{"id":17985,"date":"2018-04-24T09:14:00","date_gmt":"2018-04-24T09:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17985"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:39:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:39:23","slug":"a-feia-verdade-de-amar-alguem-que-nunca-nos-amara-de-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-feia-verdade-de-amar-alguem-que-nunca-nos-amara-de-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"A feia verdade de amar algu\u00e9m que nunca te amar\u00e1 de volta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sabes qual \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de amar algu\u00e9m que sabes que nunca te vai amar de volta? Sabes qual \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de te apaixonares enquanto tentas tanto n\u00e3o o fazer? Sabes qual \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de te apaixonares por algu\u00e9m que sabes que nunca ser\u00e1 teu?<\/p>\n

Sente-se vazio.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sente-se quebrado<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Desde o primeiro momento at\u00e9 ao \u00faltimo. Desde a primeira vez que os viste at\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00faltima vez que prometeste a ti pr\u00f3prio n\u00e3o voltar a pensar neles. E depois quebraste essa promessa todos os dias, todas as horas e todos os minutos. E a esperan\u00e7a quebra-te de novo.<\/p>\n

Sente-se oco.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sente-se cansado.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You are trying so hard not to have hopes but that foolish love gets you every time. When you wake up in bed alone, it\u2019s so easy to imagine him being by your side. It\u2019s so easy to feel his palm pressed against your cheek. And when the loneliness hits you, when you touch the cold, empty bed, you realize once more that your heart played games on your mind. You realize once more that foi o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que se partiu<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sente-se exausto.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sente-se consumido.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Consumed by your own love for the man who will never be yours. Consumed by all the times you swore to move on and you still went back. By all the times your heart started racing when you saw him and then dropped the moment he left. By all the times life made clear that the two of you are just not meant to be, yet you are still hoping. You are still believing, even though you know damn well there\u2019s nothing to hope for. But how are you going to survive if you don\u2019t? How am I going to survive?<\/p>\n

Sente-se perdido.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sente-se derrotado.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Not because there was something you lost or because there was something that went wrong. It never even started in the first place and that\u2019s what kills you. There was nothing to lose, because you never had it. All that amor incondicional<\/a> que tiveste e todos os sonhos que sonhaste nunca ver\u00e3o a luz do dia.<\/p>\n

Mant\u00e9m-nas seguras, guardadas dentro das paredes do seu pr\u00f3prio universo, esperando que nunca saiam. Esperando que ningu\u00e9m as veja, para que ningu\u00e9m saiba o quanto est\u00e1s a sofrer. Porque sabes o que v\u00e3o dizer. Sabe como v\u00e3o julgar. Por isso, amas e magoas em sil\u00eancio, enquanto os gritos ecoam dentro da tua alma. Gritos de ora\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o respondidas e express\u00f5es de amor n\u00e3o retribu\u00eddas.<\/p>\n

Sente-se aterrorizado.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sente-se esgotado.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Quando \u00e9 que isto vai acabar? Quando \u00e9 que este amor torturante vai parar? Est\u00e1 a fazer a mesma pergunta vezes sem conta, aterrorizado com a resposta que pode obter. Com medo de o deixar ir, porque isso significaria que nunca existiu. Significar\u00e1 que amaste em v\u00e3o. Significar\u00e1 que esperou em v\u00e3o. E n\u00e3o est\u00e1s preparado para enfrentar isso. N\u00e3o est\u00e1 preparado para o entregar.<\/p>\n

Mas precisa de o fazer.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Preciso de o fazer.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

We both know that we deserve more than this hell we are going through. We both know that we deserve more than feeling empty all the time. We deserve that love that will fill us up with joy and make us feel like we can conquer the world. We deserve that love that will love us back, love that won\u2019t break us.<\/p>\n

Merecemos ser felizes.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Merecemos ser amados.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you know how it feels to love someone you know will never love you back? Do you know how it feels falling in love while trying so hard not to? Do you know how it feels falling for someone you know will never be yours? You feel empty. You feel broken. From the first…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":17986,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17985","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/daniel-apodaca-425967-unsplash.jpg",800,549,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17985","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17985"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17985\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17986"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17985"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17985"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17985"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}