{"id":17908,"date":"2020-04-20T10:31:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-20T10:31:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17908"},"modified":"2022-02-28T02:27:20","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T02:27:20","slug":"estar-com-alguem-que-nao-te-ama-apesar-dos-teus-defeitos-mas-por-causa-deles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estar-com-alguem-que-nao-te-ama-apesar-dos-teus-defeitos-mas-por-causa-deles\/","title":{"rendered":"Estar com algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o te ama apesar dos teus defeitos, mas por causa deles"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o \u00e9s perfeito. Nenhum de n\u00f3s \u00e9. E sabes isso muito bem. E espero que n\u00e3o tente tornar-se perfeito.<\/p>\n

Because you know that it would be impossible, even if you wanted to. And let me tell you one thing\u2014there is nothing wrong with that.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s temos defeitos e imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es. E h\u00e1 algumas coisas que todos n\u00f3s gostar\u00edamos de mudar em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. E tudo isso faz parte do ser humano. Tudo isso faz parte de ser mulher.<\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de se concentrar nos seus defeitos e imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es, concentre-se nas coisas que gosta em si.<\/p>\n

I am not saying you shouldn\u2019t work on your personality and I am definitely not telling you not to improve yourself.<\/p>\n

I am just advising you to accept yourself for who you really are. I am advising you to accept the things you can\u2019t change about yourself and to start seeing them as your unique qualities.<\/p>\n

But it doesn\u2019t mean you should be insecure about your imperfections. It doesn\u2019t mean you should hide them from yourself and from others.<\/p>\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, deve valoriz\u00e1-las porque elas fizeram de si a pessoa que \u00e9 hoje.<\/p>\n

Together with all of your qualities, they impacted you as a person and without them, you wouldn\u2019t be where you are now.<\/p>\n

As tuas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o as coisas que te fazem destacar-se das outras mulheres<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o as coisas que o tornam especial e diferente e s\u00e3o coisas de que se deve orgulhar.<\/p>\n

Por isso, nunca deve permitir que ningu\u00e9m, muito menos um tipo qualquer, a deixe insegura pelo facto de n\u00e3o ser perfeita.<\/p>\n

Nunca deves estar com um homem que fa\u00e7a tudo para destruir a tua auto-confian\u00e7a e para te garantir que n\u00e3o \u00e9s suficientemente boa ou que n\u00e3o \u00e9s digna. Porque tu sabes que \u00e9s!<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, devias esperar por um homem<\/a> que vos amar\u00e1 n\u00e3o apesar de todas as vossas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es, mas por causa delas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When this man finally walks into your life, you will feel like you\u2019ve known him forever.<\/p>\n

Sentir\u00e3o que as vossas almas j\u00e1 se encontraram. And that\u2019s why you\u2019ll feel like you can be your true self in front of him. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never have to pretend to be someone you are not for this guy to like you more.<\/p>\n

Instead, you will know that you can show him all of your vulnerabilities and bad sides, without ever being afraid that you\u2019d be ridiculed or judged.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Este homem vai ver-te como \u00e9s verdadeiramente e vai aceitar-te por isso. Ele nunca tentar\u00e1 mudar-te, mas far\u00e1 de ti a melhor vers\u00e3o de ti mesmo, empurrando-te sempre para a frente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Em vez de brincar com a sua mente e alimentar as suas inseguran\u00e7as, ele far\u00e1 algo completamente oposto.<\/p>\n

Ele vai aumentar a sua autoestima<\/a> e far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para te provar que \u00e9s mais do que suficiente para ele.<\/p>\n

Este homem vai apaixonar-se<\/a> com cada parte de si, incluindo as suas inseguran\u00e7as, os seus lados maus <\/strong>e os seus defeitos. Ele am\u00e1-la-\u00e1 com a mesma intensidade no seu pior e no seu melhor e isso ser\u00e1 o maior sinal do seu enorme amor por si.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E as coisas que ele mais gostar\u00e1 em si ser\u00e3o as suas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

He will love the fact that you are so special and that you don\u2019t try to fit society\u2019s norms.<\/p>\n

Ele amar\u00e1 cada defeito que tiveres porque saber\u00e1 que todas as tuas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es te tornaram assim.<\/p>\n

No, he won\u2019t think you are perfect. But you\u2019ll be perfectly imperfect for him and that will be more than enough.<\/p>\n

Ele vai pensar que voc\u00eas os dois s\u00e3o perfeitos um para o outro e isso ser\u00e1 o seu sonho tornado realidade.<\/p>\n

I know you probably don\u2019t believe me that this guy even exists but he really does and he is waiting for you just around the corner. He is your uma combina\u00e7\u00e3o feita no c\u00e9u<\/a> e a tua outra metade.<\/p>\n

And you just have to be a little more patient, because he is out there! And when you finally meet him, you\u2019ll immediately know that he is the one.<\/p>\n

\"Estar<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You are not perfect. None of us is. And you know that very well. And hopefully, you don\u2019t try to become perfect. Because you know that it would be impossible, even if you wanted to. And let me tell you one thing\u2014there is nothing wrong with that. We all have flaws and imperfections. And there…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17908","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17908","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17908"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17908\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17908"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17908"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17908"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}