{"id":17899,"date":"2018-04-20T09:48:00","date_gmt":"2018-04-20T09:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17899"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:08:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:08:27","slug":"6-coisas-que-esta-a-fazer-para-atrair-homens-que-estao-muuuito-erradas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-que-esta-a-fazer-para-atrair-homens-que-estao-muuuito-erradas\/","title":{"rendered":"6 coisas que est\u00e1 a fazer para atrair os homens e que est\u00e3o muit\u00edssimo erradas"},"content":{"rendered":"

A vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 um filme rom\u00e2ntico de mau gosto. Um namorico desajeitado n\u00e3o \u00e9 atrativo, pelo menos nem sempre. Por isso, esque\u00e7a tudo o que sabe at\u00e9 agora e veja cuidadosamente onde est\u00e1 o verdadeiro problema.<\/p>\n

Why, despite all your efforts, can\u2019t you attract him and get him to say, \u201cI love you\u201d?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

We are all searching for eternal love, the kind of which turns on the butterflies in your stomach and makes you want to shout and scream with happiness. So, it\u2019s no wonder that women will do practically anything to make that dream come true. Who wouldn\u2019t? Who would deny themself long-term happiness?<\/p>\n

At\u00e9 sabemos usar a manipula\u00e7\u00e3o para fazer com que um rapaz goste de n\u00f3s, lemos centenas de artigos sobre como fazer com que ele goste de n\u00f3s, ou como fazer com que ele sinta a nossa falta, etc., mas nunca paramos para pensar se h\u00e1 alguma coisa que estamos a fazer mal.<\/p>\n

Is there something that we think we\u2019re doing perfectly and actually it provokes the complete opposite reaction, and it scares him away?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Bem, a verdade \u00e9 que s\u00f3 precisa de ser voc\u00ea mesmo<\/a>. That is the first step. Stop reading tips on how to\u2026. whatever, because if something that you\u2019ve read is not something you would normally do, then there is no point in doing it anyway. You don\u2019t want to create a false picture of yourself.<\/p>\n

The most important thing is to act the way you feel and love will knock on your door because despite all our efforts in trying to make men attracted to us, there is that one special person out there waiting for you and you\u2019ll meet sooner or later, no matter what you do. Call me a hopeless romantic but it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that you shouldn\u2019t pay attention to what not to do to get a guy to like you. You\u2019re not changing yourself by doing it, you\u2019re just introducing new slight changes that will essentially work to your benefit. You\u2019ll grow and you\u2019ll become the best version of yourself.<\/p>\n

So, when you look at it, you\u2019re actually doing this for your own sake and on the plus side, you\u2019ll definitely attract a man if you avoid doing some or all of these things:<\/p>\n

1. You\u2019re late to dates<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I know that this isn\u2019t the case with all women but it happens all the time. If you\u2019re not one of them, just ignore this one and move on to the next thing you should never do. If you are always late, stick around and see how to deal with this. Some women think that by showing up late to a date, the guy will want them even more, because he is waiting for them.<\/p>\n

Actually, that is not quite the truth. Think about it\u2014maybe by showing up late you\u2019re showing him disrespect and making him feel bad because you don\u2019t care about his time. Try to avoid doing this and let your other qualities shine and leave him speechless.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re all dressed up 24\/7<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I know that most of you will say that you are dressing up because of yourself and you want to look good because you want to feel good. I know you\u2019ll say that you like wearing full makeup but if you\u2019re doing this because you\u2019re hoping you\u2019ll see him somewhere, then admit to yourself that you want to look good just in case you meet him on the street.<\/p>\n

But you should keep in mind that men prefer women without much makeup. Actually, when it looks like you\u2019re wearing no make-up, with a nude and clean look. So, try being natural because it\u2019s way more attractive.<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re obsessed with the way your body looks<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

First and most importantly, you should never change for anybody\u2019s sake. No matter how you look and how much you weigh, if he likes you, he likes you for who you are as a person and not because of the way you look. So, the initial attraction may depend on the way you look but you\u2019re searching for something more meaningful and deeper, a relationship that will last.<\/p>\n

And when you think about it, most men like women who have some curves and are not only skin and bones. So, don\u2019t ever starve yourself hoping that is the key to attract him and mant\u00ea-lo interessado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019re laughing at all of his jokes<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Never overdo it. If something is not funny, don\u2019t force it to be funny because it won\u2019t make him feel better. He\u2019ll probably notice the difference between a fake smile and a real one. And even if he doesn\u2019t, faking laughter won\u2019t magically turn him into a humorous person. Don\u2019t encourage him to do it if he\u2019s bad at it. This way, if you\u2019re not laughing your ass off at every joke he tells, he\u2019ll probably get the hint and give up in time. Actually, you\u2019ll be doing him a favor.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re pretending you like sports<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Okay, let\u2019s face it, you know as much about sports as he knows about fashion. So, don\u2019t pretend to like it because he\u2019ll figure out you\u2019re lying sooner or later when you say something that you think makes sense but is actually absurd.<\/p>\n

Sport connects people, and even if you succeed in tricking him that you like sports and you bond, that won\u2019t last forever. You\u2019re not being yourself and he\u2019ll figure out sooner or later that you were lying and your whole relationship will go down in flames.<\/p>\n

6. You\u2019re agreeing with him all the time<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

You have to have your own opinions. Men don\u2019t like women who won\u2019t speak their mind about something if they have something to say. Men like women who can stand up for themself and prove a point.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say you are in the middle of an argument and you think what you\u2019re saying is right. Stand up to him and try to prove your point. If you agree with him on everything, there is no excitement and where there is no excitement, it gets boring. You don\u2019t want it to get boring.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Life is not a cheesy romantic movie. Clumsy flirting is not attractive, at least not always. So, forget everything you know so far and carefully see where the actual problem is. Why, despite all your efforts, can\u2019t you attract him and get him to say, \u201cI love you\u201d? We are all searching for eternal love,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":17900,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29647],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17899","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29647,"label":"seducing men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/bench-couple-fight-984949.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29647,"name":"seducing men","slug":"seducing-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29647,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. It's about learning to be a woman men will stick to like glue. If you're ready to become her, dive in!","parent":29643,"count":161,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29647,"category_count":161,"category_description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. It's about learning to be a woman men will stick to like glue. If you're ready to become her, dive in!","cat_name":"seducing men","category_nicename":"seducing-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17899","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17899"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17899\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17900"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17899"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17899"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17899"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}