{"id":18035,"date":"2020-07-11T09:12:16","date_gmt":"2020-07-11T09:12:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18035"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:45:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:45:36","slug":"8-sinais-subtis-de-manipulacao-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-subtis-de-manipulacao-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"8 sinais mais comuns de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

A manipula\u00e7\u00e3o nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 uma ocorr\u00eancia muito comum que a maioria mestres manipuladores <\/a> conseguem safar-se, gra\u00e7as \u00e0s suas manhas e poderes de persuas\u00e3o subtis.
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J\u00e1 alguma vez se perguntou se isto j\u00e1 lhe aconteceu sem ter consci\u00eancia disso? <\/i>
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It usually starts with little things. One day, you wake up and you realize that you\u2019ve been doing things lately that you normally wouldn\u2019t do but you aren\u2019t too alarmed about it yet so you just brush it off. <\/p>\n

You don\u2019t give it too much thought and you just go about your day. Then you start sensing that your partner has been starting to twist and turn your words and use them against you.<\/p>\n

You feel violated and completely taken aback because he\u2019s so sneaky when doing it. <\/p>\n

Master manipulators have a way of doing things that makes everything seem like it\u2019s totally your fault.<\/p>\n

Fazem-nos sentir completamente loucos e questionamos o nosso pr\u00f3prio discernimento. <\/p>\n

Sente que tudo o que faz e diz come\u00e7a a morder-lhe no rabo, porque ele faz sempre parecer que tem m\u00e1s inten\u00e7\u00f5es, quando na verdade \u00e9 ele que vira tudo o que diz e faz contra si.
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You start feeling powerless and like you\u2019re no longer in control of what you do or say and it feels like a bottomless hole you can\u2019t get away from. <\/i>
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Manipulation in relationships is usually evident in a partner who seems to be in your head at all times and before you\u2019re even aware, he makes all your decisions for you.<\/p>\n

But he is so sly at doing it that you don\u2019t even realize it until it\u2019s too late! <\/p>\n

Alguns manipuladores s\u00e3o t\u00e3o bons que quase n\u00e3o se consegue apanh\u00e1-los em flagrante, mas se acha que isso pode estar a acontecer consigo, fique atento, pois compilei uma lista dos sinais mais comuns de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es que o ajudar\u00e3o a chegar ao fundo da quest\u00e3o! <\/p>\n

Se reconhecer estes sinais e conseguir admitir para si pr\u00f3prio que est\u00e1 a ser v\u00edtima de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o, pode treinar-se para lutar contra isso <\/a> e acabar com isto de uma vez por todas!
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Bullying<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

At first, it seems like he’s joking around but when you think about it, he’s not laughing with you, he’s actually laughing at you. <\/p>\n

The tone that he speaks with and that look in his eyes tell you that he isn’t joking. By bullying, he wants to make sure that you are ‘obedient’ and that he has the upper hand.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even realize it but his jokes are a huge bandeira vermelha <\/a> because he’s actually manipulating you into thinking that you are less worthy or that you suck at something. <\/p>\n

Why? Well, when the person you love repeats these things every day, it simply starts to become natural, like it’s always been this way. <\/p>\n

You can’t say no<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You simply aren’t able to say no. It doesn’t matter how many times you try to, just the thought of turning down a request from your partner scares you. <\/p>\n

Saying ‘no’ just feels like a crazy idea.<\/p>\n

You feel weak and helpless every time you try to disobey him, even though you aren’t really sure why it is like that.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, the things he asks of you are impossible for you to do and you know that the right thing would be to say ‘no’ but at the same time, you just can’t seem to get yourself to say it. <\/p>\n

The sneakiest thing about this is that he makes you feel like you\u2019re a bad person if you say no!<\/p>\n

He appears to have good intentions (which is never true) and if you refuse, you\u2019re the one with a problem. <\/p>\n

Por isso, acabamos sempre por dizer que sim, porque ele sabe exatamente como nos manipular para fazermos tudo o que ele quer sem parecermos manipuladores ou mand\u00f5es. <\/p>\n

Justifica as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es <\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Not just your own but his too. You try to find a reason for the way you’re both behaving. <\/p>\n

It’s like you’re always trying to find an excuse for doing everything he asks of you.<\/p>\n

You also want to justify his behavior, like he needs something from you and you’re the only one who can give him that. <\/p>\n

Mesmo para si, as explica\u00e7\u00f5es parecem terr\u00edveis, mas continua a encontr\u00e1-las e a justificar o seu comportamento e o dele. <\/p>\n

\u00c9 assim que ele faz as coisas. Obriga-nos a arranjar desculpas para ele!<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s not right but it feels easier if you try to believe yourself that there might be a good explanation for his behavior, even though there never is.<\/p>\n

If you really loved me\u2026 <\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This one shows how bad your partner really is. If he makes you do things by saying, \u201cIf you loved me, you would do this for me,\u201d then I don’t know why you’re still with him. <\/p>\n

Esta frase significa que ele equipara o vosso amor <\/a> com o que fazes por ele.<\/p>\n

A coisa mais comum para a qual os homens usam esta frase \u00e9 o sexo, fazendo-a acreditar que o sexo \u00e9 o \u00fanico sinal verdadeiro de amor que existe.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you really loved me\u2026\u201d is kind of obvious but he can also put the same request into different words that have the same meaning. <\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma das mais comuns e perigosas. Ele usa as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e leva-a a fazer coisas por ele, porque sabe exatamente onde bater onde d\u00f3i mais. <\/p>\n

Uma pessoa que o amasse nunca usaria o seu amor como desculpa para o chantagear a fazer o que quer que fosse.<\/p>\n

Always remember that! This man doesn\u2019t love you, he is only using you for his own satisfaction. <\/p>\n

Culpa-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter how many times someone told you that it wasn’t your fault, you can’t stop blaming yourself because in your own mind, you are a bad partner. <\/p>\n

Sente-se mal por tirar algum tempo para relaxar porque, na sua cabe\u00e7a, devia estar com o seu parceiro, a faz\u00ea-lo feliz. <\/p>\n

And this is how he gets you. He weasels his way into your head and stays there for as long as you\u2019re not obeying his every subtle order. <\/p>\n

Quando come\u00e7ar a culpar-se por fazer algo fora da rela\u00e7\u00e3o e por ter uma vida real fora dele, reconhe\u00e7a que essa \u00e9 a forma de ele fazer jogos mentais consigo. <\/p>\n

You have every right to do whatever you want and hang out with whomever you like and when you feel like a bad person for that, know that\u2019s it\u2019s time to admit to yourself what is happening and confront it head-on. <\/p>\n

Chantagem emocional <\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Dear, emotional blackmail is the worse type of manipulation. It’s disguised as care and love but it’s actually awful. <\/p>\n

Telling someone, \u201cI would die without you,\u201d is like telling them that if they left, you’d go off and kill yourself.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que isso o faria sentir-se mal, como se fosse respons\u00e1vel se eles se matassem. <\/p>\n

But please realize that no one\u2019s well-being is your sole responsibility. Don\u2019t accept responsibility for another person\u2019s shitty, low-blow actions or threats! <\/p>\n

Se ele quiser fazer alguma coisa, vai faz\u00ea-la independentemente de si, por isso nunca deixe que ele a fa\u00e7a sentir respons\u00e1vel pela sua felicidade. Isso \u00e9 inteiramente da responsabilidade dele! <\/p>\n

Gaslighting <\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O gaslighting \u00e9 uma forma comum de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n

Geralmente \u00e9 \u00f3bvio, se prestarmos aten\u00e7\u00e3o e procurarmos os sinais.<\/p>\n

For example, he says you didn’t say something or that he didn’t say something, or he reinvents the past and makes up new scenarios that make you believe that you have completely lost your mind. <\/p>\n

If he’s been doing it for quite some time now, you’ll feel like you can’t even trust your own mind, so you start trusting him completely. <\/p>\n

Sente que precisa do seu parceiro ao vosso lado <\/a> to feel sane, as you\u2019re seemingly losing it when he\u2019s not there.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 ele que nos mant\u00e9m sob controlo e s\u00f3 ao seu lado nos sentimos s\u00e3os e normais. <\/p>\n

Necessidade conveniente <\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say you and your partner need to go somewhere but you know he really doesn\u2019t want to come along, so he suddenly starts feeling under the weather and cannot seem to go. <\/p>\n

Or you need him to clean up after himself, as he\u2019s made a complete mess of the house but he suddenly has a throbbing headache and he can\u2019t move from the couch or listen to you yell. <\/p>\n

This is why it\u2019s called convenient neediness. It only happens when the manipulator needs it as his way out of something!<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 f\u00e1cil de detetar, por isso, se isto acontecer na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, reconhe\u00e7a-o e ponha-lhe um fim.<\/p>\n

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