when you\u2019re with someone who\u2019s an expert at gaslighting, it\u2019s hard to not take the blame and it\u2019s hard to see that your own intentions were pure.<\/p>\n

Quando recuperares o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong> and listen to your brain, it\u2019s easy to see that you cannot waste your time on someone who is clearly so undeserving of the love you gave him. You are able to see that people like him don\u2019t change<\/a>. People like him are a waste of your time. No matter how many articles you read, the outcome will still be the same (he\u2019s not the exception).<\/p>\n

Quando recuperares o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o,<\/strong> Culpa e culpabilidade nunca ser\u00e3o duas palavras que vos passar\u00e3o pela cabe\u00e7a para explicar porque \u00e9 que ele nunca mudou.<\/p>\n

Quando recuperares o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o,<\/strong> you\u2019ll realize those girls he always called \u2018friends\u2019 were just backups for when he felt you had failed.<\/p>\n

Quando recuperares o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o,<\/strong> you\u2019ll realize your self-worth.<\/p>\n

I allowed my partner to place me on diets, to make fun of my eyes, to mimic the way I dressed, and the worst part was I let him treat me like a slave in the bedroom. I\u2019m pretty sure if Christian Grey himself was an actual person, even he\u2019d be disgusted by the way I was treated. But I allowed this because I loved him. I allowed this because I loved him with every cell in my body. I allowed this because I refused to listen to my brain. I placed all my logic and decision-making into my heart. I know I\u2019m not the only woman who has been through this battle.<\/p>\n

However, I grew wise to his games, and with time my heart grew cold toward him. It was like the worst possible winter inside my body. Once he was able to crush my heart, I knew I was the only person who could heal it and I knew it was time to listen to my brain and take back the crushed pieces\u2014he had left me like broken glass on the floor.<\/p>\n

Quando recuperares o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o,<\/strong> you\u2019ll realize how incredibly strong you are.<\/p>\n

Quando recuperares o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong> and listen to your brain, you\u2019ll delete his number and block him on social media.<\/p>\n

Quando recuperares o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o,<\/strong> you\u2019ll understand that the right person will help you realize your self-worth and the right person will have no problem encouraging you along the way.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Our relationship felt like the movie \u2018Inception\u2019 mixed with \u2018He\u2019s Just Not That Into You\u2019 and \u2018Fifty Shades of Grey, all gone horribly wrong. It\u2019s hard for us women to listen to our brain when deciding to get out of something so toxic like a bad relationship. Not only have we been manipulated by a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":17720,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17718","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/chris-benson-350939-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":3,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17718","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17718"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17718\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17720"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17718"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17718"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17718"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}