{"id":17753,"date":"2020-03-18T07:11:50","date_gmt":"2020-03-18T07:11:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17753"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:45:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:45:55","slug":"ela-nao-teria-problemas-de-confianca-se-tu-nao-tivesses-problemas-de-mentira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-nao-teria-problemas-de-confianca-se-tu-nao-tivesses-problemas-de-mentira\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela n\u00e3o teria problemas de confian\u00e7a se tu n\u00e3o tivesses problemas de mentira"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ultimamente, sempre que v\u00ea a sua namorada, s\u00f3 v\u00ea d\u00favidas nos olhos dela. Por isso, acha que ela est\u00e1 obviamente a exagerar e a exagerar.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what has gotten into her and why she doesn\u2019t trust a word you say. She obviously has strong trust issues and this has been impacting on your relationship in horrible ways.<\/p>\n

Perguntamo-nos para onde ter\u00e1 ido a rapariga alegre e feliz que conhecemos.<\/strong> Agora, s\u00f3 a consegues ouvir a chatear e a questionar todos os teus passos.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possas fazer para provar o teu amor por ela. Pensa que est\u00e1 a dar o seu melhor para ser um bom rapaz, para ser um namorado carinhoso e solid\u00e1rio, mas nada parece funcionar.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que mudasse o mundo por ela, ela continuaria a ter d\u00favidas sobre o seu amor.<\/p>\n

And naturally, this is slowly starting to annoy you. You didn\u2019t picture your life like this.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need someone whose pensar demasiado arru\u00edna a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> and someone who is constantly checking on every little thing you do. You don\u2019t want to feel like you are constantly being monitored and controlled.<\/p>\n

Segundo a sua opini\u00e3o, tudo isto ficou um pouco fora de controlo. Ela \u00e9 demasiado ciumenta e come\u00e7a a pensar que ela est\u00e1 a ficar maluca.<\/p>\n

You feel like you just can\u2019t deal with her constant mood swings and with her behavior toward you in general.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t know is that every relationship is a two-way street. O comportamento dela \u00e9 apenas uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es e essa \u00e9 a \u00fanica verdade. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Em vez de a acusar de ser louca, ciumenta e demasiado controladora, j\u00e1 pensou em tudo o que fez para que a sua namorada ficasse assim?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sim, ela sabe muito bem que tem quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/a>. She doesn\u2019t believe a word you say and there is nothing that can convince her of your honesty.<\/p>\n

Yes, she sometimes acts like she is paranoid and there are times when she\u2019ll accuse you of things you didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

Mas j\u00e1 pensou no que fez para que ela ficasse assim? J\u00e1 se questionou sobre si pr\u00f3prio e sobre tudo o que lhe fez para que ela se comportasse desta forma?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You know very well this girl wasn\u2019t like this when you met her. You know she was an innocent and caring girl who believed in love and who believed that there was something good in everything.<\/p>\n

But most of all, she believed that there was something good in you. Although people kept telling her that you were trouble and that you weren\u2019t the right man for her, she had faith in you.<\/p>\n

Ela tinha f\u00e9 no seu amor por ti e acreditava que o enorme amor que sentia por ti te iria mudar.<\/p>\n

Mas ela nunca te mudou. Em vez disso, mudou-a.<\/strong> You showed her that she never should\u2019ve trusted you.<\/p>\n

Mostraste-lhe que todos tinham raz\u00e3o a teu respeito e que ela era tola por acreditar em ti. Desiludiste-a cada vez mais de cada vez que ela te apanhou a mentir.<\/p>\n

Ela perdeu a confian\u00e7a em si cada vez mais, sempre que o apanhou a esconder o telem\u00f3vel, sempre que tinha telefonemas misteriosos e sempre que o apanhou a olhar para outra rapariga.<\/p>\n

And then, she caught you cheating on her. You may think she forgave you. And maybe she did. But she didn\u2019t do it because she wanted to.<\/p>\n

She did it because she loved you, despite everything you did to her. She did it because she couldn\u2019t imagine not having you in her life, despite all the pain you caused her.<\/p>\n

And she did it because she kept hoping that you\u2019d eventually become a better man.<\/p>\n

But although she forgave you, she never forgot what you did to her. She tried really hard to put all of that behind her and she tried to turn over a new leaf. But she just couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Os sentimentos de trai\u00e7\u00e3o e humilha\u00e7\u00e3o que lhe fez passar foram ainda mais fortes do que o amor que ela sentia por si.<\/p>\n

And above all, she still can\u2019t perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3pria<\/a> for staying by your side. She can\u2019t stand living in this torture anymore.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que ela olha para si, v\u00ea um homem que a magoou da forma mais horr\u00edvel, v\u00ea um homem que a destruiu e mudou para sempre.<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que ela possa fazer quanto a isso.<\/p>\n

Por isso, sempre que se irritar com a falta de confian\u00e7a dela, sempre que achar que ela o est\u00e1 a maltratar e sempre que pensar que ela deve estar louca, lembre-se que foi voc\u00ea que a fez assim. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Lembrem-se que tudo isto \u00e9 culpa vossa.<\/strong> And remember that she wouldn\u2019t have trust issues if you hadn\u2019t had lying issues.<\/p>\n

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