{"id":17841,"date":"2020-07-19T08:37:14","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T08:37:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17841"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:31:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:31:07","slug":"para-o-tipo-que-esta-sempre-a-deixar-me-e-a-voltar-para-mim-estou-farto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-o-tipo-que-esta-sempre-a-deixar-me-e-a-voltar-para-mim-estou-farto\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o tipo que continua a deixar-me e a voltar para mim: Estou farta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nunca soube qual era a minha posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ti. A nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o era uma montanha-russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es e n\u00e3o no bom sentido.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9 que tiv\u00e9ssemos uma esp\u00e9cie de quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o. N\u00e3o, n\u00e3o tinhas problemas em rotular as coisas. Nunca tiveste problemas em chamar-me tua namorada ou em dizer que t\u00ednhamos uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You never had a problem with theory\u2014it was the practice that was hard for you to accomplish.<\/p>\n<p>O que tu tinhas era um problema em ficar. Nunca saberei se estavas a fugir de mim desde o in\u00edcio ou se, na verdade, estavas a fugir de ti pr\u00f3prio durante todo este tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Seja como for, o objetivo \u00e9 basicamente o mesmo. Eras sempre tu que fugias e eu era sempre eu que te perseguia.<\/p>\n<p>E nunca me disseste a tua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/estou-a-dizer-o-meu-ultimo-adeus-a-ti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">despedida final<\/a>. Because you always knew you had someone to come back to if you weren\u2019t happy wherever you went.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103258\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada em pensamentos profundos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E isso era verdade. Sempre me tiveste para onde voltar. Tinhas sempre o teu santu\u00e1rio, um lar acolhedor \u00e0 tua espera, apesar de tudo o que fazias enquanto estavas fora.<\/p>\n<p>Com o tempo, isto tornou-se um h\u00e1bito teu. Cada vez que te cansavas de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, cada vez que te cansavas de mim, simplesmente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ao-homem-que-me-deixou-sem-dizer-uma-palavra\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">deixa-me sem dizer uma palavra<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, estiveste ausente durante semanas ou meses. E eu passava todo esse tempo \u00e0 espera, pacientemente, que voltasses.<\/p>\n<p>Even when I was petrified that this was your last time leaving me, deep down I always knew you\u2019d be back. And I was always right.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E cada vez que voltavas, amava-te ainda mais.<\/strong> You always promised me that you\u2019d change, telling me that you had finally realized how much you loved me and that you would never leave my side again.<\/p>\n<p>Declaravas o teu amor eterno por mim e isso bastava para me deixar feliz e tranquila.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103259\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de olhos fechados ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And I believed you. I didn\u2019t believe all of this because I thought it was true\u2014I believed in it because I wanted it so badly to be true.<\/p>\n<p>E porque estes foram os \u00fanicos momentos em que senti o teu amor. Eram estes os momentos a que me agarrava sempre que te ias embora.<\/p>\n<p>I kept telling myself that you wouldn\u2019t be coming back to me every time if you didn\u2019t love me. And this was the only thing keeping me sane and keeping me alive.<\/p>\n<p>Passado este per\u00edodo de felicidade m\u00fatua, eu voltava a ter medo.<\/p>\n<p>I was always terrified that you\u2019d leave me, because deep down I knew it was just a matter of time before that would happen.<\/p>\n<p>Estava sempre \u00e0 espera que te fosses embora, embora fosse a \u00faltima coisa que eu queria.<\/p>\n<p>Quando penso nisso, passei a maior parte da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com medo. E esse medo paralisou-me completamente.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103260\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, nunca tiveste medo. Sabias que eu esperaria sempre por ti de bra\u00e7os abertos.<\/p>\n<p>E eu tinha-te sempre de volta, como se nada tivesse acontecido. Permiti sempre que agisses como se nunca tivesses partido e retom\u00e1mos sempre as coisas onde as t\u00ednhamos deixado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But the time has come for me to say I am done and to tell you I\u2019ve had more than enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Deixaste-me. Outra vez. Fizeste tudo o que estavas a fazer durante todos estes anos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nada mudou.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Exceto eu.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know why this time it is different but what I do know is that I can\u2019t wait for you any longer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103261\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada no campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And I don\u2019t want to. I spent years of my life waiting for you. And it\u2019s time for me to finally move on from you for good.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had enough of being your backup plan, your last resort and your safety net. I\u2019m done being there for you when everyone else turns their backs on you.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m done putting my life on hold, while waiting for you to come to your senses.<\/p>\n<p>Porque agora sei que nunca vais mudar. E sei que n\u00e3o estou preparada para passar o resto da minha vida a viver assim.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 eu a dizer-te que tens de me escolher finalmente. N\u00e3o estou a fazer-te um ultimato e n\u00e3o estou a pedir-te que voltes para mim se me quiseres manter.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Isto sou eu a tirar-vos as vossas op\u00e7\u00f5es. Isto sou eu a dizer-vos que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possam fazer <\/strong>mais<strong> para me fazer aceitar-te de volta. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Isto sou eu a afastar-me de ti pela primeira e \u00faltima vez. E isto sou eu a nunca olhar para tr\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103264\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Para o tipo que continua a deixar-me e a voltar para mim, j\u00e1 estou farta\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I never knew where I stood with you. Our relationship was an emotional roller coaster and not in a good way. It is not that we had a kind of almost relationship. No, you had no trouble labeling things. You never had a problem calling me your girlfriend or saying that we were in a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":103262,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17841","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17841","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17841"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17841\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163550,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17841\/revisions\/163550"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103262"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17841"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17841"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17841"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}