{"id":17813,"date":"2020-08-19T07:03:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-19T07:03:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17813"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:42:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:42:58","slug":"as-suas-palavras-nao-significam-nada-porque-as-suas-accoes-mostraram-a-verdade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-suas-palavras-nao-significam-nada-porque-as-suas-accoes-mostraram-a-verdade\/","title":{"rendered":"As tuas palavras n\u00e3o significam nada porque as tuas ac\u00e7\u00f5es mostraram a verdade"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 muito tempo, ouvi um ditado que diz que as ac\u00e7\u00f5es falam mais alto do que as palavras, mas demorei algum tempo a perceber isso.<\/p>\n

Enquanto eu estava numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o contigo, Confiei em ti o suficiente para deixar que me magoasses<\/a>. Eu era totalmente aberto sobre os meus planos e as minhas ac\u00e7\u00f5es, enquanto tu eras o \u00fanico que dizia uma coisa e fazia outra totalmente oposta.<\/p>\n

E sabes qual foi a pior parte?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tu sempre te afastaste com coisas assim. Sempre que via que eu estava zangada e que estava prestes a acabar com o que t\u00ednhamos, vinha ter comigo, prometendo estrelas e a lua.<\/p>\n

E todas as vezes, eu ca\u00eda nas tuas doces mentiras e nos teus abra\u00e7os que me faziam tremer. Sempre que me entregava a ti, pensava que irias mudar, que o meu amor te iria mudar.<\/p>\n

But that never happened. I wasn\u2019t so important to you to fight for me like your life depends on it. And you managed to hurt me with every action.<\/p>\n

Fizeste-me passar por situa\u00e7\u00f5es impens\u00e1veis dor emocional<\/a> and even if I told you that you were doing me harm, you didn\u2019t stop. You just continued doing things that were good for you, not even feeling remorse for the pain you caused me.<\/p>\n

I still remember your verbal abuse and putting me down every time you didn\u2019t like something I did. Nothing that I would do for us worked for you and you thought that you were the only one who should make important decisions.<\/p>\n

Disseste que me amavas e depois tra\u00edste-me.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Dizias que eu era importante para ti, mas depois menosprezavas-me em frente dos meus amigos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Disseste que \u00edamos durar para sempre; depois tra\u00edste o nosso amor com a primeira mulher que conheceste.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You lied to me everyday just to get what you wanted and I was so blind in love that I couldn\u2019t see it. I refused to believe that you didn\u2019t love me enough and that I didn\u2019t matter to you.<\/p>\n

Continuava a viver no meu mundo de fantasia, pensando que ias mudar e que ias come\u00e7ar a amar-me como no in\u00edcio da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Mas isso nunca aconteceu.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t want to fight for me. You didn\u2019t want to chase me because I was already yours. But the catch is that you should have chased me even if I was yours because that is the point of love.<\/p>\n

Trata-se de tentar e lutar pelo ente querido. \u00c9 tudo uma quest\u00e3o de pequenas coisas, porque s\u00e3o as que mais importam.<\/p>\n

And that was all that I wanted\u2014just a couple of small things to keep me alive. I just needed one small proof that you cared about me and that you wanted us to succeed.<\/p>\n

I wanted you to fight for me, but you couldn\u2019t even do that.<\/p>\n

Magoaste-me tantas vezes e depois usaste as tuas palavras para justificar as tuas ac\u00e7\u00f5es. Mas as ac\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00f3 podem ser justificadas com ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Your sweet words that you will change meant nothing to me because I didn\u2019t have any proof you would do that. I was sick and tired of your manipulation, gaslighting, lying, and controlling.<\/p>\n

Eu s\u00f3 queria afastar-me de ti e de tudo o que representavas. E foi isso que acabei por fazer.<\/p>\n

Quando vi que nunca mudarias e que tentarias sempre fazer-me de parvo, decidi libertar-me de ti.<\/p>\n

But I must admit that it wasn\u2019t easy to do. There were times when I wished you had never existed and there were times when I felt the same about myself.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how hard you hurt me. You were the man I loved the most, but at the same time, you were the one who beat me to an emotional death.<\/p>\n

E enquanto pensava nas consequ\u00eancias da minha rela\u00e7\u00e3o contigo, apercebi-me de que tiraste tudo o que havia de melhor em mim.<\/p>\n

Tu drenaste toda a energia de mim e eu fiquei totalmente entorpecida. S\u00f3 porque estava a tentar proteger-me da poss\u00edvel dor emocional que outro homem me poderia causar, desliguei-me totalmente dos meus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

I blocked them and I didn\u2019t allow anyone to come close to my heart. I made high and thick walls around me so I won\u2019t get hurt again. In that way, I missed the chance to love and to be loved again.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

E quando vi o que tinha feito, acordei de um sonho mau em que tinha estado envolvida durante muito tempo. Apercebi-me que, mesmo que me tenhas mentido e feito todas aquelas coisas desagrad\u00e1veis, eu devia seguir em frente com a minha vida.<\/p>\n

Aceitar que isso aconteceu comigo foi a primeira fase de cura ap\u00f3s a fuga<\/a> uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica, mas precisava mesmo de recuperar completamente.<\/p>\n

After all that you did to me, I promised myself that I will love again, hoping that another man in my life won\u2019t be anything like you. I promised myself that I will open my heart to love despite all the fears and trust issues.<\/p>\n

Prometi a mim pr\u00f3prio que voltaria a amar, apesar de todas as feridas emocionais que ainda estavam presentes. E ao fazer isso, pude finalmente afastar-me de ti. Porque ao abrir o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a um novo amor, poderia curar as minhas feridas e voltar a ser o meu antigo eu.<\/p>\n

Prometi a mim pr\u00f3pria que voltaria a amar, com todo o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, e que nunca deixaria que nenhum homem me magoasse como tu fizeste. Decidi seguir em frente e voltar a ser uma mulher feliz e amada. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

E sei que ver-me assim ser\u00e1 a minha melhor vingan\u00e7a para ti.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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