{"id":17865,"date":"2018-04-19T11:23:20","date_gmt":"2018-04-19T11:23:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17865"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:08:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:08:46","slug":"por-tua-causa-ja-nao-acredito-em-finais-felizes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/por-tua-causa-ja-nao-acredito-em-finais-felizes\/","title":{"rendered":"Por tua causa, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o acredito em finais felizes"},"content":{"rendered":"

I used to be this innocent little girl who always believed in love. I believed in people and I believed in the power of good. And most of all, I believed in the power of love. Although everyone around me kept telling me I was foolish and naive and that I was living in a dream, I didn\u2019t allow anyone to shatter my own reality. People kept calling me a hopeless, old-fashioned romantic but that didn\u2019t bother me much. I knew I would find my soulmate, someone who I would spend the rest of my life with.<\/span><\/p>\n

When I say I believed in love, I am not trying to tell you that I thought love was perfect. I didn\u2019t think my Prince Charming would come to my rescue and I knew love wasn\u2019t always a bed of roses. But what I did believe in was that love could conquer everyone and everything that was in its way. I believed that everything was possible and achievable if love between two people was strong and honest enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

I hoped there would come a man who wouldn\u2019t wouldn\u2019t be perfect but who would be <\/span>perfeitamente imperfeito<\/span><\/a> for me. A man who would love me despite all my flaws and who would make all of life\u2019s difficulties look easy. A man who would love me unconditionally and who would appreciate and respect me accordingly. A guy who wouldn\u2019t be an immature boy but a real gentleman at all times. A man who would be my happily ever after and who would give me my happy ending that I knew I deserved.<\/span><\/p>\n

E eu acreditava mesmo que este homem se iria cruzar no meu caminho. Podem dizer que eu tinha expectativas irrealistas e que vivia num conto de fadas, mas nunca quis fazer parte deste conceito moderno de namoro. Sempre fui uma rapariga do tipo tudo ou nada e recusava-me a contentar-me com menos.<\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00e9 te conhecer.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you came into my life, you shattered all my beliefs into pieces. You represented everything I didn\u2019t like in people and everything opposite to me. You were a man who didn\u2019t believe in love and you made that very clear from the start. You were a man who thought he could rely on himself only and a man who didn\u2019t get attached easily. But silly me didn\u2019t believe any of this. I thought you needed to be loved for real and that it would make you realize that love really was the most important thing in the world. I knew I was a loving and caring girl and I thought I could prove you wrong. I was determined to show you what you were missing out on because you kept yourself protected from love.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll never know what you saw in me or what attracted me to you. <\/span>I guess we both thought we could change each other\u2019s views or that we could meet each other halfway.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas, infelizmente, isso nunca aconteceu. Quando dei por mim, todos os meus padr\u00f5es e <\/span>factores de rutura de rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><\/a> j\u00e1 tinham desaparecido h\u00e1 muito tempo. Conseguiste mudar a ess\u00eancia de quem eu era e tudo aquilo em que acreditava.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca nos encontr\u00e1mos a meio caminho, mas tu mudaste-me.<\/b> I suffered a lot with you, because you never loved me the way I wanted to be loved. But I don\u2019t blame you for that. I respect the fact that you were honest from the start and the fact that you never promised me much. But that didn\u2019t prevent me from expecting much.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t even blame you for walking away from me. <\/span>Eras algu\u00e9m que nunca soube ficar<\/b> e \u00e9 algo de que sempre tive consci\u00eancia, por muito que tentasse lutar contra isso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas o facto \u00e9 que mudaste a ess\u00eancia de quem eu era. <\/span>Fizeste-me igual a ti.<\/b> Transformaste-me numa mulher negativa e cheia de amargura.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por tua causa, <\/span>Perdi a confian\u00e7a nas pessoas \u00e0 minha volta e, sobretudo, nos homens.<\/b> Desde que partiste, apercebi-me que s\u00f3 podia confiar completamente em mim. Percebi que a maioria das pessoas \u00e9 ego\u00edsta, n\u00e3o importa o quanto lhes d\u00eas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por tua causa, <\/span>I don\u2019t believe in love or in fairy tales anymore.<\/b> Agora, eu sei que \u00e0s vezes <\/span>o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente<\/span><\/a>. Agora, sei que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que se possa fazer para que algu\u00e9m nos ame.<\/span><\/p>\n

E acima de tudo, <\/span>I don\u2019t believe in happy endings anymore. I don\u2019t think we are all destined to have them. And I don\u2019t believe that mine awaits me.<\/b> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I used to be this innocent little girl who always believed in love. I believed in people and I believed in the power of good. And most of all, I believed in the power of love. Although everyone around me kept telling me I was foolish and naive and that I was living in a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":17867,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17865","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/anna-demianenko-12397-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17865","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17865"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17865\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17867"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17865"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17865"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17865"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}