{"id":18024,"date":"2020-07-25T06:48:47","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T06:48:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18024"},"modified":"2022-01-21T12:45:55","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T12:45:55","slug":"e-assim-que-se-sente-quando-se-tenta-seguir-em-frente-sem-uma-conclusao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-sente-quando-se-tenta-seguir-em-frente-sem-uma-conclusao\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que se sente quando se tenta seguir em frente sem uma conclus\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

A coisa mais dif\u00edcil em qualquer separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 seguir em frente com a nossa vida.<\/p>\n

You shared everything with this one person for a certain amount of time and he wasn\u2019t just your romantic partner\u2014in time, he had become your friend and family.<\/p>\n

E agora, de repente, esse homem est\u00e1 fora de cena. E enquanto ele continua a viver a sua vida, voc\u00ea fica sozinha, a tentar apanhar os seus pr\u00f3prios peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

Of course you miss him but what is even harder is to try to continue living your life as if nothing had happened. You don\u2019t know where or how to begin because this man was everything to you.<\/p>\n

You see yourself standing in one spot and you feel lost because you simply don\u2019t know what to do without him in your life.<\/p>\n

Esfor\u00e7a-se muito para o esquecer e a todas as mem\u00f3rias que partilharam, mas normalmente isso \u00e9 tudo menos f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t believe the person you planned your future with has left you hanging like this and you can\u2019t imagine yourself ever being with another man.<\/p>\n

Mas seguir em frente<\/a> \u00e9 especialmente dif\u00edcil quando n\u00e3o se tem encerramento<\/a>. Todas as hist\u00f3rias t\u00eam o seu in\u00edcio e o seu desenrolar e \u00e9 natural que deseje que tenham tamb\u00e9m um final.<\/p>\n

Enquanto esteve com este homem, esperava ter um final feliz com ele, mas agora percebe que isso nunca vai acontecer.<\/p>\n

At\u00e9 o facto de se aperceberem de que tudo acabou entre voc\u00eas os dois \u00e9 bastante dif\u00edcil e desafiante. \u00c9 um processo que requer muito esfor\u00e7o, tempo e energia.<\/p>\n

But somehow, with a lot of pain, you grew to accept this. You kept telling yourself that this man is a part of your past and that he isn\u2019t coming back and with time, you got used to this idea.<\/p>\n

But what you can\u2019t seem to accept is that he never gave you closure.<\/strong> Deixou-a sem dizer uma palavra ou nunca lhe deu uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o para a sua partida.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, sente-se como se ele lhe tivesse sido arrancado, como se lhe tivesse sido roubado e como se lhe tivesse escapado das m\u00e3os.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And now you are left alone thinking about all the things that happened and all the things that could have happened if he\u2019d stayed.<\/p>\n

And those \u2018what ifs\u2019 are killing you the most. You simply don\u2019t know what happened and you are trying to put your relationship puzzle together.<\/p>\n

But you are missing some crucial pieces\u2014you are missing his side of the story.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know why he left you and what went wrong all of a sudden and you can\u2019t accept the fact that these are the things you\u2019ll never find out about.<\/p>\n

You keep wondering if there was something you could\u2019ve done to make him stay or at least to give you an explanation.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Continua a questionar tudo o que se passou entre voc\u00eas os dois. Rebobina cada pequena situa\u00e7\u00e3o da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o na sua cabe\u00e7a, tentando encontrar uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o para o facto de ele a ter deixado.<\/p>\n

Perguntamo-nos constantemente se fizemos algo que afugentou-o<\/a> e, por vezes, at\u00e9 nos culpamos por tudo o que aconteceu de errado na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mas as respostas que procura com tanta paix\u00e3o n\u00e3o est\u00e3o em lado nenhum. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Sente-se preso no passado e na sua pr\u00f3pria cabe\u00e7a, pensando em diferentes cen\u00e1rios do que aconteceu e em como as coisas poderiam ter sido diferentes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O pior \u00e9 que nunca tiveste a oportunidade de lhe dizer o que sentias. There are so many things you would like to say to this man and even more questions you\u2019d like to ask him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas sabes que ele n\u00e3o merece nada de ti. N\u00e3o p\u00e1ra de se perguntar como \u00e9 que ele a pode ter deixado assim.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

E, naturalmente, sente-se ressentido. Ficamos com toneladas de rancores. Questiona toda a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e pergunta a si pr\u00f3pria se este homem alguma vez a amou para a poder deixar assim.<\/p>\n

Gradually, you feel like you are going crazy, looking for answers you\u2019ll never get.<\/p>\n

Sentimos que podemos seguir em frente com a nossa vida no momento em que ouvimos a sua vers\u00e3o da hist\u00f3ria, no momento em que juntamos todas as pe\u00e7as.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o estou aqui para vos dar falsas esperan\u00e7as. A dura verdade \u00e9 que \u00e9 improv\u00e1vel que obtenha respostas. Provavelmente, nunca conseguir\u00e1 o encerramento que tanto deseja.<\/p>\n

But that is something you have to accept and something you have to live with, the same way you\u2019ve accepted the fact that this man is not in your life. <\/strong><\/p>\n

E isso \u00e9 algo pelo qual nunca nos devemos culpar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He was the one who left and he was the one whose duty it was to give you the closure you needed. But he didn\u2019t do that and he will probably never do it.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se quiser encontre a sua paz interior<\/a>, you have to try very hard to forgive this guy for everything he did and especially for everything he didn\u2019t do. <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso aceitar as desculpas que nunca recebemos e tentar deix\u00e1-lo no passado, onde ele pertence.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E, acima de tudo, tem de deixar de se questionar sobre a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e sobre o seu fim.<\/p>\n

As coisas aconteceram como aconteceram e isso \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que precisa de saber.<\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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